Well basically i made a question the other day about what i should do about the girl i like, well ive tried to progress but when ever i say does she want to meet up she keeps throwing in the "whos comin along"? and i think thats a sign i should give up... it must mean she's not interested right?
I mean today we were discussin how valentines is pointless, although she wished me a happy valentines day etc, we didnt buy each other presents or cards so that i also presume is a bad sign lol :( I presume i should give up right? I also asked her why she was avoidin me it seemed, and it only seemed she wanted to talk when she needed help with something, she replied with i was the only guy who could do it for her which again i was told is a bad thing. so please advise sorry for similar thread again :S but reaaaaly confused and need your help :(
2007-02-14 06:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Who else is coming line says, "I don't want to go out alone with you." She would only get you a card if she was interested, and she's trying to tell you she likes you as a person but not romantically. If she tells you her troubles she probably sees you more as a brother figure than a romance. Don't push it, find someone else. You'll just get hurt if you keep pressuring her, because she'll say something really direct that you don't want to hear.
2007-02-14 06:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop presuming and just get to the point with her.
Valentine day is pointless, you should show love everyday not just when card companies tell you to. if you only like her, and are not actually "with her" then why would you buy Valentines presents for each other?
she obviously has no idea how you feel so tell her.
if she says "who else is coming", say "nobody else".
you need to get some common sense and balls and just talk to this girl. stop messing round. if you want her, make a definite move. stop listening to other people and stop presuming things.
2007-02-14 07:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her bluff. When she asks who else is coming, have a list ready. Invite those people along and make it a group thing. Don't ask why she is avoiding you...that sounds stalkerish. Do a group date type thing and hopefully that makes her comfortable. She may just be shy...she may be a *****, but design the date based on what she has told you. Make it a public place as well...bowling or something like that so you can talk.
2007-02-14 06:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she just thinks of you as a friend. Hence "who's coming along?". If it's a group thing she'd be in but if it's a one on one date type of thing she wouldn't. I can see how it would all be confusing but there's some pretty clear signs there. Sorry, best of luck.
2007-02-14 06:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too far up her butt. Give it a rest for a while and maybe she will come around. And getting her something like flowers would be a sweet gesture that is not too over the top.
2007-02-14 06:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, stop panicking, stop assuming little thing is against you, act like a man not a wuss, ask her out on a date - just ask - say it is just the two of you because you want to spend time with her, talk to her straight.
2007-02-14 06:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by TreesRGreen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, either she is very dense or she sees you as a friend only. I suggest moving on.
2007-02-14 06:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts are correct. Find someone else.
2007-02-14 06:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit beating her bush and ask if ya can get ya self sum if she wants ya she will smile if not you willprobably get smacked1
and he she loves ya you will get both
2007-02-14 06:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋