I recently visited my uncle and aunt after almost 15 yrs. They have changed a lot.
After the first few days which passed off normally. I found both of
them in mischievous mood.
Both of them behaving in a very strange manner in front of me. Being husband and wife ,I am not surprised at their behavior. But I find it embarrassing that they indulge in very intimate body contacts in front of me.
May be its their ways of openly exhibiting their true emotions.
Every time while watching TV together. Both of them would pass many comments on the male & female artistes, regarding their anatomy. This is most embarrassing for me.
When I try to pretend to be engrossed in reading some magazine. My uncle would lay his head on my aunts lap and does the unmentionable act.
Its so disgusting to watch that I have to go in to other room. With them laughing loudly behind me. Then I can hear my aunt making all sorts of moaning sounds just to irritate me.
My parents will not believe me .
2007-02-08 20:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by zenith i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It maybe possible they were inviting you to join in their sexual adventure. Some couples are looking for threesome, group sex, swapping etc & may be they are also that type. It is possible they found you right person to join them, this is only my presumption. Otherwise no normal married couple will behave in this manner before other person!!!!
2007-02-10 17:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let us consider a few facts :
1. You were 15 years younger when you visited them last. Perhaps your own sense of sexuality had not matured at that point of time - things that you seem to be alive to today.
2. You do not like exhibitionism - that is why you do not like their actions
3. Nothing is wrong with your uncle and aunt, they love each other very much and they hold no bars in even showing to the world that they love each other.
4. There will always be things in life that YOU may not like. That does not mean that all people who do things that YOU do not like are bad or have something wrong with them.
5. In case you feel very strongly about it, why don't you tell them not to indulge in such activities at least in your presence ? Can you be bold enough ? That will solve all your problems and opinion you now hold about your uncle and aunt.
Best wishes,
2007-02-08 20:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by honolulu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you have rightly observed, there is indeed something wrong with your uncle and aunt. Behaviour such as the one you have mentioned is generally categorised under exhibitionism. But people who indulge in exhibitionism must be aware about their surroundings. A nephew or niece, to whom these people are supposed to be role models is hardly the person before whom they should display exhibitionist behaviour. It is gross, if I am to suppose they are doing it in their senses. More so as your displeasure has already been conveyed. But if there is some other reason for such behaviour, you should know better. Anyway, it would be better for you to leave their place as early as possible.
2007-02-12 01:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are u doing in ur uncle and aunts house.. and if it is only for a short visit, return back and get on with ur life.
what they do with their love life or with their married life 15yrs after marriage or 25yrs after marriage is their problem..
could be they are rediscovering themselves...well it is good for them... let them go on.. why do u want to worry and more so why should it be a botheration for u whether ur parents believe u or not.........
2007-02-09 04:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by smile2u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your uncle and aunt is trying to irritate you or they have some motive behin it. Beware and if possible try not to visit tem or be with them . I understand your difficulty to make your parents understand this
2007-02-08 20:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that must be some sort of body language. That they want to tell you something. Which they can't talk to you openly.
2007-02-08 20:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According me don't visit them again. It could be a way of telling that they don't like ur presence.
2007-02-08 20:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Smilie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude they belong in the loony bin...that is some nasty sh**, if they did that in front of you, i would just not talk to them or visit...seriously that is waay messed up!
2007-02-08 20:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to visit them again.
2007-02-08 23:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong? their culture is wrong.I hope they have no childs.
2007-02-09 11:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by thinakaran6743 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋