ok im 14 years old and i have known this girl since i was 8, at that time i was a kid and didnt really like anyone and was into my cars and stuff but then when i was 11 we did a school play of romeo and juilet i was romeo and by luck she was juliet. So the play went on we rehersed at school but by the time we had finished and showed the play to everyone i was gob smacked. I had never seen a girl more pretty in my whol life but she wasnt one of thoose bimbos. We became really good friends and we moved on to secondary school together by coincedence and she is in every single class of mine. For the next 2 years i kept quite but got annoyed when any other boy tried to go near her. Then a rumor leaked that i really liked her just before i got the courage to ask her out and she didnt like me that much then. But now weve patched up and i thought ive gotta take a crack at it because shes never been out wuth a boy and neither have i been out with a girl so anybody please help how do i ask her?
2007-02-07 07:20:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all before you ask her out,your mind must be free and relaxed. Secondly,believe you already know the answer is a "YES" because this belief brings out the true feelings you have for this girl and automatically makes you express yourself when your ready to ask her. And finally,not allowing anybody to discourage you in anyway. By then you should have made contact with her on phone telling her you have something important to tell her,but not realeasing a clue about your reason and meeting her when she's alone. When all is set,before you spit it out try to make her laugh for sometime by remembering some childhood experiences you had with her that made you happy but not for too long,then look into her eyes when she's quiet with confidence and ask her. It's definitely a ''YES'' BOY!
2007-02-07 08:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by inekigha d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i HATE when guyz have some1 else ask me out 4 them,so dont have one of ur friends ask her out 4 u.just be confident & act normal.but b4 i go on && tell u what else 2 do can i ask u some questions:is it really worth the risk 2 maybe loose her as a friend & do u think ur goin 2 marry her?bcuz if u dont think ur gunna marry her then ur gunna have 2 break up some time && that will ruin ur freindship...TRUST me i know.i know that u probally just wanna go out right now && u dont really care about the future but when the future comes around u will care.well n e way my favorite way a guy has asked me out is when he does it on valentines day...wich is coming up.go up 2 her all by urself dont bring any of ur buds && ask her out.but make sure that when u ask her out that she doesnt have a bunch of ppl around her.&& alwayz b prepared 2 hear a no bcuz u never know what she might say.but stay confident & if she does say no then keep tryin 2 get her dont give up....hope i helped & good luck
2007-02-07 07:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by ♥!jamie!♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to ask that girl out is to be your self,don't look too nervous and don't show any style signs of goofiness.I know that it may be hard to do but it is only the fear in side of you that may show,but don't show any fear at all.You like this girl so much that it is driving your nerves wild but just take a deep breath and look her in the eyes and just ask her if she would like to go out with you,or ask her with a gentle looking smile and with all heart ask her"I was wondering if you would like to go out with me" let her answer you,just let her talk and that way she is in control at that moment,but still,just keep looking her in the eyes and listen to her and then when it is your turn to talk she will listen to you because you have done something rite to have her attention.Just try it that way. Do not look or act doubtful or worried,just relax and show her that you are relaxed
2007-02-07 08:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by cparker04082 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe i think thats sweet...i think u should tell her how you feel. invite her to the movies or out to eat. then not at the 1st try but try to make a move for her to realize that u like her and well maybe that would lead to something else...;-)
2007-02-07 07:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and strike up a conversation. act normal. act like you usually do and don't look flustered..... than just ask her if you want to hang out ..... if she says yes than go with that... after a while say to her we've been hanging out for awhile and i was wondering if you wanted to take our relationship to the next level. if she says yes than there you go... if she says no than don't keep asking her leave it at that... in a couple of years she might like you....=]
2007-02-07 08:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by mascot336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get other girls to be interested in you and see how she react to the news. ask a girl that is prettier than her to the movies... it is gonna be rough for a lil while but you will get her quicker that way. she will want you more once she knows that other girls are into you. trust me.
2007-02-07 07:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by 9ja-4-life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful because it might ruin your friendship...I wouldnt risk anything like that for friendship if i new...they would just say no! You never no she might like you... : ) If she flirts with you fllirt back see how she reacts but..be careful!
2007-02-07 07:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her out save the friend ship, if you make a move you can lose your friendship with her if things don't work out.
2007-02-07 07:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her casually like 'hey, we should go to the movies together' good luck :)
2007-02-07 07:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by skittles06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is so sweet and yes I think you should ask her out
2007-02-07 07:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋