Do you guys care to pass some insights? What is the thing that keeps a man fascinated with a woman long term? I know it maybe different things to each of you, but it will be very interesting to hear your answers.
2007-02-07 07:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by Laurel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'in thrall'?! Is that actually a word? I think I get your meaning though and you're asking how to keep a guy's attention long term. Guys do have short attention spans. It's impt. to keep the mystery, don't reveal too much about yourself, don't be the one that opens up about your feelings on every topic, figure out a way to get him to reveal things about himself instead. Guys love to be the center of attention anyway and probably won't realize that they're having such a good time b/c they're doing all the talking. Be alittle aloof at times with plans of your own so you don't seem so desperate for calls from him. Have a full busy life with lots of other friends that you need to spend time with. Good Luck
2007-02-07 07:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very simple.I love her with all my heart.She's my other half, she completes me.When she's away on business i'm just a ghost without her.She makes me laugh, we can talk about absolutley any old rubbish.We can sit without talking & it's heaven to me.She knows that i cry watching the old Lassie films & she doesn't mind.
This angel, this adorable woman easily has the pick of any guy she wants yet we've been together 15 months now.I will be in her thrall til i die.I'm only happy when i'm with her.Her looks, her personality, her smile.The way she chews her bottom lip when she's nervous.I worship everything about this girl.It's gone beyond fascination now.It's just complete & total love.
2007-02-07 13:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is a great start and love. Once you have trust, love and can communicate you are set really. Things might need to be spiced up now and then but that's whats great in relationships, a little tI'me away together on your own with out children and dinner together once again alone. Just have fun together.
Hope this has helped, i know im not a bloke but this is what some blokes say, eg hubby
2007-02-07 07:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be no competition between men and women. Both genders need each other. To think otherwise is to set yourself for failure with the opposite sex. The most miserable people on this earth are those who view the opposite sex as enemies and are never happy as a result. Don't be one of them!
2016-03-29 09:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T
GROW
UP
AND
GET BORING...
Ie keep being touchy feely, wareing skimpy clothes, making out in cinemas and not passing up the opp to make out somewhere naughty, stay playful and dont act 'proper'...
It its when you go all housing and suiting and into dinner parties as opposed to the kinds of parties with wet t shirt competitons guys loose interest
2007-02-07 07:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more she puts out the more willing a man is to stay...
Easy going, dosen't complain about much... willing to try new things
Always happy to see me, always smiling when I'm around
2007-02-07 07:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta keep changing things up. be fun and outgoing and you have to keep impressing him. never become complacent, its boring and a man will find someone who is more exciting than you. and never let yourself go, appearance wise. just because you got him, doesnt mean you'll keep him.
2007-02-07 07:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make him jealous,dont cheat on him,and dont tell him lies. I know thats difficult for women,but if you want to be unique amongst women,thats the way to go
2007-02-07 07:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by stef8705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body is different period. Just find out what that other person likes an do it.
2007-02-07 07:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jay-V-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is the only thing that lasts
2007-02-07 07:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Good Egg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋