I am not married, and this isn't about my boyfriend or anything. But I'm just curious as to what others think and thought there'd be plenty of folks here with an opinion.
I was out with some friends at a bar last night, and two of the guys swore that all men love strip clubs. The two others weren't quite so zealous. Personally, I don't think they all do...
Some men think it's a cheap waste of time. Why spend your money to be teased by someone who only looks good because he's drunk, she's half naked, and it's dark?
Please also state whether you're male or female, your age, and why you think what you do. Thanks. ^__^
2007-02-03 11:51:14 · 42 answers · asked by Holly 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well my honest opinion, really, is that most men who insist "all men" do anything... are really just trying to cover their own butts. They know they they themselves are not devoted and do not offer a woman what she could find somewhere else--so their excuse is that "all men are this way, so get used to it." It's a big lie though.
My bf doesn't drink or smoke or even go out really, except with me. He's been to a strip club, when he was 21-24 or so. He's 28 now though, and I do think it's something that real "men" grow out of.
I can also say, that the two men who were out with us--who were saying all men love this stuff... they're both guys who I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot poll. And I wasn't surprised. It takes all kinds, I guess.
2007-02-03 12:03:07 · update #1
im 22 and ummm a male. I never really got into the strip club scene. why pay for something you can get free from someone you care about. Its alot better than gettin it from some tart.
2007-02-03 11:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Ha! HA!
All the women will LOVE THIS FACT!
The majority of female strippers are GAY!
At least in the small town next to where I grew up. The town has 5 strip clubs and I did work in a factory with some of the Strippers (they were working for extra money) who became friends. Thus how I found out.
So, I never got upset when men talked about going to the stripper clubs. Because, it's fun to watch the expression on a man's face when they hear the women are most likely gay!
2007-02-09 05:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by maj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men who like seeing naked women enjoy strip clubs. You just assume a man cant get it elsewhere when he is at a strip club, but maybe he does not want to get it elsewhere, because he is married for example. I find it hard to believe that stripping traumatizes girls. They probably felt that way, because they are single and have no love in their life. And finally, why should I give a damn about who you think is a loser and who is not ? I mean look at all the losers who did "the right thing" and then got roaked over the coals in divorce.
2016-03-29 03:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't speak for every guy but I'm not into the strip club thing.I can't see going into a club and watching a girl dance on a bar while guys stuff their hard earned cash into her garter.These guys don't realize that these girls are there to get them all hot and bothered take their money and then go home.Then these guys are all worked up and go home alone broke and horny.Just don't get it.I can appreciate the beauty of a naked woman but I much prefer her to be naked with me for OUR enjoyment.
Something else to think about also.These girls are working for money so if you think about it this is no different than prostitution.
male 45 years old.
2007-02-03 15:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
All men do not like strip clubs. To say that is putting a stereotype on men and that isnt fair. By the way i'm a 23 yr. old female
2007-02-10 06:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men enjoy strip clubs. In fact, there is a good percentage of men that are turned off by strippers. My husband has had plenty of opportunities to go with his friends, but chooses not to. There are a good many men who are turned on more by modest women than ones that let it all hang out.
2007-02-11 08:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by HSK's mama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 44...even going on 16..lol But no, I don't care that much for strip clubs. You're right..well even if she's naked and you see it all, it's not for you. It's just a tease. I'll admit, I like a good tease, but at least from a girl I know! hehe But to pay money for it, yeah, I think it's a waste of time.
2007-02-03 11:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not ALL men (hetero at least), enjoy a strip club. Most do enjoy the sight of a naked female but a strip club does not allow for the natural interraction that would occur in that situation.
2007-02-03 11:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by gorg515 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men care for them. I personally never did. Most have been to one at one time or another, because of their peers. A man really doesn't want to refuse to go with the gang, in fear that they'll be thought odd for not wanting to see naked women.
Sure I like to see a naked woman, but I can think of far more civilized and enjoyable ways than paying to get into a seedy club, Paying a fortune for a watered down drink, being expected to tip the "dancers" and be pestered the whole time to spend even more for a "lap dance". All this, just to leave with the guys.
No, I'm not square, I'm not boring and I like to drink. I'm very sexual and have always been appreciated in that way by my partners.
Somehow, it's just not appealing to me.
2007-02-03 12:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24, female. No, not all men love strip clubs. Although at some point they probably liked going to see but they grow out of it.
2007-02-03 11:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by salsadancingtiffany 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋