hi guys i love a guy he too loves me but now i have a prob.
he proposed me 6 mths back n i said iam also in love .after dat 4 somedays we had talks with each other .then coz of some prob he dint talk 2 me.after dat we again started 2 talk with each other.now he is nt talking woth me.if i am online n he is also online he is just nt talking 2 me .everytime i use 2 call him 4 chatting.he has nt called me once.he says everytime dat he is busy or chatting with someone else.when i c him also he wont talk 2 me. but he says he is in love with me seriously.he is nt mailing me but if his frnd{another gal}dint mail him ,he sats 2 her dat he got tensed . i dont know wats wrong with him . wat should i do now .should i love him or leave him coz . iam confused plz tel me
2007-02-08 20:14:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on to the million guys you could fall in lust with.
2007-02-08 20:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be making a big mistake if you married anyone who won't open up to you. When you love someone and plan to marry them; you should be able to discuss anything with them. He may be a moody person that clams up a lot for no reason. Your life will be miserable. Be comforting towards him and see if you can get him to discuss what's going on. If you have to pump information out of him all the time and always be the peace maker; you will not be happy.
Do you have a pastor that you can talk to about this? If so, go to him as soon as possible for help.
Remember, you will always see their best side before you marry. Things go down hill a little in the best of situations, but you don't want it to go to rock bottom.
Be careful.
2007-02-09 04:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ask u to get married and u didn't answer maybe CZ of that he do sent speak whit u no more and he told u that he is busy,if u r sure that u love him then tel him in one mail ,i`m sure he see that mail,and stop to sent him to much mail CZ i`m sure he do sent like ,especially CZ he`s upset CZ u didn`t answer when he proposed u to get married whit him,and bu start to speak whit him insted to answer and to be happy about that.Me the same i have 1 problem but just a littel bit diffrent,my boyfriend he dosent want to see me cuz he has prob.but he told me that he love me very much,he dosent whant to answer my mails cuz he has prob.or to see me he dosent whant cuz of the problems,and the same like u i sent him a loot of mails but nothig,i have prob,he told me.MY advice is teel him in one mail all Ur feelings for him and if he dosent answer then u now the answer what u have to do,i dont have to tel u what u have to do.I will pray to GOD like Ur boyfriend to give u the answer.Take care and dont think to much.
2007-02-09 05:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by L.g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have done way to much all ready . You have emailed him tryed messenging him meeting him in person and he says he's always to busy. He shows you know respect. STOP contacting him enough is enough.
I wouldn't have been that kind to him. not after he has been ignoring you and telling you he's to busy. The hell with him.
Your to busy to take his request next time he trys to contact you. This isn't a game he should be playing.
And you want to marry someone like this. I would take your time here.
2007-02-09 04:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen someone is in love s/he thinks/miss the person so the natural thing a person in love does is talk/meet......if ur guy do not have time for u than the answer is obvious......the best thing to do is talk it over with him about ur concern and if he still do not change than, too bad but u sud forget him...
2007-02-09 04:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious, I know that you are not a nonenglish speaking person, don't try to act like you are of foreign decent.
Quit the childish behavior, no one thinks its cute and its demeaning to some people.
2007-02-09 04:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by moeeeeus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii it seams that life to him just now is one big game but not for you, remmber this your life as well, i see that you care. love him, because of the things hes saying and doing just now how can you take hes propose and even think of saying yess, you need much more from your husband, not thease silly games. to make things clear for you think, do whats right for you say how you feel and playing games im sure aint one, remmber you can do whats right care love him but you carnt make him, so its him who needs to know what he wants from hes life a wife or thease games, just think be open and make things clear with him as to how you want your life to be and playing silly games aint one of them im sure.
2007-02-09 04:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show a man that life goes on with & without him
2007-02-09 04:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid confusion by leaving him before you are seriouly in love with him.
2007-02-09 04:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple,LEAVE HIM
do u think a person who is seriously in love will act like him???
u said u r in love,right? so will u show soo cool to him??
so simple!!! u should know the answer.
2007-02-09 04:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋