several times i went to the house of a friend. there i met her BF and her friend (a nice beautiful girl), . we had nice times all together chatting, having dinners at her place etc...
i now know that girl for two months but we met around 6 times only. Recently i managed to get a date with her to cinema and pub. On that very first date i gave her a rose and told her that i like her.
was it too early for that? in previous times when i waited too long i've lost the one i liked. so what if i said it on the first date??
but she didn't say anything... she was shy about the subject. but we had nice time together.
2007-02-08 20:22:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too fast, Too slow, unfortunately us guys have a bit of a tough time. What you have to remember is that everyone is different and have there own ideas of how dating and love should be.
I think the rose was a nice gesture and shows that you are caring and are not just trying to get her into bed and this must show that, well done!!!.
You could always try asking the girl what she wants, communication is paramount in any relationship, whether its just starting out or a long running marriage.
Good luck!!
2007-02-08 20:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tooly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its never too early to tell someone that you like them, let them know, then whether they like you or not, OR the time they take to tell you how they feel its up to them. Atleast you would have done your part.
Waiting too long can work to your disadvantage like it has previuosly.
Hang in there, she's just shy, she'll come around you'll see. What is meant to be will be!
2007-02-09 04:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Phenomenal woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you not asked her out again? What are you waiting for? Stop worrying about what you did - which sounds fine, by the way - and start moving forward. She is probably sitting there by the phone wondering why you haven't called and agonising about what SHE must have done wrong! See how it works? Good luck!
2007-02-09 04:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to impress her - buy her a flower with more of a meaning. You know - maybe something like a venus fly trap or something. Put a fly in it - and tell her that you feel like the fly.
All trapped and ready to be consumed by love.
She'll adore it.
2007-02-09 04:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wait two months before asking her out, then when you do get a date, you don't shag her and you wonder if it's "too early"?
She's probably dying of old age waiting for her portion.
2007-02-09 04:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fine to me. Stick at it and I am sure things will go somewhere. You need to get over the shyness but there's no rush. One step at a time.
2007-02-09 04:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it felt right, then no it wasnt too earily for you.
But the question is does she still take your calls and take to you.
Have you been on another date yet?
If you are still talking then it wasnt too early.
2007-02-09 04:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Angela G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you not asked this question already?.. :-) well, like i replied earlier..never too early to say u like someone..being shy and avoiding the subject does not mean she does not like u either..probably the opposite..;-) good luck
2007-02-09 04:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not too early....dont rush by being persistent or insistent just let her take her own time to decide but u can by all means show ur feelings towards her....all the best..
2007-02-09 04:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about your friend or her friend? If its your friend that had the boyfriend then it may be a bit soon for her. If its the other girl then maybe she has other relationship issues.
2007-02-09 04:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋