He totally broke my heart and made a fool out of me, and even though I learned my lesson I still get the urge to make him go through the humiliation he caused me.
2007-02-08 20:22:41 · 21 answers · asked by wildfl0wer66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, don't do that. all the experts suggest never revenge back, cause revenge makes you fall into hell, the more anger it will cause, then it's hard to get through it.
If you have ever loved him/her, to prove that you really had loved, do not revenge in any way. That will make you a decent person, and someone worth to love.
If your ex is not worth loving, you should look for someone who cares about you, and cherish you. All your friends and families around would know what a good person you are, and will introduce his/her friends to you, then you get a new relationship.
If you revenge, no one will be dared to introduce his friends to you, cause anyone would think it's horrible. They will introduce you good people, as long as they feel you are someone worth doing it.
God will take care of those who choose the right thing, do not revenge, god will arrange you a new, health, happy relationship. All you have to do is calm down, don't hate him, appreciate the time you two have loved, and maybe he/she is so immature that embarrased you, but someday when you find someone, or get married, he/she will regret it. Make him/her regret it, don't revenge.
2007-02-08 20:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on ME!
You are living in the past romanticizing about the would've, should've, and could've.
When you love your self enough -- you will find the courage, strength, and resolve to MOVE PAST YESTERDAY.
Your question is NOT about your MAN, it is really ALL ABOUT YOU and the negative energy you send out into the universe.
You made a very big order to the Man (Chef) Upstairs saying, "I am broken!" and the Man returns you a platter of "Yes You Are!"
Why do you sound so surprised?
Humiliation ---> irrelevant.
Revenge ---> irrelevant.
Shame -----> irrelevant
Reputation ----> irrelevant
Pain ------------> irrelevant
Growth ---------> relevant
Change ---------> relevant
Destiny -----------> relevant
And finally, what is whole purpose of being right, if you have to BE ALONE to celebrate the victory?
2007-02-08 22:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some already said it, but they did not put it so simple, THe best revenge is happiness, and not letting him see its getting to you. If he is a jerk that will drive him crazy. Act like your not sweatin him. He's going to think "What the hell changed, she was into me and now? I have played that card plenty of times and everytime it has driven the guy nuts. I did not always see the results right away, but sooner or later I did, and FYI, life has a funny way of bitting people in the butt, (you reap what you sew) he will get his in due time. They always do.
2007-02-08 20:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by candi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah ! Revenge ! The sordid flip side of true love ! Now you are humiliating yourself. Has your sense of worth and self-esteem been hurt so badly that you are willing to wallow away in hate. It's kharma - what goes around comes around. He's already set the cycle of his. Why are you so willing to set such a horrible cycle for yourself ?
2007-02-08 20:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did something very bad or manipulative, I say "Get Revenge". Dont do anything illegal, and dont let him know it was you that did it. Be creative and not immature. One thing I would really love to do to someone that did me bad would be to put a colon cleanser or laxative in their drink, especially if you can do it when they are in a public place. Then have a guy remove all the toilet paper from the bathroom. Then sit back and laugh your butt off.
2007-02-08 20:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the anger towards ur b/f is keeping u from having a ball. babe he aint worth all that. he left u so u are better of with a lot of other choices that u will get, as for him what goes around comes around. But u cant concentrate in what he gets but right now its all about u. focus there and get the best for yourself
All the best
2007-02-08 21:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're much too Beautiful, to waste your Goregousness on getting revenge. You can really get him back, by finding that one True heart. That can make you happy. And get him out of your life. Respect yourself. Love for yourself. Not for revenge.
2007-02-08 20:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NEED
y waste time on him thinking abot how to revenge???
y not spending time on anything can improve urself, and can make u run out of his memory and make ur self as charm as possible,,,,
this is the best way to revenge..
2007-02-08 20:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the similar ordeal as you and i realised that when you keep toying the thoughts of revenge on ur ex, chances are that you wont be able to move on, and likelyhood is that u inflicted more pain on urself, learn to let go, if u decide to do it, u can!!
2007-02-08 20:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by puzzlesw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋