Towards the end of my marriage I would have sex but I would not kiss him. I just realized this. Is it because kissing is THAT personal? I mean it's swapping spit, food, germs, breath (you get the pic). But sex is so intimate too, I just can do anybody, I need to have feelings. I think I just had sex with my sex out of comfort even though I didn't love him anymore. What do you guys think about kissing vs. having sex without having feelings?
2007-02-07 07:17:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I meant I just CAN'T do anybody.
2007-02-07 07:18:26 · update #1
I meant havs sex with my ex (sorry slippery fingers today)
2007-02-07 07:19:09 · update #2
Kissing is more personal for sure. Sex you can just go through the motions but kissing is more intimate.
2007-02-07 07:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is intimate. Sex should be, but you can disconnect in a way you can't with a kiss. I've been where you are - my ex and I had sex until we split, even though we knew it was over. We both just wanted the release - and it was familiar. Better than getting it elsewhere. "Better the devil you know, than the devil you don't"
2007-02-07 07:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be crass or rude, but you don't kiss a prostitute. Kissing is generally disgusting unless you have intimate feelings for someone. Women have sex with guys they don't like all the time.
2007-02-07 13:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by MrCead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking what is more intimate, kissing or intercourse, I'd have to say kissing... funny how unmarried people can kiss but not f***. Kissing doesn't even count as adultery.
P.S. "What is worse???????" You really don't have a high regard for sex, do you?
2007-02-07 07:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing brings on the passion for each other. If you have mindless sex usually you don't kiss. It's just sex. So yes I think kissing is more personal.
2007-02-07 08:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be intimiate, depending on how you feel about the person, but with kissing....that's far more intimate.
2007-02-07 07:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by marnan97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! I would say kissing, it really intimate
2007-02-07 07:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing is very personal as is oral sex... i don't think sex itself is as personal as the two I have named above
2007-02-07 07:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats weird every married couple kisses thats what toothpaste and mouthwash is for clean mouth
2007-02-11 04:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can both be intaminte but they can both be done just for fun as well.
2007-02-07 07:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by hunter6543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋