I really have a problem with my husband sneaking in porn and going on the computer behind my back which I always find out because I can see it on his Internet browser. Why are men so visual for sex? I told him it hurts my feelings for him to lie about it when the proof is there. I feel inadequate and not sexy and of course I am not in the mood for a long time after finding this stuff, it's vulgar. No I'm not a goody to shoes but feel hurt, nonetheless, what do yall think???
2007-02-03 05:59:38 · 1 answers · asked by justwondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not suggesting how you _should_ feel, but for what its worth, there's no reason for you to feel threatened. Errr. I think. I guess it depends what he's looking at. Some guys I understand spend their time looking at young girls with big breasts going, ooh, yeah. Personally, I actually look at hardcore stuff with women who look (to me, in my love-crossed state perhaps) like my wife. And I think, damn, I can't wait for her to be up for some fun.
2007-02-03 16:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋