2007-02-03 11:34:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 14 almost 15
2007-02-03 11:37:49 · update #1
It really all depends. If you really like this girl, you think you're going to be together awhile, and your relationship is strong, it might be worth the risk of telling your parents. Depending on the type of parents you have it could go either way. If you sat down and talked to your parents about it and calmly told them your feelings for her they might understand. If your parents are the strict, play-by-the-rules type than it might be more difficult.
If your relationship is new and just getting started I'd wait awhile before telling your parents. There's no sense in going through all that drama for a relationship that might end in a few weeks. Besides, if your parents think she is just your friend you'd probably have better luck getting permission to have her over than if they knew she was your girlfriend.
2007-02-03 11:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by ksmaluk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing about my parents is that they are almost always right. If you do not want 2 hide it from your parents then tell them. Or you can ask his girl 2 wait. You dont need a gf right now. I had my first bf when I was 17 and over a year later and we are still 2gether. You know your parents best. You can tell them, dont tell them or wait.
(p.s. lying never works.)
2007-02-03 11:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, and i agree with your parents saying no gf's before 16, for numerous reasons, but the main factor is a one that i share also, "Education first, relationships after" get a good education then get a girlfriend, cos as soon as you get a gf and all your attention is on her your grades start dropping ;-)
2007-02-03 11:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you are going with a girl but tell them that you care for her and love her and you dont have to be at a certain age to go with anybody
tell them its like practice to know what to do when you DO reach 16
2007-02-03 12:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may be a stable question, in case you have been under 18 and nonetheless lived at homestead.. As you in all probability do no longer stay at homestead.. i see no clarification why you may could tell your parents you're happening a familiar date.. you're no longer obligated to tell them till you experience you may desire to. you're sufficiently previous to choose whom you date than your parents..
2016-10-01 09:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah! Honesty is a key factor in the parent-child relationship. Inform your parents about what's going with you before something you regret happens.
2007-02-03 11:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by telltonieroberts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna go with yes, though I was tempted to say no.
My parents also had this 'rule'. Its bs. All the other kids dating..
Anyways though, they probably will find out somehow, so you should tell them.
2007-02-03 11:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Socrates 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this I would be stuck. My parents would kill me if they found out. But it is worse if you hide it from them,it's your call.
2007-02-03 11:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN TO THEM THAT YOUR RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO HAVE A GIRL FRIEND AT UR AGE AND THAT UR NOT GETTING REALLY SERIOUS AND TELL THEM THAT U AND HER WILL JUST HANG OUT AT UR HOUSE IF THAT WHAT IT TAKES. AND TELL THEM IT'S NOT LIKE YOU GUYS ARE DOING STUFF YET.
2007-02-03 11:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh i woudnt say anything but thats me. besides with highskool relationship crap u will prolly be over in 2 weeks, if not then yes...tell them.
2007-02-03 11:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by xxx P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋