Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

I'm 19 year old guy and still a virgin. What do you think when I a guy this age is still a virgin? Should I hurry up and get some experience?

2007-02-08 21:03:35 · 21 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

It is at the end of my relationship, and while I can realize the relationship is pretty much over, I need concrete answers as to the why it is over. (as a side here, It both is and is not a standard relationship in question, but it was meant to be a relationship in all aspects).

The other person throws out pretty generic answers:
“Because I just don’t feel it anymore,” (responses of that nature)
My response is “Why, what changed?” “Give me a list,” (I need the real meanings, hurtful or not).
“What did I do wrong?”
“You did nothing wrong.”
“If I didn’t do anything wrong, then what’s the issue?”
I don’t think he actually hears me when I say I am a failure.
He claims I am making it too logical and analytical.
I say that if (hypothetically that is) we were in counseling or talking to a third party, the same sort of in depth questions would be posed, he seemingly disagrees with that.
He feels that he doesn’t need to validate any of his responses, I disagree.
He thinks that by saying he is really sorry, and he didn’t mean to hurt me, et al, that somehow I should just readily accept it. I don’t.

So now I come to y’all…and let me say this: While sympathy is nice and much appreciated, I do also need the “brute” honesty of your answers.
Am I in the wrong for needing more explanation? Should I just accept his basic answers, or should I keep probing?
Is he wrong to get flustered when I do probe for more, or since he is the one who wants to end, should he buck up and lay it all out?

2007-02-08 21:00:03 · 13 answers · asked by Just Cub 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im currently living with my boyfriend but last 2005 I met this man.I fell in love with him.He's the man of my dreams.We had a very good relationship.From the very beggining that man knows everything about my relationship with my boyfriend,but he keeps on waiting for me.I decided to leave that guy and push him away to find somebody new.When I found out that he's with a new girl,it hurts me so bad.I just woke up one morning a felt nothing for my boyfriend.If you will ask me what was the reason why I choose my boyfriend over that man,its because of security reason and the lenght of my relationshipwith him.I still have communication with that guy.I told him that I still love him.Before,he was very vocal about his feelings for me and willing to take me back,but now,it seems he's undecided whom to choose between me and his girl.
I want to leave my boyfriend so I could have time to think...but what if my decision is wrong and find myself that its my boyfriend that I really want?

2007-02-08 20:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by Angel Sophia 1 in Weddings

Here it is a video with my description of the challenge:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8H2ZZ7oG5AY

2007-02-08 20:50:12 · 5 answers · asked by Millionaire (?) Girl 1 in Friends

ok frist anyone that takes the time to read this thank you so much.were do i start lets i meant this girl in augest of 2004 we became good freinds at work and best freinds out side of work in augest of 2005 we moved in toghter as roomates as things woul work out 2 weeks before christams we were both signle and things happened with us. then i march my uncle killed himself,then in april my best freind killed himself,then i may my father passed away,then in june my mom was in a bad car accidentt and is just now geting around.then i july her mother moved to floraido (we live in colorado) so she has no family here she then began to drink alot(her mom left her for 6 years when she was a kid)i shut out ever one i could not handle the steess or the fear i was having i quit my job a good job on oct 31 (yeah i know)we then stared fighting a lot we were not talking and are love life stoped.we got in a fight on dec 2 the cops were called and she moved out to a freinds house that we both worked

2007-02-08 20:50:07 · 9 answers · asked by dekers 1 in Weddings

i need help my last kiss ended up with a slap :(

2007-02-08 20:49:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married (very soon) and my Fiancee and I have a requested monetary gifts since I am going to uni soon. We will be living with his family for the next two years so we don't need furniture etc.

Some of our guests have asked that they buy us presents anyway, I don't need anything & anything we need we buy. We already have too much furniture etc. Any suggestions what I can tell them? Thank you.

2007-02-08 20:49:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do you beleive in destiny?

2007-02-08 20:49:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes, I do know you shouldn't get in laws involved with marriage
problems. My husband is younger than me and it seems to him
whatever I say is a "nag". I've tried several ways to talk to
him but it doesn't work. In this case, will in laws be any help?

2007-02-08 20:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you only had $5000 to work with for your wedding (including the reception), how would you celebrate your special day?

2007-02-08 20:48:00 · 14 answers · asked by ladymai21 2 in Weddings

my friendship has broken because i talk very badly with them but i said sorry to them but they still dont talk to me what should i do i know its my mistake but i want them back

2007-02-08 20:42:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-08 20:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My gf recently ran into one of her guy friends shes known along time from school so she said she talked to him and found out that he lives in my apartment complex, so she goes to visit him or whatever and she said they seen me going up the stairs and he saw me, so then HE tells her, is his mom fat? she says no, and ask why, he says he SAW ME talking to a girl outside in front of my apartment. this is a lie because i was inside ALL DAY watching the Super Bowl. So she calls me up saying have you been seenin your ex! i say no, my ex is in San Francisco she says well who was that girl you was talking to? i wasn't talkin to anyone. so she tells me what her guy friend told her, i tell her he is lying, she doesn't believe me at all. today i seen her car backing out the parking lot while im home, i call her up and ask what she doin she says she was dropping somethin off at the guys house. her friend lied to her twice! but still talks to him. what should i do? sound like he tried to break us up

2007-02-08 20:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi , I found a japanese girl from my class , and she is very cool .
are they hot ? I mean japanese ?
do they lile sex ?
How can I start ? what do they like ?

2007-02-08 20:40:03 · 14 answers · asked by camtocam_sina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 20:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

i am Nooni. how bout you? what hobbies do u have? i am in college right now and i am very bored. cant be asked to do any work right now.

2007-02-08 20:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Pinknooni 1 in Friends

2007-02-08 20:34:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i'm 16 and theres this guy who i've like for over a year. We've picked up before but nothing eventuated. We've known each other since littlies but have only recently become kinda close.
We hang out alot and he used to like my bestie.He's really good looking and loved by most of the girls and he knows it. We see each other at school and have the same friends but we never go past the basic conversations. On the w/e he'll msg me to ask wats hapnin and if i'm goin to the party thats on and we'll have a pretty good chat but then that's it. Im not sure if he wants to know if i'm goin cos he's interested in me or my friends...
We'll go to parties together but when we get there i wont see him till later on after i've seen him with a girl or two... and we'll be drunk and we'll flirt and hug and kinda kiss but then thats it. Never talked about again. Im SO confused and its hard to explain :-( I've made him sound like a sleezy dude but he isnt. We'll give the glances, surf together

2007-02-08 20:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by aims 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 20:33:05 · 13 answers · asked by Eevie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 20:31:35 · 18 answers · asked by coconutCake 1 in Singles & Dating

I've done it before and it wasn't all that bad.... His friends say that b4 he met me he was sorta wild. But now he's REALLY mild. Almost to the point of boring. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-02-08 20:28:08 · 5 answers · asked by afreeca812 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 20:27:41 · 17 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I like someone, but when I asked him out, he didn't answer and then I found out that he just hooked up with a girl today and i just feel so down!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's much worse looking than me and I just dnt know how to get him to like me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why is he picking HER over ME??????? So how do I get him to like me?

2007-02-08 20:27:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who's struggling over the guilt of dating a married man, she respects and loves herself, she's self-disciplined and she's struggling with this one mistake she made in her life,she knows it a bad thing she did,doesnt know what she was thinking, she managed to break up with him within 4 months. She's now in a good loving relationship and doesnt know whether to tell her boyfriend or not. But what if he finds out somehow??

2007-02-08 20:26:54 · 33 answers · asked by Phenomenal woman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need a list of some songs to play for the mother/son dance at my wedding. Some that are pretty familiar. I have the daughter/father one on debate..either butterfly kisses ((which gets me everytime...i start bawling)) or My little girl

2007-02-08 20:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He likes golf by i don't know what kind of golfs thing i should buy?
Budget < $200

2007-02-08 20:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Pakcik Kantin 3 in Family

2007-02-08 20:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He totally broke my heart and made a fool out of me, and even though I learned my lesson I still get the urge to make him go through the humiliation he caused me.

2007-02-08 20:22:41 · 21 answers · asked by wildfl0wer66 2 in Singles & Dating

several times i went to the house of a friend. there i met her BF and her friend (a nice beautiful girl), . we had nice times all together chatting, having dinners at her place etc...

i now know that girl for two months but we met around 6 times only. Recently i managed to get a date with her to cinema and pub. On that very first date i gave her a rose and told her that i like her.
was it too early for that? in previous times when i waited too long i've lost the one i liked. so what if i said it on the first date??

but she didn't say anything... she was shy about the subject. but we had nice time together.

2007-02-08 20:22:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive tried and tried to work things out but nothing works she has her mind set we have no children so thats not a problem but weve never had problems until last week she just all the sudden told me she wants a divorce and she doesnt want to work it out what should i do should i keep trying or is it realy over please help!

2007-02-08 20:22:09 · 30 answers · asked by c.cmilitary 1 in Marriage & Divorce