Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

Me & my Gf had got into a fight for sum stupid reason, and she end up telling she have an 100 reason to breakup with me and also i said i have reasons to breakup with her.

Now i wana knw what are the resons she have tht she was talking about... she has it i know as we fight often.
when i ask the reasons she tells none and tht she really luvs me and dont wana break off...

Tis time i wana knw the reason or me breaking off....
How to make her understand this coz she wont budge easily...

Sory about the spellings, me too tensed!

2007-02-03 06:01:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 06:01:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay see i have this feeling like somethin bad is gonna happen or is it good. But it is driving me insane. But does any one else get these feelings and if you do, do they come true. I am just confused.
Jen

2007-02-03 06:00:57 · 8 answers · asked by **[[Jen]]** 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi im 23 and I got married about 1 year ago with my husban who is 35. Anyway I really want to know what you think about my situation here it is: His mother lives with us because she has no other children he was the only one. She is always trying to make make me feel like she is the one who rules there. Anyway she lives with us for free. Now me and my husban want to buy a house and his mother of course will have to live with us. he was telling me that I will have to give him half of the morgage wich will be around $850 a month for each. Now I have 2 Full time jobs and make around $1200. a month and he makes around $6000. a month wich is way much more tham me? does this sound fair or am I just being greedy? I tried telling him that I feel sad because his mother will try to make it like its her house and not mine. and he defended her and got mad at me. If you were a man and loved your wife and made much more than her and lived with your mother would you make your wife pay 1/2 of all??

2007-02-03 06:00:19 · 16 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for a bit and he's really great but the one thing that's been bothering me is his belly. Some people are just a sucker for a nice smile, or sexy arms, but I really like nice abs, and I don't know how to tell him this without hurting his feelings or having it end in a break up, but it's hard because every sexual desire that I have for him just disappears when I see his tummy.

And Valentine's Day is coming up and he wants to go to this lodge for a getaway, but I really don't want to go, because I know what's going to happen. He wonders why I'm not really "sexual person" and I am, just not with him because when I see the belly, I just can't get in the mood. I've been luckily enough to be a good judge of character when it comes to being able to tell if a guy as nice abs or not, but he did a good job of concealing it on our early dates and now I feel stuck, because I really like him, but I can't get over this. Any advice would help. Thanks.

2007-02-03 05:59:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so im 13 and my boy friend is also 13 i was wondering if i should get him something for valintines day and if yes then what?
the thing is that for our 1 month i got him somethin but he didnt get me anything
and i really dont think that he will get me anything for valintines day
so should i get him something
and if yes
whay????
(something age appropriate we are 13)
oh yea it will be 1 1/2 in feb 14 since we have been going out

2007-02-03 05:59:41 · 16 answers · asked by urluvmakesmeweak 2 in Singles & Dating

I really have a problem with my husband sneaking in porn and going on the computer behind my back which I always find out because I can see it on his Internet browser. Why are men so visual for sex? I told him it hurts my feelings for him to lie about it when the proof is there. I feel inadequate and not sexy and of course I am not in the mood for a long time after finding this stuff, it's vulgar. No I'm not a goody to shoes but feel hurt, nonetheless, what do yall think???

2007-02-03 05:59:38 · 1 answers · asked by justwondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Xbox game, Call of DutyIII? Could I realy be punished for taking such a trivial, silly little toy. I will hide it, but I will not break it. Where should I hide it? I am only taking that little disk.

2007-02-03 05:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi, im 24, i just broke up with my runescape girlfriend and i want to cry? should i kill myself? i wanted to meet her on a web camera one day and marry her.

2007-02-03 05:58:55 · 1 answers · asked by asds 3 in Singles & Dating

i met a girl online and we just began dating no too long ago, i deleted my profile and i told her to delete her profile on the online site were we met and she dosent want to. becuase some guy has been sending her messages. so what i did was to made a fake profile and i started talkin to her on the same site, she doesnt know is me.. what should i do help?? we have allready been intimate and i do have deep feelings for her and she tells me the same, is she liying? she has told her parents about me, should i keep talking to her with my fake profile to see how far it gets or should i just tell her?, any suggestions please let me know. in other words what would you do if you were me? i have a date with her tonight. help

2007-02-03 05:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by superman 2 in Singles & Dating

alright i knows that once a girl says she has no interest in you, you are over. but i'm just not ready to lose her. the only reasons why she rejected me was she judge the way i talk, and " he's not my type" she won't even give me a chance! or should i says herself a chance!
the reasons is she can't communicate well with me.
she once like me,
somehow i believe she still does,
its just that she force herself not to,
but now she's building a wall between us!
pls i need advice on how i can do a comeback?
what should i do?
and most impt what i can do to make her comfortable with me?

2007-02-03 05:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Singles & Dating

when a woman dates and has intercourse for the first time, well will they feel pain during there first time of intercourse or do they not feel pain?

2007-02-03 05:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy tht goes to my skool and we always pass another when he is leaving lunch and i'm going to lunch... he knws tht i like him... but i don't knw how to get his attention,, thts my prob. i'm to scared to ask him out cuz i'm afraid tht he is to good for me, he's athletic and is an awesome guy we have so much in common 4 example: we recently both broke up w/ our bf and gf, we both like country music and other stuff and me... i'm chubby and wear glasses... how do i get his attention?? and how do i get enough courage to ask him out??, if i do ask him out what do i do if he says no?? every time i see him i juz want to go up to him and kiss him what do i do for my feelings against him??

2007-02-03 05:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is sexually active and wants it as often as he can. We're in our fifties. He's faithful which is a blessing but I can only do it twice a week the most. It's more of an obligation for me, with all the trials and stress women go thru. Am I being fair to myself and to him? I can see changes now because he wants more. Help!

2007-02-03 05:54:41 · 18 answers · asked by finding_answers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i told my friend i liked him. lets call him nick. i gave nick my phone # and he called and told me he liked me. so we both like each other and we r supposed to thioink about if we both want to try dating and i cant make up my mind. i want to date him cause if i ont then i will always wonder what would have hapend, but then i dont want to ruin our friendship. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?! thanks 4 helping me!!! :)

2007-02-03 05:54:22 · 2 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl friend have been going out for about a month and im only 13 so i dont have big bucks so any idea what i should get her?

2007-02-03 05:52:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i made my feelings clear to her at one time, She asked for my help in project related work and did alot for her academically. She knew all this while that i was inclined towards her, coz i liked her.
All she said , was that She didnt deserve me, although she knew all the while, that i was helping her coz i felt it that way
We are not in touch any longer,it was me who distanced myself from her, coz i cudnt accept the fact that she never had feelings for me.I moved away from her, still not able to forget her.

Today, i am settled career wise & I am looking for a possible life mate, should i approach her about my feelings and that i would like to marry her.. its just that , i love her still and cannot get over her...

or should i simply accept that she nevr luved me

Whenever she needed my help, she always sought my help, infact at one point of time, i felt that i was used by her...never mind, ..Should i make this last one attempt, to tell her that she's still the one i love.

2007-02-03 05:52:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, my whole family is Roman Catholic. We all go to Catholic schools and both my parents' families have always married Catholics.

My parents aren't too strict about who I date now (as long as I marry a Catholic in the end), but my aunt and uncle are.

They totally flipped out when they found out my cousin was going out with a Jewish guy, so she told them she would end the relationship. But they loved each other so much she couldn't break up with him. They've been seing each other in secret for a year and a half now. They're really in love and they want to get married at some point.

His parents know and they're fine with it. But none of the parents in our family know yet. Her parents are all like "We're so proud of you for being strong enough to sacrifice your feelings for your religion" and stuff like that.

Question is, should we tell them? I don't know if they would chuck out their own daughter and disown her from the family, or if they would be ok if they knew how much they loved

2007-02-03 05:52:07 · 64 answers · asked by Emma :) 4 in Family

my friend (a guy) is very kind and has a big heart. He has a friend that is going through a hard time right now and is an emotional mess. I think she may be too far gone, and may get scary needy, is there anything i can do to protect him from her? I know she is not a physical threat to him, but I feel that she might end up hurting herself if she doesnt get enough attention from him, and that in turn would hurt him emotionally...any suggestions?

2007-02-03 05:51:30 · 3 answers · asked by Mendi8a 5 in Friends

I just had my 12 year old son go and live with their dad in another state. He moves alot because he's in the military. I am living with a man I'm madly in love with and this has ever been the first time I've been in love with someone in my life. I didn't even feel this way towards my ex-husband. I tried to stay for the "marriage" because I do believe in sticking with it, but if one would is working it out and not the other, it's not going to last regardless. I want for my relationship with my boyfriend to work out, but at the same time I want to be close to my children but at the same time live with my boyfriend as well. I'm not sure what to do. My daughter is 15 and my son is 12, I do feel they're old enough to understand mom is needing to feel and be loved and my boyfriend gives me that. He did say that he would understand if I choose to move close to my kids and keep the relationship with him, but I need to be with him because I'm really lonely without effection.

2007-02-03 05:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he Trust me with his car, house, and m oney.

2007-02-03 05:50:17 · 7 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a huge fall out boy fan. i really like their music. but my mom is thinking about not letting me get the new album becuase is says "goddam" in it. i tryed everything i could to convince her. the song was a joke, they have never said that in the past, the rest of the album is pretty clean. and i even offered to skip that track. but she is still thinking about it. i think im mature for my age, and she said she does to. i know she might think that ill start saying that, but i really thought she trusted me more.

2007-02-03 05:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by that one girl from that one band 3 in Family

That's 10 or more years of good sex that you are missing.

2007-02-03 05:49:21 · 29 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Singles & Dating

we met him.. know his name.. have been to his house, and then all of a sudden he cuts all ties. we googled his name and it says that he and his wife are recently divorced... we are concerned ....the last we know he was drinking really heavy and was thinking grave thoughts...any search engines or programs or any advice would be welcome...thank you

2007-02-03 05:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by it's still me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband likes to look at women, flirt with women, look at thier myspace sights, he is secretive on the computer. Wanted me to lift the blocker, ect. He may look at mens sights just so he won't look like hes looking at women. He loves to read dirty stories on the net and saves them to his favorites. He has cheated alot b/f we were married. And I know he has had interest, yet says he hasn't. He makes me feel like I am second rate. These women are better than me. He hugs the bigger breasted women @ church. Our sex life is ok. It use to better. He is selfish in bed, when we do have sex. I have a nice body, small frame. The rest of our marrage is fine. He just doesn't see that I hurt when I see him looking at those women. When he is extra nice to women( I won't say flirting b/c I am around him) He makes them feel so special. Yet I very rairly ever feel special. He will spend hours on the computer, and yell at me and the kids if we even try to talk to him. Has he NO self control?It hurts!

2007-02-03 05:48:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres the problem in the swimming when i did 7 flip in 1 breath and i told her she just said good job and she was doing her homework that time in the swimming pool.did i misunderstand her?

2007-02-03 05:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by khalehla d 1 in Friends

Curious, as I'm attracted to a much older man. So much older that I need to ask this question to see if I'm normal.

2007-02-03 05:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would it not be easier to tell the truth and leave if you didnt want to be with someone rather than lie about what your upto ?

2007-02-03 05:47:40 · 20 answers · asked by andy w 2 in Singles & Dating

We both like each other and have gone out for a drink together after work. How far can/should this friendship go?

2007-02-03 05:47:14 · 18 answers · asked by lukemumba 1 in Friends

I cant make friends online, at school, and anywhere :( HELP

2007-02-03 05:46:44 · 9 answers · asked by legallyblonde_1991 1 in Friends