I just need a few thousand.
2007-02-08 20:08:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it's not necessarily a kind thing to do. It depends upon your relationship and your means. If you have a good relationship and this is a positive thing, then perhaps it would be okay to ask. If he makes a lot of money and it wouldn't set him back to help you, then perhaps it also might be okay. I probably wouldn't ask him but, I'm not married yet so I can't say exactly how I would react in a similar situation. Good luck.
2007-02-08 20:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, he desires to flow away your loved ones abode till issues grow to be lots clearer relating to the way forward on your relationship. If he has desperate to have an affair than your marriage is in hardship. Affairs are patently pink flags and you will desire to consult from him that he can not have his cake and consume it too. You suggested your babies and how can he take care of the youngsters like this: What approximately you? babies learn via occasion and in case you have him residing interior the abode whilst he of course isn't emotionally accessible the youngsters already experience some thing is incorrect. enable him be conscious of your actual emotions and which you refuse to be abused. If he desires to end the marriage than he desires to be a guy and convey his emotions, too. although, you isn't a door mat for him to grimy! you isn't 2nd in his existence and if he of course would not sense any emotions for you than ask him to a minimum of seek for counseling via fact you have spent 20 years at the same time. You a minimum of owe that to the youngsters. yet, if the conflict grows further and extra the youngsters do no longer would desire to be caught up in that too. Stand on your capability, now, and convey what's on your coronary heart. Marriage is a 2 way dedication and includes 2 prepared companions. whilst somebody else enters the triangle it makes it greater durable to concentration on the union of marriage. He should be prepared to enable the different guy or woman flow with the intention to make a flow of the relationship. If he's unwilling than you have your answer, yet via all ability get his capability out of your place. Dr. Maggie
2016-12-17 05:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is wrong because that is way too much money.. You need to get a loan from a bank. Why in the world is it so expensive to move if i may ask? That seems like a LOT of money!
2007-02-08 21:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. If you don't have a job, it's not totally out of line to ask for a little help (though a few thousand is pretty steep). But if you have a job, support your own decision.
And remember, he has every right to refuse.
2007-02-08 20:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me. I know you might think I am a jerk, go ahead I say I am a jerk, but it is not wrong at all...
So, my girlfriend got caught cheating on me. Sure we had to end our loving relationship.
6 months later she returned for help. " David, I am going to college, which is not too far away from home, maybe half hour away from home, but I need a car. I do not have a dime in my name, but I MUST have a car."
Now, this was the girl who cheated on me. Now, it was my turn to mash her face in pieces. Naw, I am not like that, so this was my reply:
" Ok, I understand your situation. We'll visit a car dealer tomorrow."
She was astonished. She was speechless. She couldn't even say thanks because she was so ashamed. The following day I took out a brand new car at Honda for her... This time she tried to say thanks, but I stopped her. I said, " Enjoy life while it last."
2007-02-08 20:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn f*ckin straight, it's wrong! Ask your new boyfriend. You asked for the separation, so it's time to live your life on your own. Then again, if he's happy you're leaving, it might be worth a shot.
2007-02-08 20:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by tjacobmill 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get your @ss out on the street and hustle a few bucks. You decided to move out. I bet you need to find yourself right? Go shack up with who ever you're doing and let him pay.
2007-02-08 23:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You asked for the separation. You should take care of yourself.
2007-02-08 20:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your own money Muffy. Work the clubs, I'm sure you'll find another sucker.
2007-02-08 20:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ask away if he is a real man, he will help you if he can..
2007-02-08 20:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋