My ex just dumped me a few weeks ago.He said he doesn't want a girlfriend right now,,,,but I heard that he is getting together with his last girlfriend before me.I like him and he flirts around with me a lot,,,,,So what should I do?
2007-02-03 11:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by Ms.Answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY!!!Sax M. don't be mean now.GOSH!
2007-02-03 12:23:13 · update #1
But i can't find another guy.i am looking beyond and,,,,,,,,,nothing.I gave my friend the OK to help me look.There's NOONE!
2007-02-03 12:25:02 · update #2
Girl, you are not his toy, which he throws away then comes back and picks up whenever he feels like. No! You are worth more than that. You were not special to him enough where he would stay with you but you are good enough for him to play with you? No! Tell him you need your space and take it. If you don't, he'll probably think you are wrapped in his little game of peek-a-boo.
2007-02-03 12:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a rumor. Don't always believe what people tell you. But, if he is getting back with his ex, he should not have told you he does not want a girlfriend now. Perhaps he wants to remain friends but wants that girl as well. The only real help I can give is to tell you to ask him. I would know because I am a guy. I know how they think.
2007-02-03 19:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by disco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a guy, he'll tap as much as he can because being in a relationship is not a priority for him right now. He's not worried about your feelings, he's worried about his personal gratification, which isn't a bad thing but if you have real feelings for him, you'll only be disappointed if you invest anything in him. Cut him off like a rotting limb, he's a waste of time.
2007-02-03 19:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by tiny_dog10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. I remember in middle school I would "date" a guy for a week or so and say I didnt want a boyfriend,then a few days later I had another "boyfriend". He just didnt want to hurt your feelings and didnt know how to break up with you. He flirts with you because he probably still likes you but clearly he likes the other girl more. So...Move on.
2007-02-03 19:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if hes getting back together with the prior girlfriend, and tell him how you feel. If you trust him and if you two decide to get back together then give him a chance.
2007-02-03 19:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Katey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay clear of him..it may seem hard now....but it will be better in the long run..no use stay in a relationship where ure not wanted...it will get easier with time...just stay low for a while...have some alone time.
2007-02-03 19:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and date other guys. What the hell do you think you should do? Wait around for your loser ex? Because that's the stupidest thing you can do.
2007-02-03 19:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about his ***. He is not worth your time. Find someone who does want a girlfriend and will treat you better than he did.
2007-02-03 19:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should get over him. He might be just being friendly because he doesn't want any drama. I don't think that you should worry about what he does. just continue to be friendly and get on with your life.
2007-02-03 19:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER FLIRT BACK. YOU DONT WANT TO B BURNED. HE DOES NOT LOOSE BY HAVING THE 2 OF YOU WHICH HE ALREADY IS TRYING TO DO, YOU LOOSE. HE IS A JERK, A WOMANIZER AND YOU DON'T NEED AN AS*** ANYWAYS.
2007-02-03 19:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋