my ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago..he has OCD, ADHD, and is a compulsive liar..he was in great depression for about 1 and 1/2 years and our relationship was for 2 years.recently to our romantic relationship we were good friends so i always saw it necissary to stick by his side and be there4him.anyways about a month ago he started taking antidepressants&i supported his decision..however his personality did a 180(many people think hes bipolar&his meds made him manic)&he broke up w.me impulsively about 2 weeks ago..he did it with no remorse&now hes going around having sex w. random girls(even tho he and i never had sex)&he's taking a different girl out2dinner valentines day..however, yesterday he signed on IM&clicked on my webshots link in my info twice within5mins. of signing on.i realize he has some problems that i shouldnt have2deal with but i still care about him so much..has he moved on, or do you think he's just trying2be strong and make me think he's happier than he really is
2007-02-14 06:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it doesn't sound like he misses you. And more importantly, it sounds like you are better off without him, so stop worrying about whether or not he misses you. He's gone and you have the perfect opportunity to get on with the rest of your life. So stop wasting time wondering what your ex is doing and get on with the rest of your life.
2007-02-14 06:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong people. Ask him to stop with the bull and lay it on the line. Tell him that you need to be able to move in one direction or another...this middle stuff is not good for either of you. It is very common to want to return to happy when you are unhappy. We loose sight of what made us unhappy about relationships when we are unhappy in general. IT sounds as if this guy needs to be happy on his own before he can be happy with someone else, or make someone else happy. You are not a therapist, you are not trained to deal with his problems, and they are his problems. With all this in mind, and all the unhappiness you have gone through, are you so sure you really would want to get back into the same mess you just got out of? Stop worrying about him and worry about yourself. You must be YOUR number one at this time, and at all future times. Without your being number one, you can be of no use to anyone else. Sorry to sound so harsh, but all I say is just common sense. Good luck
2007-02-14 14:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... I don't think he knows what he wants.
I admire your efforts to stick by him... I do, but you have to ask yourself, do you want to be tied down to someone like that ??
On anti-depressants and the whole nine yards... nothing against him but think of your future.
2 years really isn't that long... move on.
Personally, I think someone like that will just bring you down... but even with all of the advice in the world, you have to make your own decision in the end.
Good Luck !!!
2007-02-14 15:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he misses you or not is anyones guess. From the problems you have listed it changes from moment to moment for him anyway. He is not stable, he needs more help than you can give him. He needs no other distractions, he needs to get into therapy and on other meds possibly to help with his mania.
Let him go. Let him start his journey to heal. You move on to your life and worry about you.
2007-02-14 14:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move and and find out with is best for you. Sounds like he has a lot of issues and he has to resolve them, you cannot. I am sure he misses you but you have to ask yourself 'is this the kind of relationship you want for the rest of your life'.
2007-02-14 14:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn V. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read it, then reread it, and it contains obviously false information (was part of this about pathological lying?), so I asked myself what kind of abberant personality am I dealing with here?
2007-02-14 14:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he moved on months ago, he just brought it to the floor front with you. You need to move on honey, you don't need anyone like that anyway, you'd have tooooo many emotions to deal with.
2007-02-14 14:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sound like he moved on but I believe that you would deserve better and he doesn't sound like he is the one for you.
2007-02-14 14:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Trey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see yall broke up and you miss him yeah he miss you so much turst me he love you verey much yall broke up he move on and you need to move on too so call him and ask him like this are you missing me if he say no tell him like this i miss you so much i was just seeing was you missing me
2007-02-14 14:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. LOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy he sounds like a gem
2007-02-14 14:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by twatwaffle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋