I'm trying to start talking to this girl we talked earlier in the week and talked for a long time I called her yesterday and asked her to come over but she was on the phone and told me to call back in 30mins I called back in about an hour around 11 and didn't get and answer shout I see if she wants to hangout today or not???
also what should I say
2007-02-03 11:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
was that 11 at NIGHT? If so, you don't want it to sound like a booty call. I would suggest that if you are going to ask her to hang out, you should do it in the day time. And maybe not to your house, but to the mall/park/movies/starbucks/ barn's and noble/ etc.
You should just say that you would like it if you two hung out for awhile.
good luck!
2007-02-03 11:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by msvietpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you last called her, did you leave a message or you hung up? U shd hv left a msg (if you haven't) asking her to call back when she gets a chance. This way the ball would hv been in her court.
I would say, don't call her today. Give it a lil break of 2-3 days if u can manage. See if she calls you. Then u can try reaching her if you don't hear from her.
It shouldn't always be just about you taking the initiative. She needs to also step up a little. Plus, by giving her a lil space, and being busy in your life, you will make yourself a lil more desirable to her. She might start missing u. (oops, did I give a secret away :)
2007-02-03 19:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm assuming she's someone you already know. Therefore to ask her over to your house so quickly was imprudent. She obviously was just trying to be nice to you by continuing to talk to you on the phone for that amount of time because it was safe. If you do happen to ever get in contact with her again (which sounds quite unlikely) than ask her out to a nuetral place, like a mall, or a movie, someplace where there's going to be people. That way she feels comfortable. But DON'T call it a date! That'll only scare her off. Hang in there Gordon, there's alot of fish in them there oceans!
2007-02-03 19:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not try.When she ask you to call back in 30 minutes she may have been making plans at the time. When you waited an hour instead you may have missed her. Just say sorry I missed you last night just wondering if you'd like to hang out awhile today.
P.S. If you called at 11:00 p.m. She may have already went to sleep.
2007-02-03 20:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a tough call, since you didn't call back in 1/2 hour. I would say she probably has caller ID and if she was out when you called, she'll see you called. So if she wants to hang out she'll call you. But basically, forget about her for today. You called last, let her call you next if you want her to want you. Make other plans tonight and go have fun.
2007-02-03 19:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her and find out when is a good time for her to hang out. When you get together ask her about her likes, dislikes and interests. Always try being a friend then start dating.
2007-02-03 19:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by LaQuinta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have had an engagement whcich is why she asked to call her back in 30 not 60. I would try one more time and if it falls through, let it go.
2007-02-03 19:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by scaffmasterus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should call her and don't mention what happened the night before unless she does that way neither of you will feel awkward. You should start of asking her how her day was to let her know that you are genuinely interested in her.
2007-02-03 19:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start by coming out and asking her if she wants to do something with you. You'll get a flat out answer... Just try it, face your fears. The worst that could happen is you could find out that she doesn't like you. There's nothing you can do about that.
2007-02-03 19:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her back and ask her to hang out with you and just talk and watch a movie or something.
2007-02-03 19:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋