Need advise pls. Which is more important? Having a bf who loves you so much and is true to you and thinks ya God's greatest gift yet not as charming, eloquent and humourous as you want your guy to be OR someone who speaks so well, humourous, extremely charming yet you might not really be on his top priority?
2007-02-08 21:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Wish 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bf belongs to the first category. I feel really embarrassed having to ask this here. He's model gorgeous (I dont go for looks but he just happens to be the only gorgeous guy ive dated.) I love him but sometimes I feel we are lacking of chemistry. He loves me so much. But Im naturally kinda person who loves a good argument and good conversation and having a bf who enjoys it as well is a bonus for me. All the guys Ive dated before belongs to the second category. They are charming and amiable and I laughed non stop when I was with them coz conversation just flows and to me, communication is very important. I love a person who can talk well. However, what attracts me to them, attracts other women well. The rships just dont work out since they have so many choices. I want to work out my rship w my current bf. I want to be fair to him also. Thomas, I do not know how you can find me superficial. Thats the last thing I am.
2007-02-08 21:39:27 · update #1
The first guy (the one that worships you) is the best bet for the long haul. The second one if you want to become a statistic.
2007-02-08 21:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one is equally undesirable.
The first one is a doormat who just needs to join Toastmasters to improve his public speaking ability.
The second one you can buy recordings of and listen to without having to dress up for.
How about a normal human being who respects you and is attracted to you? He can hold his own in a conversation but is not necessarily the life of the party.
If not, then I find you extremely shallow.
2007-02-09 05:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart should be very good cause you love both of them. No matter how you have to choose one otherwise you the one can accept both. Should be got one very best to you try to think about. We just can advice but decision is on your. The answer you chosen is facing forever. Think, think, think and think.
2007-02-09 05:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nikko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first option OBVIOUSLY! What normal girl with sense want to be last on the boyfriends list!!!!!
2007-02-09 05:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.
You love a good argument?
Do you think that most men "enjoy" arguing?
2007-02-09 05:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask urself.... this is wad we outsider can answer
2007-02-09 06:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Genesis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋