alright i knows that once a girl says she has no interest in you, you are over. but i'm just not ready to lose her. the only reasons why she rejected me was she judge the way i talk, and " he's not my type" she won't even give me a chance! or should i says herself a chance!
the reasons is she can't communicate well with me.
she once like me,
somehow i believe she still does,
its just that she force herself not to,
but now she's building a wall between us!
pls i need advice on how i can do a comeback?
what should i do?
and most impt what i can do to make her comfortable with me?
2007-02-03 05:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes girls just change their minds, and there is no changing them back. But, I did the same thing to one of my guy friends. And, even though it was quite annoying at first, he just didn't go away. He kept calling me, and sending me e-mails. and finally I just started to talk to him again, and then I found out through our conversations that we connected in a way that i didn't know was possible. And now we've been dating for about 3 months, and happily.
So maybe you should just pester her :p But do it in a way that's not TOO annoying.
2007-02-03 06:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by sallana87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is not to much you can do, except to give her the time she needs and to just be her friend. Tell her once how you feel and leave the rest up to her. You can not force anyone to be with you. How would that make her feel? Not to good I bet. So just be her friend and let her know the real you. It may take time.
2007-02-03 06:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Milly L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like she does not want to know, make a clean break and it will not be long before the next girl comes along, nobody is going to end a relationship just because of the way you talk, i think she is using that as an excuse, you should move on good luck
2007-02-03 06:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by MAD FEMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says shes not your type chances are theres nothing you can do. however if you cant exept that then try to get to know her find sompthing in common and show her what a great person you are but dont try to rush anything just try to be great friends for now and build on your relationship then she will know her mistake.very often when people reject someone its because they dont know the person well enough. hope it helps!
2007-02-03 06:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by chimpapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weather you're ready to lose her or not - its not your decision to make...shes made that decision for herself and you can't change her...you can only change your own thoughts....she liked you once - well, now she doesn't. don't fool yourself into believing she still likes you somewhere in the bowels of her being!!!...,obviously shes a judgmental person and you're well to let her build a wall. we all deserve to be with someone who doesn't judge us (like they're all that perfect)......time and space, move on, and keep self respect...
2007-02-03 06:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by willie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by being friends with her. Women usually pay attention to men that are forward, confident, and nice. Just try to build a friendship with her and if it is meant to be, it will blossom into a relationship.
2007-02-03 06:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her her space. If she truly likes you, she will come around. But she needs air right now or you are just going to continually push her away. Trust me I know from experience!
2007-02-03 05:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by butrfly8507 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her and let her come to you..with persuing someone you haave to time it right other wise she could c u as bothering her
2007-02-03 06:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look this might be hard to accept but she's not interested. She can't make herself interested in you. Move on.
2007-02-03 06:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go ..You are trying to persuade yourself that you can still change her mind. Don't even try - move on.
2007-02-03 06:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋