There is this guy and we both know we're really like eachother but we're both to shy to ask eachother out wat do i do? should i make the fisrt move?should i wait?
2007-02-03 11:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by lovedat13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple.make the first move.thats all.easy breezy, get the confidence, deep breaths during your nervousness, you will do fine. My suggestion is to engage him in conversation firstly, see what it is he is into, then based upon a mutual like for a thing (say for instance you both are into music) you pop the question .Ask him. the worst he can say to you is no...if it's a no, then you have your answer..move on..he either is way too shy or he's just not into you. you figure it out.Don't waste time on him IF he says no..MOVE on.he'll see you in a different light.perhaps he will then chase after you....lol u just nvr know the outcome.have fun though.Life is all about the fun factor..be safe and let us know how this turns out for you. Katie
2007-02-03 11:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Good Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I don't know why either of you wouldn't have made a move already. If both of you are interested in eachother and you both are single then it shall be fairly easy for one or the other to make a first move.
In this case I would say you might have to make the first move instead of waiting because you don't know how long that could be. Traditionally the male usually makes the first move but if he is taking too long and you really like him then you might have to iniate it.
2007-02-03 19:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get the guts to ask him out, because I was completely head over heels for this guy for 7 months, and just 2 days ago, he got a girlfriend. So, I waited for nothing. If you like him, then it's worth a shot! Remember, you only live once!
2007-02-03 19:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Britt Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him ask him out because if both of you are shy and you decide to wait until he makes the first move then you might be waiting a long time so just ask him out. good luck :)
2007-02-03 19:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to make the first move. But if you think he'll come around to doing it soon, I'd wait.
2007-02-03 19:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move, he'll see that youre bold and you know what you want. This will inspire him and he'll stop being so shy.
2007-02-03 19:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Katey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Be secure without being pushy, smile and be friendly. Get him to talk about himself, people like that, he will feel comfortable and he might ask you out!
2007-02-03 19:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone already said it, If you feel he is coming around to asking you. I would wait.
2007-02-03 19:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think u should if someone else comes and takes him u will never forgive your self 4 not trying
2007-02-03 19:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT AND IF YALL BOTH KNO YALL LIKE ECH OTHA DEN DURRR ITZ TIME YALL LET YA FEELINZ AT EACH OTHA
2007-02-03 19:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋