Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

I'm 24yrs & his 30yrs.i ve never been interested in white guys,but i seem to be a magnet for them,so i gave into this guy i'm seeing now.He has turned out to be great.I think i'm falling for him.I don't want to admit,my family will not accept him.I'm fighting my feelings.He is educated,has a good job& he is really good looking & i'm in college.He always has time for me.I don't understand why i can't completely let him in my life.We ve been seeing eachother for 9 months now.He makes the best love to me& makes me feel beautiful.Last week he introduced me to his Boss as his G/friend & later that day i flipped out.He apologised,he thought we were in a relationship.I told him,we re just having sex.i don't mean it.i'm in love with him.i think about him a lot.He has said"i love you" a number of times but i don't respond.i don't want to lose him but i keep hurting him.i'm confused & i think my family and friends have something to do with it. They don't like him just because he is white.help

2007-02-03 11:52:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

e used everything that I can think of x 2. All from planning a big birthday bash to writing a sweet letter. I've done the dinners and the picnics and the dressing up in outfits, I'm all out of ideas and I need some new ideas. Please help!!! I have v-day coming up and his 25th Birthday. Oh and we live in Okinawa Japan, so we don't have all the cool places that people might say to go to. I'm looking for stuff I can do at home or for cheep...not like going out to a place...sweet cute stuff...

Guys, what could a girl do that would really make you think she was the best!!! (plz I need to hear from adalt men, not boys who just want sex)

I just want you all to know, that we have been dating since I was 17 and married since i was 20. I'm now 22. I've been doing cute stuff for him ALL the time, at least once a week if not more...I'm just running out of ideas and need some new stuff.

2007-02-03 11:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by dohm84 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 11:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by cy ko tic 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for about 3 months and we are about 16 years old.

2007-02-03 11:51:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I met my husband I was totally in love... after 3 months of dating I became pregnant and my world was turned upside down. We got engaged when I was 5 months pregnant. My parents put so much pressure on us to get married so we got married when our daughter was 5 months old. I struggled for two years with my marriage and just wasn't sure if I really wanted to be in it. 2 years later I became pregnant again and was totally not ready. Now we have two children and I am back to feeling like I'm not sure if I can stay in this relationship. My husband is wonderful to me and our children, but I am not "in love with him". I really do not think I should stay married and don't know if I even can, but I am so afraid to leave for fear that I will regret it later on. I just don't know if I can stay in a marriage for 4 more years with constantly questioning how I feel for him. What should I do???

2007-02-03 11:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by i can 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 11:51:22 · 3 answers · asked by charmed 1 fan215 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not married, and this isn't about my boyfriend or anything. But I'm just curious as to what others think and thought there'd be plenty of folks here with an opinion.

I was out with some friends at a bar last night, and two of the guys swore that all men love strip clubs. The two others weren't quite so zealous. Personally, I don't think they all do...

Some men think it's a cheap waste of time. Why spend your money to be teased by someone who only looks good because he's drunk, she's half naked, and it's dark?

Please also state whether you're male or female, your age, and why you think what you do. Thanks. ^__^

2007-02-03 11:51:14 · 42 answers · asked by Holly 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is having a huge party there and she invited me!! She asked if i could give a donation like $5 i wonder why she want me to give a donation. Have any ideas??? I wonder if i'll fit in cuz she's like one year above me and i barely know any of the people she knows!!!! Please give me some advice on how to fit in this party!!! Hurry i have to leave in 30 mins!!!!

2007-02-03 11:49:57 · 1 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends

My stepdaughter has been missing for 4 years this coming April. If you haven't seen her could you please spread the word?

2007-02-03 11:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Point blank....caught my bf cheating, now it's time he was humiliated just as I was. I'm seeking revenge....but not the revenge that I'm going to regret. Any suggestions would be great...I've been looking all over the internet for some revenge sites, however most of them involve regretful actions and that's not what I'm looking for.

2007-02-03 11:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by hope578 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend got sent to a foster home ! He was a really great kid and boyfriend! and now i cant talk to him any more ! BUT I STILL LOVE HIM! what should i do?

2007-02-03 11:48:54 · 6 answers · asked by emily p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, me and my gf want to kiss, we both do but we caqnt get the right moment and how to approack, help!

2007-02-03 11:48:54 · 3 answers · asked by The A Man 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets Say U Go Out And There's this boi that has been lookin at you the whole time and u tell ur friends u wouldnt mind talkin 2 him so ur friends try and hook u ^ and wen they ask him he thinks about it and his friend tells him he shouldnt so he thinks about it again and says "no" so why did he say no and he's been checkin u out ever since u walked through tha door...is it because he listened 2 his friend or wat is it....He's 15 by the way....bois only question....but gurls can answer 2
plz n thank u <3

2007-02-03 11:48:52 · 3 answers · asked by iluvrodney06 1 in Singles & Dating

come to me if he intrested in me ?? his wife and him are getting devorice.. she is devorcing him.. I dont want sound like im desperate. how long do i wait ? if you dont know what im talking about just hit my question and it says another question.. thanks tara

2007-02-03 11:48:32 · 2 answers · asked by what ever works 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to find a nice guy and I'm looking for a nice guy, but I can't stop thinking about the wrong guy. The guy that smoke and drank too much and hit on other girls and ignored me and had a really bad temper. Why do bad boys have such and appeal and good guys seem boring in comparison?

2007-02-03 11:48:14 · 13 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 11:48:09 · 6 answers · asked by ShOrTe 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to start talking to this girl we talked earlier in the week and talked for a long time I called her yesterday and asked her to come over but she was on the phone and told me to call back in 30mins I called back in about an hour around 11 and didn't get and answer shout I see if she wants to hangout today or not???

also what should I say

2007-02-03 11:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is more important to you in a reltionship or marriage and why? What is the difference between passion and romance? If you had to choose between the two what would you choose and why? I want feedback and ideas on this. Should be quite interesting to say the least:) What lasts longer in a relationship between the two?

2007-02-03 11:47:31 · 17 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

do u believe in love at first sight? Why or why not?

2007-02-03 11:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by Latin-Queen405 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and i broke up 8 weeks ago. He has since met someone else. Why then, does he still have my number in his phone. He sent me a text this weekend.It was just to give me a message. The first thing i did was delete his number, so why does he still have mine!! We split on bad terms. We werent married, didnt have children together and didnt live together. we were together for 2 years!!!

2007-02-03 11:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that they are kinda waste of time. Some of my friends "go out" with a guy but they don't even speak together once....what would you call that? How many of you waited to have a relatonship until High School?

2007-02-03 11:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Tonight she is going to the movies with friends family and then a birthday party.......what time should she be home by?

2007-02-03 11:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my parents divorced in1993 and have never been civil to one another since. my mum has alot of hatred towards my dad as he was unfaithful to her on many occasions and she also blames him for the death of my brother in 1994. my brother was killed in a car crash and although my dad wasn't driving, his alcoholic girlfriend was. After this event, my dad was never really around as a father figure and we drifted apart. my dad & i have become alot closer over the past year or so. i love my dad to pieces despite everything and he is now constantly trying to make it up to me after all the wrong he has done & the time we spent apart. i know he regrets everything. my mum blames him for the loss of her son and cannot forgive him.to cut a long story short my mum wants to give me away and wouldn't forgive me if i didn't let her but at the same time i really want my dad to give me away, what to do? what do you think about both of them giving me away? Although my mum would strongly oppose this.....help

2007-02-03 11:46:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My daughters father was recently married. His wife has a bad habit of giving out card and signing his,hers and their baby name. She never puts my daughters name down. She has already done this 2x. This card that she gave was to his sister-in-law and it was read out loud to the guest. I was so mad and hurt when I turned and looked at my daughters face. Even more when I saw some of the other guest looking at me. Do stepmothers forget cause the other child does not live in their home. Or are they just so insucure and threathen that the childs mother is still close with his family. For all you grown step moms who do this stop being haters and be the adult, cause to me it makes you look like an ***.

2007-02-03 11:46:30 · 2 answers · asked by pineapple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

last nite:my best friend and my other friend hid on me for like 20 minutes(joking around) and i was a little pissed.then, my friend told me they were having a long talk last weekend. i was said "oh. what about?" and my best friend says "stuff and you" and i said "bad stuff?" and she said "no comment". it made me mad that she out right told me that they talked about bad things about me. i thought they she was going to say guys or something. its like she was putting it in my face for some reason. it sometimes feels like just cos im not emotional as her, i cant get bothered. what should i do?

2007-02-03 11:46:24 · 1 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Friends

How old were you and how did you get that boyfriend or girlfriend?

2007-02-03 11:46:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-03 11:45:33 · 7 answers · asked by yo mama 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are fifteen. We've been together for a little less than a year (almost ten months). I really care about him and I know he cares about me. The only problem is that the only time we see each other is at school. This was fine for the first 18 weeks because we had the same lunch. Now we are in different lunches and only see each other for about 20 minutes every morning. I don't like talking on the phone, and he really doesn't either, so we don't do that very much. We don't really talk online either. He's always busy with family stuff, when he's with his mom she makes him do a bunch of stuff and when he's with his dad he has to babysit his baby brother basically the whole weekend so we don't have a chance to hang out. I'd like to hang out more, but I think I could learn to live with it. But would you think that is bad? I mean, since we're only fifteen, then it should be okay, right? I'm just looking for reassurance, I guess.

2007-02-03 11:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me personally i like to keep it nice n tidy as i expect the same from a woman

jus trimmed mind nice n neat

2007-02-03 11:44:43 · 15 answers · asked by Sean C 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I four play. She doesn’t know how to go down and she puts a lot of pressure on it… what should I tell her?

2007-02-03 11:44:29 · 15 answers · asked by Daniel W 1 in Singles & Dating