i like this guy tht goes to my skool and we always pass another when he is leaving lunch and i'm going to lunch... he knws tht i like him... but i don't knw how to get his attention,, thts my prob. i'm to scared to ask him out cuz i'm afraid tht he is to good for me, he's athletic and is an awesome guy we have so much in common 4 example: we recently both broke up w/ our bf and gf, we both like country music and other stuff and me... i'm chubby and wear glasses... how do i get his attention?? and how do i get enough courage to ask him out??, if i do ask him out what do i do if he says no?? every time i see him i juz want to go up to him and kiss him what do i do for my feelings against him??
2007-02-03 05:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flash your boobies and I guarantee you, you will get his attention!
2007-02-03 05:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by slipperypickle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your situation WAY too many times! I think that the best way to get his attention is just to wave and smile. I know that even this takes courage, you get his attention and he knows that you exist and want to be friends. I wouldnt ask him out until you know how he feels about you, or at least have an idea on how he feels. Don't get down on yourself, glasses can be nice too. If you really don't like them, talk to your parents about contacts. Its sounds like to me you guys have a lot in common. If you can gather up the courage, go over and talk to him. Ask him who his favorite country singer is. Whatever you do, try not to rush into anything. This might take a while.
2007-02-03 14:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is my suggestion! I really was never shy around guys! I always talked to them in looked into there eyes like they were humans! Honestly i have alot of guy friends. They always tell me The biggest turn off is a heart struck babling idoit! Dont be that person! I mean i know boys are like so fine! But dont sweat it! Always look them in the eye when talking to them sound smart but not over bearing! Dont force yourself to like something to suit them be yourself! If they cant dig that then there not right for you and it wont work! Good luck and remmeber Teheheh go to the bathroom and do a five point inspection make sure you are in order no sense stressing if you have bad breath dirty teeth etc....
2007-02-03 14:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't even know he exists. Then he might not be so conceited as he sounds like he is. When a guy knows how much a girl likes him, he tends to run from her and when he can't get her to notice him, he chases after her. Sort of a reverse effect isn't it?
2007-02-03 14:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not think poorly of yourself.
Second, start by saying hello and a slight wave. That can start into a conversation if you play your cards right.
2007-02-03 13:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend involved.
See where he has 1 class.
Stand by the door & when he opens it,
slap your hands against it then immidately
put it over your face.
He'll think that he hit you with the door.
Conversation started!!!
2007-02-03 14:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hello jessy the best thing is to walk up to him and just say hello and good morning and how are you doing that might help you to get aquainted with him and ask what he likes to do and what are his interest maybe that will help you
2007-02-03 14:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying hi.
2007-02-03 13:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First eye contact, then a smile, then after awhile say Hi! :)
2007-02-03 14:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by butrfly8507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just throw a rock at his head. it will work for getting his attention
2007-02-03 13:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by destruction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop your hanky right before he passes by.
2007-02-03 13:57:58 · answer #11 · answered by nope n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋