Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

I am in the 6th grade and alot of my friends have boyfriends but i don't. My sister says that guys only like skinny girls like her and that i am fat. is she right or just trying to hurt my feelings? will i find a boyfreind?

2007-02-03 11:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that there are no sparks and that she wants to break up but wants to remain friends does that mean that she is not being truthful? The reason i am asking is that she claimed that i am "everything she wants in a boyfriend.. she just doesnt get the butterflies." I respect the way she feels, and i do want to remain friends but i just have a feeling that she isnt being truthful (although she is pretty straightfoward). This decision by her was pretty much out of left field even though she said shes felt like this for a month. She had two brain surgeries (one of them 5 months ago), and her last boyfriend was a jerk, so i think that maybe she is afriad. From a female perspective.. what does it mean when a girl says these things? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!

2007-02-03 11:44:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a few years, total relationship time is 9 years.
Together we have a beautiful 8 year old daughter who have both of our hearts in her hip pocket.
Me and my husband have not been getting along, and I have mentioned divorcing. It has been so bad lately that I can not take much more.
I told him I would leave and we could split custody, with me having her on school nights and him having her on nights she had no school the next day. I told him he'd have no child support to pay.

He says if I leave, I don't leave with her, I leave alone. I can not live like i'm living any longer and I refuse to leave without my daughter. I have made it very fair to leave without having to run away. He had threatened to kill me if I try to take her like that, but I don't see where he is leaving me much choice.
I don't want to wait until she is 18 to move on with my life. I want to do it now while I am still young enough to get someone to enjoy my life with.
Advice???

2007-02-03 11:44:17 · 11 answers · asked by Tljabgdvhj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We laugh, tell jokes, cry...all that great stuff. However, he is NOT what I want for a boyfriend. He's 27 and still attending college. I'm 22 and farther along than he is.
We've already once had a 'define the relationship' talk where he asked if I liked him. I told him when we first met I thought we could have something possibly, but the more I hang out with him, the more I don't see it.
I am attracted to other guys. Now I'm starting to get annoyed at the fact that he wants more and thinks that I do when I just like to hang out with him!!!!!
Is there a good song too that I could send to him to help him get the picture? I plan on talking with him about this but I'm scared of hurting his tender feelings. Because I do love him...just NOT LIKE THE WAY HE WANTS ME TO!
Please help :*-(

2007-02-03 11:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him. I don`t know why he suddenly tried to fought over so many things. I don't know if he did it because he is not that in love with me or if he just wants to fix things before starting something.
What to do? should i call to see what happens?

2007-02-03 11:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by grapes 1 in Singles & Dating

After 2 years my significant other has chosen to "just be friends", what is the proper reaction? Emotional break down, crying on just the thought of it? HELP!

2007-02-03 11:42:26 · 17 answers · asked by Rebeccamarie 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, im only 11, but i like these two boys... i dont even know if either one likes me... oone of them is going out with my best friend...and the other is not going out with anyone.. the one thats single is the one i like the most... should i ask him out??

2007-02-03 11:41:55 · 5 answers · asked by super feline 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex just dumped me a few weeks ago.He said he doesn't want a girlfriend right now,,,,but I heard that he is getting together with his last girlfriend before me.I like him and he flirts around with me a lot,,,,,So what should I do?

2007-02-03 11:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by Ms.Answers 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 11:41:04 · 3 answers · asked by teania b 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there something wrong with me? No body seems to love me or want to go out with me. I dont get it.

2007-02-03 11:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by kaileykaileykaiey. 1 in Family

Is it a turn off when a girl is smarter than you are?

2007-02-03 11:40:51 · 10 answers · asked by janedoe 2 in Singles & Dating

God why do parents have to be so boring. I feel like a teenager all of a sudden saying that but I am SO BORED at home. I can't move out b/c can't afford a dorm. Will get married (THANK GOD can't wait) next year. But until then I am bored out of my mind in this house. My parents have NO friends, they always talk bad about people and critize whoever they meet. My father is a very serious man and always has his head stuck in the accounting/balancing book or researching stuff online. My mother is moody and is sometimes angry and behaves like a child or is sometimes in good mood and reads the paper quietly or goes shopping. My sis is a mix of both!! I have no friends so i end up stayin at home over the weekends...god how do i get out of this??? Does anyone know how I feel??

2007-02-03 11:39:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I will be married 2 years this year and will be engaged 2 years this valentines day, we want to go on an inexpensive getaway, that we can drive to. We don't want cheesy romantic, more like something fun to do together, and not break the bank.

2007-02-03 11:38:51 · 5 answers · asked by Brittney U 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my older sister might be using drugs. She is 17 years old she she is sickly looking and never comes out of her room she stays out very late and listens to heavy metal music VERY LOUD. she doesn't talk to me anymore like she used to and she yells at my dad.

2007-02-03 11:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-03 11:38:26 · 1 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy and we both know we're really like eachother but we're both to shy to ask eachother out wat do i do? should i make the fisrt move?should i wait?

2007-02-03 11:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by lovedat13 1 in Singles & Dating

What is "the song" that gets you all messed up inside ?

2007-02-03 11:37:12 · 12 answers · asked by Pink Freud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 11:36:59 · 16 answers · asked by jess 1 in Friends

2007-02-03 11:36:11 · 4 answers · asked by cassandra b 1 in Singles & Dating

Is she searching for compliments? Does this mean that she is interested in you or just sees you as a friend?

2007-02-03 11:35:55 · 20 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a guy who has had some female friends before we met that he has know for some time. During our 6 month time we have both been very open and honest with one another as I have left many bad relationships and he has had one. A female friend called crying and boo hooing and asked to stay for a while until she got her money together. We were suppose to have our time together but I cancelled. My b/f sent me an e-mail asking for a time frame of how long we were going to hang out as I usually have something to do the next day and do not spend the night. I am uncomfortable going over to his house and sleeping with him possibly while some unknown strange woman is there so i just cancelled our "date". I do not want to ruin what we have b/c he is great marriage potiental and we have a great relationship, communication, but how do I ask him what the f--k is this all about w/o prying and getting defensive. I just really feel threatend.

2007-02-03 11:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

In one of my classes I have to give a powerpoint presantion in front of many people who don't even talk to me, as a matter of fact I don't think they like me at all. Some of them just stare at me like I owned them something and well its making me feel really unconfortable knowing that I have to speak in front of all of them. On top of all that I'm really shy, what should I do?

2007-02-03 11:35:14 · 7 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Singles & Dating

There this guy that came to my house with his friend.. the guy i know but his friend i didnt know.. the guy i know said there tara and his buddy looked right at me and smilled.. we made eye contact and smilled.. we both smilled with our teeth.. than his buddy turned around.. do you think he likes me and what do i do next ?

2007-02-03 11:35:14 · 1 answers · asked by what ever works 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 11:35:01 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I moved to a new city to go to university. I never had friends in high school and now was supposed to be my chance, but all the people i meet still just want to hang out with their high school friends. They said they were looking for new people to let into their group but that didn't really work out. they all live in a the same neighborhood. I'm not too far away, but I'm a little ways away.

2007-02-03 11:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

over the summer i was talking to a guy name g, it was a really good "short" relationship. i like to be controlled and he like to control, i like money, he possesed it, so on and so forth, we broke up because of some things my mother wouldnt ket me do like spend the night out, or leave my house at 11pm to see him, thing was i was only 17 and i lied and said i was 19 so i was stuck between a rock and a hard place, and he winded up tellin me to lose his number. today i seen him and we exchanged words and i winded up giving him my number again, and now i'm 18 with less restrictions. what i wanna know, did i mature as a young lady by giving him my number again and looking past the fact that he told me to lose his, or, was i stupid for even wasting my time talking to him

2007-02-03 11:34:47 · 11 answers · asked by DAYUM I 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 11:34:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My coworker made me brownies for my birthday. They were absolutely delicious. She knows that I love brownies I already have a huge crush on her and at times think she may have a crush on me too, however she has told me that she is seeing someone. But then again I am the only person at work that she has told about this and she says that the relationship is not that serious. We have a great deal in common which makes me attracted to her even more. Do you think she may be intereted or just sees me as a friend?

2007-02-03 11:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so to start. I am 16. Well I live in the country. And I show calves and ride horses (I know you are thinking what does this have to do with anything but just keep reading) Alright, so I lived here for 3 years and. A few weeks ago, my dog got out and my neighbor brought her back. We talked for awhile. (He is 17 btw and goes to a different school 45 mins. away) Well I really kinda liked him after that..sorta..I thought he was cute, and sweet. Well I looked him up on myspace and found his profile. It said he was looking for a cute country girl, that likes to show calves and ride horses..so I was like...YEA!! Then I read down and it said he likes to look into his g/f beautiful blue eyes. Well this kinda scared me so I waited awhile before I messaged it. I waited about a week then told him who I was and asked him how his cattle looked. Well he answered me and asked me to be his friend. When I looked at his profile he had taken the g/f part off..So..We talked for awhile on myspace....

2007-02-03 11:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 11:33:15 · 7 answers · asked by lonely heart 1 in Singles & Dating