Would you love a family that abused you, disrespected you, almost killed you and threw you out to the streets?

Question

Or would you tell them to go to he double hockey sticks

Answer 1

as a Christan i have to forgive but love them no.. i would keep away and keep them away from me and my future family if i have any.. I'm sorry that you had to go through that but move on with life and have nothing to do with them any more.. forgive and forget and never look back ever again they gave up on you you need to give up on them....

Answer 2

Well , why they have to treat you in such way? Was there a reason behind , was there a misunderstanding within you guys or they really hate u so much for no reason , if it is so then live the life u want by yourself and tell them , let them feel no matter what or how they treat you, they r still a family to you and if one day they really think u are a person which can help them or ever think about you as a family then do give u a ring , And for sure you will be back for them because u know what is ""Family"" if not pls do get out of your life and let you be happy and live as a human being in your this life. Thanks and Goodbye.

Answer 3

You can choose your friends and your spouse, but you do not get to choose your children or your family. What you choose to do with the cards you get dealt in life, is up to you. People who will judge you for that choice are the ones who most likely are guilty of the exact thing, which caused you to make the choice that you did. You get one life. You have to chose what that means to you. If it means to make your individual life as great as you can, then get rid of the abusive family and start your own. If it means to stick with what you are given by nothing more then a random fate, then remain the punching bag of others. You see what I am saying here? Only you can know what your tolerance level in relationships. Are you at the point of feeling hopeless and lost, or are you just upset at one issue that is causing you immediate discomfort. It's your life, you get one. Make it worth having.
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Answer 4

i would tell them more than just to go to he double hockey sticks, i would totally go off on them and tell them exactly what i thought about them. you do not have to love your family and judging from your question, i would suggest that you are better off without them. move on, get away from them and live a happy life. let them fight it out among themselves and ruin their lives. theres no reason for your life to have to be ruined. hope this helps. good luck.

Answer 5

Ive been there. still love my parents but i would not loose any sleep thinking about them any more. i never looked back since i was kicked out and i now have a loving caring husband and some wonderful children. things can only get better once you know what rock bottom feels like

Answer 6

nicely, i in my opinion hate it while human beings smoke, so if I learn that approximately somebody i might desire to doubtlessly be attracted to, it unquestionably turns me off, to boot as different addictions of the type, like alcohol or drugs. and likewise, not having the skill to take part in knowledgeable and clever conversations is a distinctive turn off. somebody who's extra frightened approximately textile possessions is likewise a turn off for me....yet those are not finished deal breakers. an entire deal breaker could be a mooch, a pathologic liar/cheater, or somebody who's only too ignorant and closed minded.

Answer 7

I could not love a family like that. That is why we all have friends that we make our family because sometimes we aren't dealt a very good hand in life

Answer 8

hey
if this happen to you or anyone that reallyz sad. I would just live i have a better changes on makin it on my own then havin them been the way they are now, I'll keep u in my prays always and eva keep ur head up and don't look back gtg

Answer 9

hi,
because they are you family you will never stop loving them. but that doesn't mean that you have to like them. so love them from a far and go on with your life without them

Answer 10

don't tell them anything. it hurts you to be in contact with them so leave them behind. maybe you'll change your mind later on, but for now think about yourself! try to forgive them, not for their sake for yours. carrying hate around is toxic, don't let them do that to yourself! but you can forgive them from far away. and maybe when you got over what they did to you and you have a good life that you are in control of, contact them, tell them what they did to you, that you forgive them and see how that feels. if you still want to have no contact, don't. it's your life, live it your way.