I know a colleague who is sending me mixed signals. We do not see often .
I am having trouble understanding what the person thinks.That person's birthday is coming this week . I am wondering should I even bother to wish the person..leave alone sending cards and giving presents. I am not attracted to the person but would like to be friends . I just want to understand where do our relationship stand?
Any suggestions are welcome.
2007-02-14 06:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by oh my! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have gone out for lunch once.
2007-02-14 06:22:59 · update #1
It doesn't sound like you have a relationship, it sounds like you are coworkers who seldom see each other, aren't close, and don't share a friendship. Saying "happy birthday" to someone is a common courtesy and won't be mistaken for anything else.
2007-02-14 06:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has come up in conversation that you know of this persons Birthday. A simple "Happy Birthday" should be enough. If you are not interested that is. If you pursue this Birthday with a card or a gift "you" might be the one who will be sending mixed signals back. Keep it as a simple verbal greeting.
2007-02-14 06:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a simillar situation with someone I knew from high school who I ran into and he was really rude to me and I sent him a birthday ecard and he didnt even bother to pick it up which told me he just deleted it. I wouldnt waste your time because someone who appreciates and respects you would be glad to accept a birthday wish from someone who cares enough to think that much of them to wish them a happy birthday.
2007-02-14 06:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a nice card is good. Get a happy birthday card that does not send messaged of love, companionship etc.
2007-02-14 06:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wish them a happy birthday see what there reaction is!
2007-02-14 06:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship stands where you put it...friends. Give a card or not. My co-workers and I receive a cake and card...I don't take it that they want me.
2007-02-14 06:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might want to be large .. If u might want to commence conversing and want him for my area..If no longer Then textual content him..or deliver him A Greeting Card,B'day Messages,B'day Greeting on cyber web.. yet when u Are his proper buddy then it might want to be large if U called him And met him and wanted him for my area and Be with Him..
2016-11-03 10:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋