I cant make friends online, at school, and anywhere :( HELP
2007-02-03 05:46:44 · 9 answers · asked by legallyblonde_1991 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Perhaps you are putting too much energy into making friends and have forgotten to be your own.
2007-02-03 05:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some times we have to be aware of how we come across to others...you know what are we putting out there, don't lose faith you will meet the right people to make friends with do not make friends for the sake of making friends because those kind of friends are not what you want in the end, find some one who has the same interests as you do find out about what they like and if you have some thing in common that is a good start, another thing do not come across as being to desperate that scares people off.....don't lose heart when the right kind of people you really want to be friends with you will make friends lighten up on yourself a little, you will make friends eventually. Are you very beautiful?....because some times people are either jealous, or feel you may think too much of yourself, if that is the case then the problem is with them, not you.
2007-02-03 13:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOIN CLUBS! it's the best way, you will find people with the same interest as you, and they could be friends for life! Try anything, like a sports or Art/craft club. I'm sure your school has some on offer, if they don't take your fancy have a look in your local newspaper or the internet!
Unless you're horrible and mean there's no reason why someone wouldn't want to be friends with you!
If you're quiet, try and speak up more..........
Good luck, and i hope I help!
xx
2007-02-03 13:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your age, location and hobbies? Difficult to help out when we know nothing about you personally. My only advice right now is you have to be a friend to have a friend. And don't look for the wrong type of people. Sometimes it is better to have just a good friend instead of a bunch. I am personally not a follower nor part of a group of friends. Hope you manage to get some good advice. Relax as well. Don't push yourself.
2007-02-03 13:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you're an unlikable individual, whose company ppl can and do enjoy. Perhaps, you're overly focused on critiquing yourself to the point you miss other ppl's gestures and expressions of appreciation, for who you are and desire to be your friend. ~ Or~ ... It could be you're attracted to ppl who are not interested in the same hobbies, activities, etc., as you are. Those interests that are common with others are great ice-breakers for conversation and aid in creating long-term friendships.
Hang in there! You gotta a friend out there, somewhere, whose searching for you, too!
2007-02-03 14:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the people does, and trustfully i wasn't have Friend but thank godness i started have friends from only almost 4 and have and that i call my self lonely man but know I'm not i have friend, gf,and best friends too and if you want to know how too make friend you have to be funny and cool that are the most qualities you must have. and if you want me to be your online Friend i am ready and remember my nick name is lonely man
2007-02-03 14:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't make friends, then the problem is you. Think about your attitude and how you treat people. Making friends isn't that hard, just be one first.
2007-02-03 13:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Candie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you need to get along with people. or just maybe bad luck on finding friends. But maybe you will find that good friend that you need.
2007-02-03 13:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem sometimes. We can be friends :)
2007-02-03 13:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋