I think I like someone, but when I asked him out, he didn't answer and then I found out that he just hooked up with a girl today and i just feel so down!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's much worse looking than me and I just dnt know how to get him to like me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why is he picking HER over ME??????? So how do I get him to like me?
2007-02-08 20:27:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By being yourself. If he doesn't like you, it wasn't meant to be. Don't change yourself to suit one guy. Besides, 7th grade is too young to settle down with one guy. Your life is just beginning. You have the rest of Junior High, then High School, possibly college, and then a career. In this span of time, you will meet lots of people and possibly move several times. Heck, very few of us meet our future wife/husband in 7th grade.
My advice to you is enjoy life. Play the field. This way you won't be tied down and you can start to compare and contrast different guys and decide what you want/don't want in a future life partner. It will save you a from a lot of heartaches and empty relationships in the future.
2007-02-08 20:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh, I wouldn't be your age again for all the money in the world, girl!
Boys are MONSTERS at your age. I have 4 kids; 2 boys and 2 girls. I lectured my boys enough to not be the creeps that most are, and I warned my daughter (the other is severely handicapped) about boys at that age.
There is no good answer, my dear - sorry. If you have strength enough, stay the heck away from relationships from now until college. Unfortunately, I know that is not realistic. All I can tell you is - harden your heart. Work on loving yourself, just as you are - because there is absolutely no rhyme or reason to what boys (or girls) want at your age. Focus on YOU. If you have to -Hell, just sit down and write down every stupid thing about being your age. Not only will you start seeing the reality of what it is, you might just write a future best seller! Believe me, girl - there is not a woman alive who cannot relate to what you are feeling.
2007-02-09 04:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by diastat_nation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Well, If you have a nice physical appearance, that adds lots of points. Personality wise, guys tend to like girls who are smart and know how to be sexy, but in 7th grade, the sexy thing isn't happening. I dunno. As the saying goes, "There are plenty more fish in the sea". Wait for another guy to come around. If he's going out with some ugly chick, he probably has bad tastes.
2007-02-09 04:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Desert Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Have heard of the saying, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder............."
My advice is just move on.............. moreever do remember no doubt having a fair & pretty face will get us some instant "perks" but it only last as long as the beauty last.
All else fail just tell yourself it's his lost not yours
2007-02-09 04:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes her, the only thing you could do is move on.
you're too young to date anyway.
just stay home and do your homework, instead of fishing for some guys at school.
2007-02-09 04:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋