After showing some of my friends her pictures. She was mad at frist then she liked the idea. Some of you wrote back and said we should try a threesome but not with a friend. You said we should find a stranger at a bar. So we talked about it. When we were thinking of a bar we were nervious we might run into some one we know. We talked about going to a swingers club. Are single men allowed to go to a club or is it just couples?? Question for the women would you try it?? Get all dressed up sexy and go to a club
and like the idea of other men looking at you?? And the men how many of you would like to see your wife dress up in a very sexy outfit and dance with other men? We have been married 25 years and just looking to spice up our life a little. Is this wrong of us??
2007-02-08 21:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OMG! I can't believe people like you exist in this world!
2007-02-08 21:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by esskaykhan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, this isn't wrong of you at all, but you may not get the infomation you are looking for here. Try The Swingers Board http://www.swingersboard.com for some good, objective, and accurate information about swinging from those that have been doing it successfully for many years.
From personal experience... My wife and I have been swingers for several years, so we can give you the straight poop.
"Are single men allowed to go to a club or is it just couples?"
Usually single men are not allowed in swingers clubs because many (not all) are lecherous and don't understand swinging. They think it's a porn movie and everyone's wife is the costar in their own little twisted porn fantasy. Basically, they think it's what they see on the Internet. Single men who have been in the lifestyle for awhile get to know club owners and can be allowed in because they are well liked for reasons besides sex. Basically, they are just good people and happen to have fantasies similar to the couples at the club.
"Question for the women would you try it?? Get all dressed up sexy and go to a club and like the idea of other men looking at you??"
My wife loves it. What woman doesn't want to feel desired?
"And the men how many of you would like to see your wife dress up in a very sexy outfit and dance with other men?"
I love it. I love watching my wife flirt with others and know that they, like me, are attracted to her. It makes me feel great knowing I did so well, myself. She also likes to see me flirting with other women. I guess we are big voyeurs. :-) In short, it's a pride thing. I think she's hot and I'm glad others do too.
2007-02-09 16:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every male has a dream of a threesome. I think it would actually be harder to go through with it. Before my wife and I got married she had a threesome with 2 other guys. I have thought about trying it with her but I don't know if I could handle it after wards or not. But I do love it when she dresses up very sexy and we go out and other guys look at her. It makes us both feel good
2007-02-09 08:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by dave6035 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think u should do that and the best thing would be is to ask the 3rd guy for money too. i dont think she should do it 4 free tell her 2 ask 4 money frm da 3rd person since she iz a hoe and i dont think u r spicing up your life y dont u tell your wife to find a better man who will satisfy her so she wont need 2 or more men 2 **** her cuz there r many men out there who can make a girl *** all by himself no need of another person.
2007-02-09 07:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by sizzlinpunjaban 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ruin your marriage. Be my guest. Watch while another man lays his hands on your wife, takes the only thing she has saved exclusively for you and makes it public and totally an activity of the bedroom, nothing to do with love or caring.
And pass around pictures of your wife, the precious body that your children came into the world in. The body that holds the past of your family, the grace and honor of your children and their children. Defile it, use it, make it worth nothing but leering looks and the thoughts it produces in the heads of your friends.
If your wife is no more precious to you than this, than go ahead. I hardly think spicing up your marriage means total disrespect. But if both of you agree, do as you please. I think you're headed for a train wreck, myself.
2007-02-09 05:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ande 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I too am in a marriage of 25 years and we don't look up that road to spice our relationship. I think you both are wrong on thinking of this idea. Remember if you go through with this- after it is done you both will have regrets and your marriage will start to go down hill and you'll ask yourself WHY?
2007-02-09 06:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Taz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong but both of you would really want to do it, not just one. and if you can handle another guy touching your wife, or vice versa. just make sure this is what you both want. you two are both adults. and can do what ever you want, and if others don't like it, its to bad. follow what your heart says and everything will be okay. good luck.
P.S. if you do do it and with strangers make sure you use protection.
2007-02-09 05:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with the previous reply.. you should not do it. you can try yourself in any way, but not with the stranger or your friend. if you are headed already, no one can stop. but think before you start. after that no regrets.
2007-02-09 06:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ameenz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me know what bar you guys go to.
2007-02-09 06:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya...great idea...invite all sorts of disease infested men and/or women into your home. NOT!
2007-02-09 06:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋