Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

There is this guy who has a relationship with his girl friend for ages, but he suddently decided to ask her to marry him after chasing a girl at work for monthes. Why would he do that? Does he really love her?

2007-02-08 21:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by GeeGi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Need some help very badly?
ok frist anyone that takes the time to read this thank you so much.were do i start lets i meant this girl in augest of 2004 we became good freinds at work and best freinds out side of work in augest of 2005 we moved in toghter as roomates as things woul work out 2 weeks before christams we were both signle and things happened with us. then i march my uncle killed himself,then in april my best freind killed himself,then i may my father passed away,then in june my mom was in a bad car accidentt and is just now geting around.then i july her mother moved to floraido (we live in colorado) so she has no family here she then began to drink alot(her mom left her for 6 years when she was a kid)i shut out ever one i could not handle the steess or the fear i was having i quit my job a good job on oct 31 (yeah i know)we then stared fighting a lot we were not talking and are love life stoped.we got in a fight on dec 2 the cops were called and she moved out to a freinds house that we both worked

2007-02-08 21:32:19 · 5 answers · asked by dekers 1 in Singles & Dating

My frnd loves one boy .Both of them r the same engineering col. boy is 2 yrs senior to the girl. The isn't good bcoz he only wants a physical satisfaction from girls & only for that he is playing the "love" game with my friend. My frnd is unable to understand this boy's game and she seriously thinks that the boy loves her a lot as bcoz she does so.B4 this my frnd has already ditched by many other guys and she is hanckering after lone .I don't want my frnd's life to destroyed out of a illusionary love. how do i ask my frnd to forget abt the boy without her being mistaking me bcoz whenever b4 this anyone has said anything abt the boy she disbelived them.PL HELP . ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS PL.

2007-02-08 21:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by sohini b 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is asking me for some advice but I'm putting this one to the group...

She's dating a guy who has kids, she manages to see him most evenings and before work if he stays over. From what she says they have different days off and he goes to see his children on a Sunday so doesn't see him then apart from the morning before he leaves and late evening. From what I understand unless arranged way in advance it seems to be a relationship that takes place just in the evenings.

I think the guy is taking the mick myself as she's quite down as they hardly spend time together in the day and she's asking me if she should spread her wings and move on. I can undstand the situation as you'd not want to say "me or the kids" but I'm not sure what to say either.

I'd prefer not to be the one to say do it as I don't want to cause upset.

So, what do you think? I'll print off the replies and show her...

2007-02-08 21:30:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In one week i feel i already knew her, i feel i understand her perfectly well, i wanna marry her immediately. but parents and friends insist i court her, why do i need that.

2007-02-08 21:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by dessy 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it that it signals the end of a working week.

But not for everyone enjoys weekends off and yet
even if we work weekends we still look forward to weekends.

Is it because more people are around and bars and clubs are lively at week ends.

Or is it simply that we enjoy work that much that we cannot wait for Monday to come round so we can start the cycle all over again

WHY

2007-02-08 21:28:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my bf for 1.5 yrs, through which I've had doubts but ignored them because I thought I wanted it to work. I rushed into this relationship after breaking up with a man I loved but who was so unstable. I didn't have any time to myself to heal from the other relationship because my current boyfriend pursued me so hard and didn't allow me to be alone (he moved to where I was living).

I've been apart from him for a month for the first time since we've been together and all my doubts have come through. I realize I am not in love with him and he deserves someone who can give him 100%. I began to tell him my thoughts and we were communicating alright- he was understanding where I was coming from.

But then he crashed at my sister's and she didn't log off her email and he went on her computer and saw the mail I wrote her-blunt, no soft edges and words I wouldn't have said exactly to him- now he hates me and he's hurting and I'm hurting too and I don't know how to feel better.

2007-02-08 21:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls and guys would you feel a bit hurt if you were in a relationship of 5 years pushing 6 and your relationship was going good, living together ect.. but your boyfriend hasn't proposed or isn't planning to anytime soon. We have talked about it because I brought up the fact that I wanted to have children and he said he wanted to be married to the person first, thats fine but that was two years ago. We fight about it all the time to the point of it being uncomfortable. Everytime a commercial comes on the t.v that is about baby stuff or something similar he always either starts talking about anything or gets up, or reaches for his drink just so were not left staring at the t.v watching this ad.
It really annoys me and I've told him that i've noticed this pattern but he acts as if though he doesn't know what I'm talking about.
Basicaly he has said he wants marraige and the children, he has always said this but, helloooo it's 5 going on 6 years, I'm over it!
Whats your opinion?

2007-02-08 21:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean say man Y marries woman X, then they proclain its the best thing ever happened intheir lives, again in say some years (not to allow for say some months days or even sometimes only in hours) they seperate on some reasons. Again the same guys find other partners and marry having the confidence of previous seperations again they endeavour on a new mission. After all I am confused why cant they stay alone?

2007-02-08 21:25:42 · 5 answers · asked by bgnbgnbgn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy... and someone told him that i liked him. And 2-3 weeks after that.. people have been saying that he has a crush on me and stuff.. do u think he only likes me cos he thinks i like him.. or has he actually developed feelings for me??

2007-02-08 21:23:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About two years ago I used to hang out with his guy who was about 26 and he was still a virgin. He really liked me and hinted around AND told my mom that he wanted to date me. The problem was he was kind of overweight and I wasn't attracted to him but he was good looking. Plus he is really super smart, and straight as an arrow, the total opposite of me. I always would kidd around with him and call him a dork b/c he is one, but i wasn't mean to him. Anyhow since then he's lost a little weight and he's dating this hot blonde now. I am so totally jealous, am I wrong for feeling this way? Do you think he still might be interested in me? I'm not hot or a blonde, do i have a chance? lol probably not, huh?

2007-02-08 21:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by DiG iT 3 in Singles & Dating

the other day she said she wants a divorce and the day before that everything was perfect like anyother day i dont get it she went out with her sisters and ever since then she just has her mind set on leaving me tried to talk about it but nothing helps she is leaving and there is nothing that is going to stop her i might have neglected her a couple of times with my work i am working on the computer about 15 hours a day running my own business but i have always taken time out for her everything so i dont think it has anything to do with it she just told me she dosent love me anymore and wants tto leave we have no kids we both decided not to have any until we got older so what should i do what should i think i never thought this would happen i always did everything right but she has nothing to do with me ive been with her ever since we where kids and now i am almost 30 i wouldnt even know how to look for another woman help!

2007-02-08 21:22:39 · 13 answers · asked by c.cmilitary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"what you did really warmed my heart"

2007-02-08 21:22:33 · 7 answers · asked by s 1 in Singles & Dating

does anybody like the song white wedding by billy idol? do you think it would be suitable for a bride and grooms first dance at their wedding

2007-02-08 21:22:29 · 21 answers · asked by francesca s 2 in Weddings

Need advise pls. Which is more important? Having a bf who loves you so much and is true to you and thinks ya God's greatest gift yet not as charming, eloquent and humourous as you want your guy to be OR someone who speaks so well, humourous, extremely charming yet you might not really be on his top priority?

2007-02-08 21:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Wish 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend is trying to set me up with one of her guy friends. I said I'd be willing to get to know him, but only as friends for now and that I don't want to rush into anything. So we made plans to all go out as a group this weekend. Well the other night, I talked to him on the phone for the first time. I could just tell our personalities do not click and I've lost all interest in meeting him and now he's calling me and emailing me constantly. I've already come up with an excuse to cancel our plans for the weekend, but what am I supposed to do now? I'm annoyed that even after explaining that I'm just wanting to be friends, he still calls me almost every night. Isn't that a little pushy? Anyways, is it best to tell my matchmaker friend that I'm no longer interested or should I make up an excuse like I've met someone else? Or should I explain it to him directly eventhough we've only spoken once?

2007-02-08 21:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. M 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 21:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by brod_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 21:19:20 · 6 answers · asked by bestbet77 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

X (i love him as i love my brother)wants me to be his girlfriend, but i'm still waiting for Y that i love to ask me to be his girlfriend.
so, what should i do? should i be X's girlfriend?
or should i wait for Y and rejected X?

2007-02-08 21:17:27 · 8 answers · asked by dRafz 1 in Singles & Dating

yes a good s*ag but wot else could i do

2007-02-08 21:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by tootytoon 3 in Singles & Dating

After showing some of my friends her pictures. She was mad at frist then she liked the idea. Some of you wrote back and said we should try a threesome but not with a friend. You said we should find a stranger at a bar. So we talked about it. When we were thinking of a bar we were nervious we might run into some one we know. We talked about going to a swingers club. Are single men allowed to go to a club or is it just couples?? Question for the women would you try it?? Get all dressed up sexy and go to a club
and like the idea of other men looking at you?? And the men how many of you would like to see your wife dress up in a very sexy outfit and dance with other men? We have been married 25 years and just looking to spice up our life a little. Is this wrong of us??

2007-02-08 21:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 21:15:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on yahoo when this thing came up saying: you stinky fat pig
(i'm skinny)did'nt say who or what sent it still wondering though.
what will get my mind off it and what shall i do about it?

2007-02-08 21:14:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-08 21:12:45 · 32 answers · asked by brod_dj 1 in Friends

Im stumped. I dont know what to get him. A new thermos? New lunch box? He's a steel worker.

2007-02-08 21:12:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 21:10:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls! help please

2007-02-08 21:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Toothsharp 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not the type of person that cries when i am having a fight with someone or in a conflict situation. I am a very strong person and able to fight my corner very well.

However I do cry when something lovely happens. On my birthday I saw an old friend that I havent seen for a long time and I started crying - a lot - I couldnt control myself.

At my oldest brothers wedding I was a bridesmaid and I was such a mess during the wedding, my makeup went everywhere and I looked like a troll!

I went to a film last night and cried like a baby all the way through, even the non sad parts.

My other brother is getting married next month and again I am bridesmaid..how can I stop myself getting over emotional (I sometimes try to think of other things to distract me from what is going on but I dont want to end up daydreaming through my brothers big day!)

What will happen when I get married? Am I going to look like a panda walking up the aisle?

I know this sounds like a dumb question!

2007-02-08 21:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by salsabrunette 2 in Weddings

Why do people spend half of their lives finding a mate and then spend rest half thinking why are they with them?

2007-02-08 21:07:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy... and someone told him that i liked him. And 2-3 weeks after that.. people have been saying that he has a crush on me and stuff.. do u think he only likes me cos he thinks i like him.. or has he actually developed feelings for me??

2007-02-08 21:04:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating