Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

Or would you tell them to go to he double hockey sticks

2007-02-07 07:22:06 · 17 answers · asked by Bailey 5 in Family

before you put out??

2007-02-07 07:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands ex is calling his work place and telling the office managers and escrow officers about us having to pay her back child support for a month we already payed. The office managers have nothing to do with financial information but yet she kept on calling. we need to stop this she is making our life hell what can we do?

2007-02-07 07:22:01 · 7 answers · asked by chantel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys care to pass some insights? What is the thing that keeps a man fascinated with a woman long term? I know it maybe different things to each of you, but it will be very interesting to hear your answers.

2007-02-07 07:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by Laurel 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some help you guys/girls. I have been with my girl for 6 years now. At first our relationship was great, i knew she was the one, i wouldn't even think of being with another girl. But then after like half a year of being together she started acting shady, so i decided to breke up with her. But when i tried she didn't want to. So I gave her a second chance and she started acting nice. After 3 years of being together i tried to broke up with her, but she cried and begged me not to leave her, so i felt really bad and decided to stay together. Anyways, now a days i have noticed that i think of other girls, some times i think of cheating on her. I think of how different my relationship would be with another girl. Some times i feal like i'm not happy with her, but ther are times when everything just feals so right. My question is do you think that this is love? I wouldn't know because she is like the only girl that i have been with.

2007-02-07 07:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by no picture 2 in Singles & Dating

These emails usually come up when we have a scabble or when i don't talk to her for a few days because i'm still mad at her. She sends them and the content of these letters sometimes scare me and at times they make me wonder about her. What can i do about that?

2007-02-07 07:21:05 · 17 answers · asked by blckmustng2002 1 in Friends

He has finally realized he is an addict of pain pills. And iits hard for him to stop. He has in the past benn "hooked" on coke and meth - which are very addicting and was able to stop..Along with drinking and weed..His weakness are pain pills. What can he do to stop taking them? If he chooses rehab - how affectivie is it, and does he live there while going?

2007-02-07 07:21:02 · 10 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok im 14 years old and i have known this girl since i was 8, at that time i was a kid and didnt really like anyone and was into my cars and stuff but then when i was 11 we did a school play of romeo and juilet i was romeo and by luck she was juliet. So the play went on we rehersed at school but by the time we had finished and showed the play to everyone i was gob smacked. I had never seen a girl more pretty in my whol life but she wasnt one of thoose bimbos. We became really good friends and we moved on to secondary school together by coincedence and she is in every single class of mine. For the next 2 years i kept quite but got annoyed when any other boy tried to go near her. Then a rumor leaked that i really liked her just before i got the courage to ask her out and she didnt like me that much then. But now weve patched up and i thought ive gotta take a crack at it because shes never been out wuth a boy and neither have i been out with a girl so anybody please help how do i ask her?

2007-02-07 07:20:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Aaron Blake and Haley Samantha are the names we chose.Our mom loved them and so did Jake(step dad)But,we were all thinking(the kids)what if we have to use both names?Or what if there are 2 boys or 2 girls.So then we made another choice.Evan Matthew and Kayla Brooke are the 2nd names we chose.Hope you like them all :-)

2007-02-07 07:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

deadbeat dad about to go to jail for not paying child support

2007-02-07 07:20:20 · 6 answers · asked by aladyforyou@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

I was best friends with this girl for about 3 years. This year she meet some new people and got really close to them. I didn't connect to them like she did so I told her to ditch them. Instead of ditching them she ditched me. This happened about 4 months ago and to this day she will tell anyone who will listen awful things about me. She has turned all of my life long (and I'm talking about 9 year relationships here!) friends against me. Her and her friends have threatened to kick the **** outta me. And the list goes on and on.
I have found new friends that I'm happy with and all I wan't is for her to leave me the **** alone. But I have realised that this girl is either not right in the head or just obsessed with me. And it's not going to go away. Today was the last straw and I don't know what to do. I have thought about telling a guidance collesour but thought that I'd be wasting her time and mine. But thats what shes there for right? Anyways any advice on what to do?

2007-02-07 07:20:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-07 07:19:49 · 64 answers · asked by bill 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-07 07:18:59 · 13 answers · asked by Theodore_27 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy who has a crush on me who I decided to take to a semi formal dance, as friends. I thought I liked him but then I realized that I just wanted a boyfriend. This guy is really shy, and when he went out with one of my friends he called her up, asked her out, then said, "I gotta go." So I called him a couple times and we chatted (this is before the dance) and we talked on the internet every once and a while. But the only time he called was when he didnt know what time we were getting pictures.

He said he had a great time at the dance and my friend said I was all he could talk about, but he never called me afterwards. I even called him the day after, but he didnt answer.

A few times he tried to talk to me on AIM but I was busy, so I havent talked to him. Then he just sent me a message asking if I was going to a mixer. he wants to go.

I then realized that I'm really angry at him and that I never want to see him again. (and I'm interested in another guy.) Why am I so angry?

2007-02-07 07:18:44 · 16 answers · asked by emiliakitty 2 in Singles & Dating

or to say goodbye to somebody that you love !

2007-02-07 07:18:40 · 9 answers · asked by laura 1 in Singles & Dating

Towards the end of my marriage I would have sex but I would not kiss him. I just realized this. Is it because kissing is THAT personal? I mean it's swapping spit, food, germs, breath (you get the pic). But sex is so intimate too, I just can do anybody, I need to have feelings. I think I just had sex with my sex out of comfort even though I didn't love him anymore. What do you guys think about kissing vs. having sex without having feelings?

2007-02-07 07:17:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I LIKE THIS BOY BUT HE HAS A GURLFRIEND. AND I THINK HE ALSO LIKES ME. BUT 4 KNOW WERE JUST HOMIES. WAT SHOULD I DO 2 GET HIS ATTENCION? PLEAZ HELP

2007-02-07 07:17:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. He loves me and I love him, but the thing is...we always talked about waiting till we're married before we have sex. But lately I've been wanting to lose my virginity, only because of my friends and family. It's weird, my best friend is 14 and she's pregnant and my cousin is 15 and she's pregnant. Not to mention my mom is cheating on my dad. It seems like everyone is having sex. I kind of want to, and I kind of don't. How do i fight off my lust? I gotta do something before I end up pregnant, and I dn't plan on getting pregnant until I'm 21. Please help

2007-02-07 07:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by sugar & spice 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 07:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by i am in love 2 in Singles & Dating

My Husband and I have been battling his ex girlfriend which he has two chilldren with for three years now. It seems like every week she seems to pull the rug from under us just when we think we have one up on her. she has never had a job we bought her a home and provide her with $3,000 a month to care for the chilldren, all we want is more coustody. We have no criminal record and have done nothing wrong we live in a great home in a great town we still only have 25%. I would like to know with having joint coustody can the mother take the child out of school without our consent? when we have individual mediation does the mediatior have to inform us of the things they discussed? She requested drug tests to be taken ours came back clean but hers was a high lev of medication pain pills. Our daughter had a severe infection in the mouth I had to take her to the dentist with out her consent to find that out is that neglect on her behalf? Please help us if you have any advice please help!

2007-02-07 07:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by chantel 1 in Family

2007-02-07 07:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by maggiemaye 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been friend for about 6 months. We have gone out alot as friends while I was dating someone else. We did have too much to drink one night and fooled around. oral. I like him, but don't think the sex will be all that great. I know I could date him in a second, but I also know that he has slept around and had alot of one nighters. That kinda turns me offs about him. Plus I think since I know I can have him makes him less desirable. And dating co-workers is always sticky. Any suggestions?

2007-02-07 07:16:06 · 16 answers · asked by icom 1 in Singles & Dating

I have lost touch with all of my high school friends years ago. Recently, we moved back to our hometown and have now lost all the friends I made in the new city. My boyfriend bought me a ring and we are getting engaged. I have since been obsessed with planning our wedding which isn't going to be for about 2 years. BUT I have no one to stand up in my wedding except my sister and I don't know what to do!! My boyfriend has his wedding party planned. I am scared that I will look like a fool...and it makes me want to just go to the courthouse and miss what is supposed to be the best day of my life... I don't really know what my question is but hopefully someone has had a similar experience. Thanks.

2007-02-07 07:15:34 · 23 answers · asked by tlm 3 in Weddings

2007-02-07 07:15:30 · 29 answers · asked by Frylock31 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went out with this man several times and we really hit it off. He seemed very interested in us dating becuse he kept calling me wanting me to go out and he kept saying how he didn't want to date other people. He calls me at work yesterday and ask me to come over after college class last night to see him he lives 45 minutes away from me but I said I would. I drove all the way out there and called him when I was almost there but he didn't answer. he calls me back to tell me he was almost there but he was having a bad day becuse he ran into his ex girlfriend at the gym the one he claims was so awful. He gets to his house and tells me he wanted to see me but then the situation was weird I told him to just tell me he wanted to work things out with her he said he didn't but then she called and he didn't answer and his answering machine came on and she asked if he had decided yet. I left and he follwed me said he was sorry. Guys what is the deal?Do you ever get over your ex?

2007-02-07 07:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

they act like babies specialy when it comes to house work and bed time

2007-02-07 07:15:13 · 30 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 07:14:30 · 2 answers · asked by mildew 3 in Family

so..known this guy for about 2 years,he told me he had a girlfriend in america but we just went out as mates.Then last week we went out and he held my hand and kissed me.He hasn't mentioned her for a while,i dont want to ask as i have fallen for him,i dread him telling me he is still with her.Do you think he is leading me on or playing mind games? He says he's also moving out there in september,i dunno whether to live with her as like i said he wont mention her.I dunno what to do!

P.S If you're gonna be rude,like give me an up middle finger,then dont bother i've had enough of rude people on here.

2007-02-07 07:13:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and who with...from a beach to over the rainbow...to a wet earthy field...the forest floor...in your bedroom...just enjoy your perfect dance...;0)

2007-02-07 07:13:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two kids and my boyfriend is constantly talking about them like they are stupid, dirty and he keeps saying that they are going to end up in jail or something. My daughter is in 3rd grade and makes A's &B's and my son is in Kindergarten and makes the same grades. Everyone loves them except my boyfriend. I want to go back home to my family but I don't have a car or any money. He has made sure of that. can someone please help. Do I just tell him off and call my family or what?

2007-02-07 07:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Egyptain 1 in Family