That's 10 or more years of good sex that you are missing.
2007-02-03 05:49:21 · 29 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think saving your self for marriage has its ups and downs its good because you never have to take the risk of getting anything and getting pregnant to soon but i also think that if you wait youll always wonder what sex is like with someone else everyone is different and maybe the guy you wait for will suck but if you wait you wont know the difference so the choice is really up to you
2007-02-03 05:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily...just like living together before you are married, you may or may not have abetter marriage because of it.
A better policy would be to wait until you are in a committed relationship with someone you trust...meaning wait at least a few months of dating...10 years is a long time, but if you don't know what you are missing... what is the problem?
Besides, with the prevalence of STD's and unwanted pregnancies, it may be in your best interest to wait. A large percentage of the 15-25 population will get some form of STD in their lifetime because of the prevalence of STD's. That would be one thing to think about when deciding whether or not to have sex. Some people end up with more than one permanent STD's just because they had sex with alot of partners or even partners that are not trustworthy.
also, when you are just starting out, an un intended pregnancy can reallyhurt your chances of completing college, finding a career and gaining your independence that is so important in your early 20's. Plus having kids is really expensive...Childcare alone (fulltime) is around $400/month and if you are only making minimum wage (because you didn't complete you education) that is most of your salary every month!
2007-02-03 14:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's weird because you think "O, it will be great if we wait and exciting OK". BUT what if the other person is not good in bed at all?? Then you have to spend the time "teaching" the person. I don't think it's overrated but I just think it's out dated. And of course it depends on the person. I personally think sex is an important part of a relationship, married or not. The idea of waiting is beautiful, great, lovely. But unrealistic for most these days. Don't think of it as "missing out" either because sometime it's not what it cracks up to be.
2007-02-03 14:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saving yourself is not overrated. Think about it. Think of how many people you and your future husband will sleep with before you will sleep with each other. It wouldn't be as special between you two. And you are probably thinking, "yeah what ever virgin." No I am not, I have already wasted it, and it was not worth it. Females who wait a little bit longer to have sex will have the better sex when they are 30.
2007-02-03 13:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by butrfly8507 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal choice. My philosophy is you wouldn't buy a car with out test driving it right? That doesn't mean you have to be like a revolving door, when you're in a relationship for 3 or4 months and the feelings are there then do it, the chance of a guy marrying you just so he can have sex with you are unlikely. Don't fool your self it's not always good sex, not even if you're married when you do it.
2007-02-03 14:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think saving yourself for marriage is overrated, but how would you know what you are marrying? All I'm trying to say is that you might have a certain expectation of that honeymoon night and it may *** up short. If you're a virgin, I applaud you and take your time, if not then stop fronting and start f#cking.
2007-02-03 14:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Snake Dr. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can it be good sex if it causes you emotional grief? I personally love being with just one partner knowing that it is made with love and tenderness. No short flings and one night stands. My husband and I have a great sex life and we enjoy each other tremendously. It comes with getting to know each other and being so comfortable that we are able to please each other. Love plays a huge part in having the best sex ever.
2007-02-03 13:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i believe in the no sex b4 marriage its not really that hard to do. Other stuff can b done to show love to ur partner and u can still save ur self till marriage for the actuall thing...waiting is best...
2007-02-03 14:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by prettypebbles_7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not overrated...actually its really sweet.
think about how special your wedding night would be. you would be so ready to get rid of all those emotions and so happy that you can get to have good sex, PLUS you get a great guy that you can wake up to every morning! Sounds good to me.
2007-02-03 13:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No. Saving yourself for marriage is the right thing to do. Besides, who wants a girl that's had 50 ***** in her?
2007-02-03 13:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by nope n 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋