I just tired dating with someone with wrong men, especially drama and cheater. What should I do then? Every single man, he just take me to their apartment and do nothing with waste of time. Do you think is wrong idea?, when a person feel alone, he just want you to sleep over over the weekend. When I'm coming home, he call me 3x to spend time more at his apartment. I just tired of being aggressive by a man since now.
2007-02-14 05:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, just tell guys that you are dating for the first time that you want to take things VERY SLOWLY, and if they don't get the hint, you just need to back out. Firmly say "no" to their advances and leave.
2007-02-14 05:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't even trust that person because some men just want to have a good time in their bed not for serious relationship by sleep together in the weekend. I've been experience dating with someone and end up to slept together at his apartment, especially i lose my virginity by a person I've been dating with. It is bad idea, you should to think twice before start happening to you with this person you've been out with.
2007-02-14 13:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sara H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you go to their apartments? If a guy is really interested in you he will take you out to have fun together.Make this clear right from the start that if all they are interested in is a roll in the hay to look elsewhere. Demand respect girl!
2007-02-14 13:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are a virgin and that you are waiting for marriage. Then you will weed out the guys that only want you for sex. Or, maybe I'm wrong and they'll want you more. Either way, don't give in unless it feels right to you!
2007-02-14 13:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are being too easy for guys to do that to you. tell them you aren't looking for a relationship just yet, you just want to go out on dates and have fun. refuse to go to their apartment or house or anything like that. make them feel like if they like you, they have to make you feel special and important. make them feel like they should spend money on you before trying to have you sleep over. then maybe you'll find the right guy
2007-02-14 13:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by little missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what is referred to as a Booty Call. If you are satisfied with that I just hope you use protection. If you are hoping for a relationship try to keep it sex-less until you and he are committed.
good luck & happy v day
2007-02-14 13:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hanging around the wrong types of guys.
2007-02-14 13:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is acting like a real jerk,I'd say u tell him NO and drop him...
2007-02-14 13:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by chuck h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using u.
2007-02-14 13:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let him know that u make your own decisions and that you don't need people making them for you!!!
2007-02-14 13:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋