About two years ago I used to hang out with his guy who was about 26 and he was still a virgin. He really liked me and hinted around AND told my mom that he wanted to date me. The problem was he was kind of overweight and I wasn't attracted to him but he was good looking. Plus he is really super smart, and straight as an arrow, the total opposite of me. I always would kidd around with him and call him a dork b/c he is one, but i wasn't mean to him. Anyhow since then he's lost a little weight and he's dating this hot blonde now. I am so totally jealous, am I wrong for feeling this way? Do you think he still might be interested in me? I'm not hot or a blonde, do i have a chance? lol probably not, huh?
2007-02-08 21:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by DiG iT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
scheneista, have you told your therapist about how bad you wanna screw our boss?
2007-02-08 21:36:11 · update #1
i think that you may have a lot of prpblems and you may need to seek professional help! it wouldn't hurt! and where you abused as a child?
2007-02-08 21:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by scheneista w 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Well yes you got a chance hell I don't date alot blondes but if you look at yourself like you are now that really ant a turn on all I got say is yes theres a chance take it and find out.
2007-02-08 21:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have zero chance. Being called a dork hurt, a lot.
Too bad you were so shallow over a few pounds, eh?
2007-02-08 21:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea its wrong for u to be jealous but the only thing u can do to get answers and feel a little better is to tell him how u feel.
2007-02-08 21:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by pimpdaddy_mario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong for being jealous, i dont think you actually want the guy! but you feel inadequate because he has lost interest in you and you liked the chase... get over it, you dont want him and he does not want you! move on!
2007-02-08 22:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chance and u shouldn't be jealous after all ur the one that didn't want to go out with him because he was overweight
2007-02-08 21:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really like this guy. However, he had to lose weight before you could like him. Imagine that. It's like you'll wait for a poor man to become rich before you decide to marry him.
2007-02-08 21:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A the one that got away. Not to worry. It has happened to a lot of people.
2007-02-08 21:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to focus on your good qualities. Ask yourself why would you want him only after he is with someone else?
2007-02-08 21:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too bad, hun. you can feel all the jealousy you want, but in the end, you still lose out.
2007-02-08 21:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you joked around with him like that he probably thinks that you and him were just gonna be friends
2007-02-08 21:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋