my friend (a guy) is very kind and has a big heart. He has a friend that is going through a hard time right now and is an emotional mess. I think she may be too far gone, and may get scary needy, is there anything i can do to protect him from her? I know she is not a physical threat to him, but I feel that she might end up hurting herself if she doesnt get enough attention from him, and that in turn would hurt him emotionally...any suggestions?
2007-02-03 05:51:30 · 3 answers · asked by Mendi8a 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him caringing and as a loving friend.. to be very careful... that you know his heart, and so do others who are very needy... tell him these kind of people know how to scope them out...tell him you are worried about him not seeing the pattern of people, like this, who need professional help more than anything else, but go from person to person, and because they are so needy, and in need of medical attention, that there is not alot we can do for them. Those who are emotionally distraught like this person, will often deny that it is as serious as it is, and would rather suck the juices dry from others, but never getting filled... they need urgent medical treatment, and we must leave this for the professionals to do.
2007-02-03 06:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by CHERI * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone should cheer the girl up and you wont have anything to worry about. Maybe you should help. You cant just abandon people. I had problems once and people abandoned me. Now i dont give a crap about those people. Pay attention to her.
2007-02-03 06:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Derek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to see if he as a bad side if he does let him use it.
2007-02-03 05:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by ghettoboy57 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋