2007-02-03 11:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by cy ko tic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
End it and start dating again.
2007-02-03 11:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
By choosing to do things together that will create bonding.
Most important is what you do apart from each other.
You are only as good as what you bring to the table and if you have been at the table together then it becomes too much the same. You each, individually, need to go out. Attend school or gym or some social learning/self-improving activity apart from each other. The freshness of how you will see yourself will be enough to stimulate a change in how you will relate to each other.
2007-02-03 12:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can restore your marriage before you hit bottom, you must think what is causing it to fall and then work hard on those issues, like going out together to eator movies like you used to do but the main thing is there has to be love in the marriage. I know when a child breaks a toy and lost a part to it then it can't be restored skipper
2007-02-03 12:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put that "spark" back in your relationship by dating again. Go out to eat, see a movie, walk in the park, etc. Doing this can help renew the connection you had once made by getting you away from your problems and in a fun atmosphere together. Also, make strides to communicate. If you are busy, make plans to have lunch or meet. This can help plug you back into each other's lives.
2007-02-03 11:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by DramaGeek 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its easy for relationships to "grow apart" and it takes dedication to pull them back together. Take a day or two for just the two of you and do what your partner likes. ( for example, take her/him on a picnic or rent their fav movie, cook their fav dinner, go for a stroll through some history district in your area... find their favorite pastime and do it with them, even if you don't particularly like it, show that their happiness and time is valuable to you, and don't complain about doing it, cause that just ruins the purpose.) If you feel like they feel the same way, talk about it, and then you can make these plans together. Good luck!!!
2007-02-03 11:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Janille S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy just start talking to each other and listen. Do things different. Do something out of the blue , The problem is that it's getting boring and you have to spice it up!
Something you would not do on the norm. But it does take two people to do this . So good luck!
2007-02-03 11:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on the things that brought you together in the first place. focus on what it would take for you to "grow together" and forward. you also need to evaluate why you are growing apart. sometimes some relationships are not salvageable. hopefully everything works out for the best for you.
2007-02-03 11:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by mcneely96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By remembering all the things that made you fall in love in the first place and start to fall in love all over again. Do things together that are special and spend time together.
2007-02-03 11:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you grew apart because of cheating you should probably walk away because it won't really ever be the same. If it's just interests changing over time, you have to include your partner in whatever it is you do. If they don't want to, you try to rejoin their interests. If you don't... break up.
2007-02-03 11:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seek marriage counseling and help so that you can restore things even though you so called gre aprat..... Also try new ideas and things to restore it as well....
2007-02-03 12:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take one night a month and go on a date... no kids no talk of kids get to know each other all over again...
2007-02-03 11:55:41 · answer #11 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋