I'm 19 year old guy and still a virgin. What do you think when I a guy this age is still a virgin? Should I hurry up and get some experience?
2007-02-08 21:03:35 · 21 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
James, you have something that not a lot of guy have, dont do ANYTHING til you are ready. . . .. what you have is great, you will find someone that will not only appreciate that but respect that, and that James is what you deserve :)
2007-02-08 21:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was very young when i lost my virginity and let me just say that i regretted not waiting. It is not about experience but more about a connection. If you give it up just for the sake of experience then you might regret it. A 19 year old virgin is rare these days which is a shame. It means you obviously have respect for yourself. having just typed all that i just realised you are a guy. I am not sure if you feel the same about it as a woman would, but i will submit this anyway so you can get a different perspective...
2007-02-09 05:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by nkate14 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a virgin at 19 is no bad thing - it's always best to do it when the time and the other person are right, rather than just having sex with anyone just to get it over and done with.
Sex is meant to be fun, so don't put so much pressure on yourself over the fact that you haven't had it yet. You've got plenty of time honey
Lx
2007-02-09 05:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im not a female but let me tell ya something dude, dont be ashamed, i was 21 when i lost mine, why do you wanna rush for? women will actually respect you more if you stay one as long as you can, dont use a female just for experience, that would be really really stupid not to mention u want to feel it for the first, meaning the warmth of it..... and if ur just gonna screw some girl to get exp and not use protection there's two things to think about 1 STDS 2 GETTING A GIRL PREG dont rush man, u got all the time in the world live ur life and just take one day at a time, so even though im not a female WAIT u will be respected more and heck who knows ur first might be a virgin too, wouldnt that be cool
2007-02-09 05:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by texasdaddy2009 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think you are really secure about yourself or you're just plain scared. Either way it doesn't make any difference to me if you are a virgin or not. If you are then that means I get to train you like a little puppy and if you aren't a virgin then that means I get to re-train you like a little puppy! no i'm kidding, aside from the jokes, i think it's a good idea to wait so you won't be getting someone pregnant at a young age. =) Don't give it up unless you really are ready, or you just want to get it over with. Regardless it's great and if you are a man, you'll love it.
2007-02-09 05:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know a lot of men that were virgins at 19... I believe my husband was a virgin until he was 20. It is no big deal and it will happen when it happens. You shouldn't have sex just to gain experience... when the time is right, it will happen and the right girl wont care how much experience that you have.
When you do have sex please remember to practice safe sex! Condoms are a must!
2007-02-09 05:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is no problem in being a virgin. But its upto 2 that u want to have an experience or not.
2007-02-09 05:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am also the same and still 28, nothing wrong in that, just wait for your turn. theres nothing bad about it. you know what you are? If someone says that you are a gay, are you really? Not. others can say many things, but you should be wise in your decision.
2007-02-09 05:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ameenz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do I think, its great, to see . you don't see or hear that anymore. stay that way, you will be rewarded. and don't hurry to get the experience, when you are ready to do it . you will know. but do it with someone that you truly love and respect. you will get more out of it, than if it was just for the sex. congratulations.
2007-02-09 05:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have a great respect for you. Its a rare advantage you have, you can decide at anytime to become a non virgin but a non virgin can never decide to be like you. I would say treasure it.
2007-02-09 05:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋