Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

my wife is thinking of us getting separated for about a year or so. i havent seen my family since I'm in the military and im currently deployed and there in a different country also. I'm trying to bring them to the u.s. so we could be a family again but there's just so much red tape, it takes too long to bring them to the u.s. I love my wife and son so much. We've been married for more than a year and she's already giving up..how do i convince her to stay? how do i convince her to make this sacrifice...

2007-02-08 20:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by concerned husband 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Its reli bugging me. i was wonderin wat do 17 year old boys look 4 in a gal n how do i no if a boy lyks me?????????

2007-02-08 20:18:53 · 16 answers · asked by jodie c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 33, blonde and beautiful. Married 5x:)

2007-02-08 20:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have read a book about how to make better relationship between men and women. Two statement I'd like to share with you guys, how do you think?

"A man feels loved when he makes his women happy, he feels in happiness when she is satisfied".

So, when does a man feel loved? what can women do to make him he is loved? it that true that men feel loved when he does something for her and make her happy?

This confuse me, there is another statement,

"Women feels released from pressure when keeps talking, and she felt loved when he just listens, but men has to isolate himself to release pressure, and at this moment he stills loves her"

Well, I think this statement is 100% accurate to women, is it true to a man?

2007-02-08 20:17:55 · 3 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 20:17:47 · 12 answers · asked by dipesh b 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have heard that the tungston carbide ones have to be cut off if they ever get stuck on a man's finger, so presumably you cant engrave them, right? can you engrave them? what about titanium ones? would they have to be cut off and can you engrave them? my fiance works in a steel mill so obviously his ring will take a beating (no he doesnt wear it while working, but taking it off and throwing it in lockers etc, it gets beaten) so i dont want to get white gold. if tungston and titanium are not able to be engraved, can someone tell me about a knockoff or some other harder metal ring that CAN be engraved? no gold, white gold, silver, or platinum please. thanks!

2007-02-08 20:16:31 · 5 answers · asked by crazydaisyodu 3 in Weddings

The story is kind of long, but in short...my husband's ex (who broke his heart) got in touch with him. I said it would be okay for him to "write her back, but as long as they didn't IM each other; I'm not comfortable with it and it just seems too personal." His first email back to her was for her to set up an IM account so that they could talk. I asked him about this and he just said that he didn't see a problem with it. Anyway, she ended up sending an email saying that she kept missing him. I told him to end it...that it was making me miserable. He did, but now everytime he's online...he's always checking to see if she's online. Am I wrong for not trusting him? I want to believe that he doesn't want to hurt me, but he doesn't know that I know he's looking for her to sign on. Any advice I can get here would be great. Guess that I should mention that we've been married for 6yrs and have 3 kids...one was just born in Dec. Someone please help!

2007-02-08 20:16:13 · 17 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi guys i love a guy he too loves me but now i have a prob.
he proposed me 6 mths back n i said iam also in love .after dat 4 somedays we had talks with each other .then coz of some prob he dint talk 2 me.after dat we again started 2 talk with each other.now he is nt talking woth me.if i am online n he is also online he is just nt talking 2 me .everytime i use 2 call him 4 chatting.he has nt called me once.he says everytime dat he is busy or chatting with someone else.when i c him also he wont talk 2 me. but he says he is in love with me seriously.he is nt mailing me but if his frnd{another gal}dint mail him ,he sats 2 her dat he got tensed . i dont know wats wrong with him . wat should i do now .should i love him or leave him coz . iam confused plz tel me

2007-02-08 20:14:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yes she is a pretty beautiful gal bt she is very mean wit her 'pot' and whenever i try mi best to woo her, she only promises. on xmas we were all in our hometown and went jigging in da club together. we cud dance, drink and kiss bt when u make the next move, she says sorry "not yet ready, maybe next time". i get pissed off. nw we stay very far, she's a student and am a journalist, she keeps calling me and telling me all those things dat go wit love and finally she asks for airtime. sometimes isend her and sometimes i also just promise and dont send. she then sent me amsg labelling me a liar and dat if all people in the world were liars like me, then hell wud be da place to be.iwant 'things' she wants airtime, watsup nw?
guyz help me, do u think these gal has chucked me for real or she just wants airtime and every thing will come back to normal? hlp coz idont wanna miss her.

2007-02-08 20:14:07 · 1 answers · asked by solot 1 in Singles & Dating

hi, i went on a blind date while on a business trip. after our first meeting he asked me to lunch the next day and then to celebrate his birthday with his friends that night and invited me to come back in a couple of months. (he brought this up twice) i emailed him when i returned home to thank him for his hospitality. it has been 3 days and he has not responded. am i being to anxious. i am attracted to this guy and believe he is attracted to me. but i may have been a bit guarded when we were together. EXTREAMLY nice, but maybe a bit guarded. am i just being anxious.

2007-02-08 20:13:53 · 8 answers · asked by nay0407 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently visited my uncle and aunt after almost 15 yrs. They have changed a lot.
After the first few days which passed off normally. I found both of
them in mischievous mood.
Both of them behaving in a very strange manner in front of me. Being husband and wife ,I am not surprised at their behavior. But I find it embarrassing that they indulge in very intimate body contacts in front of me.
May be its their ways of openly exhibiting their true emotions.
Every time while watching TV together. Both of them would pass many comments on the male & female artistes, regarding their anatomy. This is most embarrassing for me.

When I try to pretend to be engrossed in reading some magazine. My uncle would lay his head on my aunts lap and does the unmentionable act.
Its so disgusting to watch that I have to go in to other room. With them laughing loudly behind me. Then I can hear my aunt making all sorts of moaning sounds just to irritate me.

My parents will not believe me .

2007-02-08 20:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by zenith i 1 in Family

i reli lyk dis boy but i no he dont lyk me!! also i av a feelin dat no boys lyk me coz of da way i look n act!!!!!!

2007-02-08 20:13:13 · 20 answers · asked by jodie c 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfreind looses her fones so many times in a year and always she gives her ex the new fone number that she has put in her fone. I ve talked to her about the issue and she just doesnt listen. What would you do?

2007-02-08 20:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

several times i went to the house of a friend. there i met her friend (a nice beautiful girl), . we had nice times all together chatting, having dinner etc...
i now know that girl for two months but we met around 6 times only. Recently i managed to get a date with her to cinema and pub. On that very first date i gave her a rose and told her that i like her.
was it too early for that? in previous times when i waited too long i've lost the one i liked. so what if i said it on the first date??

2007-02-08 20:11:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To marry some one. Is it only love or other qualities that you looking

2007-02-08 20:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Shes a Capricorn and is the biggest worry wart ever created. Im more laid back and a taurus. I love her very much, but she worries about me too much. I know she does it out of concern, but how do I get it to stop?

2007-02-08 20:08:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just need a few thousand.

2007-02-08 20:08:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I m recently shifted to a new place for job n here evrybody are stranger to me i don hv any frnds over here i just get time on sunday n saturday i get damn bore on these two days. i want to hv some gud frnds plz suggest how can i proceed..?

2007-02-08 20:06:02 · 10 answers · asked by singleman 1 in Friends

2007-02-08 20:05:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i bought a kinky wee nurse costume the other day, cos umm if your gonna be with that person for a life time them you gotta keep it heated up in the bedroom ya know, so anyhoos i wanna role play as a nurse, am sure this will turn him on but i dont know where to begin??? am not used to role playing. its easy being in cops uniform,,,but a nurse? hmm,,,,,,?? does any ladies out there do this for their men? if so what do you do? am serious here i dont want any sad jokes ok, lets be adult about this folks.

2007-02-08 20:04:56 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a)who invented sausages
b)why little brothers are so annoying
c)why randomness is cool
d)why i am writting this

2007-02-08 20:03:42 · 4 answers · asked by TONKS 2 in Friends

they have been married less than a year, and i care for them both.

2007-02-08 20:03:07 · 16 answers · asked by some dude 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 20:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's my friend's 40th birthday on sunday and I'm stuck for what to buy her, that she hasn't already got! Am looking for something unique (not jewellery), around the £20 - 30 mark. Any suggestions?

2007-02-08 20:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by gemini07 1 in Friends

even that guy loves me a lot but he could ask and get into fight with his parents even i dont like it so....??
so plz....??suggest me wat to do...???

2007-02-08 20:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by rallapalli t 1 in Family

2007-02-08 20:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been noticing lately that my guy really doesnt care when I am hurt. For example I had dental work done an when I got home I told him it hurt really bad and he didnt even say "do you need an asprin" or sorry or anything. Also I fell down the stairs, I wasnt really bad hurt or anything, just bumped up, I didnt say ouch or complain, but he kind of laughed and didnt help me up. Another time I burned my hand on the stove and yelled "ouch" really loud and all he said was "what happened"? It just seems strange to me. I am an adult woman and I dont whine and cry about these things, in fact my tolerance for pain is pretty high. Do you think this guy just doesnt care?

2007-02-08 20:00:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the problem ..... my dad passed away when i was younger. my little brother is walking with me. the problem is i want my dad to you know "kinda" be there! any ideas of how i can do this! you see i was thinking of having a picture of him and pput it in the seat next to my mother but that seemed kinda weird. so i need some ideas. please help!

2007-02-08 19:58:40 · 12 answers · asked by HaZeLeYeZ 2 in Weddings

hurmm Leonardo DiCaprio said he hated being too attractive. He said it's hard for him to get recognised for his acting ability. In real life, is it a disadvantage for being too attractive and noit get recognised for ur other qualities? If u r born having good looks how do u carry urself around ppl?

2007-02-08 19:56:29 · 20 answers · asked by ramzi 2 in Friends

so many times you hear people say,i did this or that because i loved him/her.No matter how silly the deed maybe.

or here you are,you know your,spouse,boyfriend/girlfriend
has been cheatin on you for years,en you still hang on?

How/ oh why?

is it that one fails to open his/her eyes wide?
or one is a good pretender that .......................oh gosh?

2007-02-08 19:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by wel-come 2 in Singles & Dating