we have been friend for about 6 months. We have gone out alot as friends while I was dating someone else. We did have too much to drink one night and fooled around. oral. I like him, but don't think the sex will be all that great. I know I could date him in a second, but I also know that he has slept around and had alot of one nighters. That kinda turns me offs about him. Plus I think since I know I can have him makes him less desirable. And dating co-workers is always sticky. Any suggestions?
2007-02-07 07:16:06 · 16 answers · asked by icom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY NOT! One of you will end up having to leave the work place to go to a different company...is it worth it? And, you're talking about him having one nighters and what not...like you're worried about it...but didn't you say something about already messing around w/ him...orally? I hope you didn't put your mouth on his penis knowing the info that you know! Plus, that's not a good way to start out a REAL relationship...just my opinion...it's doomed from the start!
2007-02-07 07:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Erin D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie I must say you have quite the nerve to go around talking how it turns you off that he's so easy, considering the fact that you've already sucked his c0ck off. He's probably figuring how easy it is to have you. And was fooling around on him part of the bargain you had with the other guy you were dating at the time? Look, this one is a no brainer if you need to know whether you should date him or not, then take a good look at yourself, you seem just as bad as him.
2007-02-07 07:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Bombay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what... You only live once. If you like him, go for it. Just be ready to accept the consequences. If he's your boss, def. not. That could get ugly. But, if he's at your level of work, what harm can be done in fufilling your wants? Just make sure you're upfront with him that the sleeping around thing, isn't going to work with you.
2007-02-07 07:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things go sour you will have to be uncomfortable seeing him at work, which is already a miserable place to be. believe me, ive been in the situation before. plus no one will like it, including your boss and people will make kissy faces when you guys converse.
its just not a good idea. plus, hes a man-whore. i know the feeling of not wanting something that comes to easily too. i would end it.
2007-02-07 07:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by whenidecide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is the only thing that binds your relationship then it will just end up fallng apart when you get old and gray because he'll be cheating on you with a high school-aged girl. Go for someone with whom you have more in common than sexual lust.
2007-02-07 07:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by D.L. Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have but maaaaaaaan did i want to, back when i was single there was this one guy...had the biggest crush on him, lord it was a killer, took a lot of work to will myself out of it, sheer willpower to not come on to him or touch him or get in his face, flirt, etc. but i did it because i'll be dammed if i became the laughingstock of the company or any kind of springerbait loser, no way, i'm a classy lady, so i gritted my teeth and got over it obviously, i would never do that...EVER not worth it
2016-05-24 03:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your job, do not date your co-worker. If your date goes horrible, you are out of luck.
2007-02-07 07:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mista Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful, because you do something wrong, ull be worried to go to work every damn day. Something I dont want happening. I avoid those situations. I'll sleep with her, but thats it
2007-02-07 07:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating co-workers is a bad idea
2007-02-07 07:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never get your meat and your bread from the same place. It causes oodles of problems.
2007-02-07 07:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋