Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

So I just found out my wife of 4 years (2 kids) cheated on me when we were dating. It happened a month before I asked her to marry me. It was a guy from work that I asked her to stop talking to after they "hung out " one night after work.She kept the relationship going into our marriage and lied about it often. She always claimed it was innocent. So here is the hard part. At the time this happened (when we were dating) I was about to break up with her. I just didn't think we were compatible.I just could not bring myself to do it, thinking she would kill herself or something. So I married her, yah, I know. Little did I know at the time she was getting f'd 6 ways to sunday by this dream guy at work. I married the wrong person and now we have kid's. I decided to just try to forgive and move on but it is eating me up inside. I feel so stupid for the position i'm in. She claims (and I believe her) that she has been faithful since we were married. but she kept seeing him. should I leave?

2007-02-02 19:01:07 · 20 answers · asked by sadguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on a girl in one of my classes. I have no idea if she is single or even if she is interested. For Valentine's Day, I was thinking of sending her flowers with a secret admirer note attached, letting her know that it was a classmate. Is this a good/bad move? If not, how else should I handle this? What exactly should I say on the note?

2007-02-02 18:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by DexterDog 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and there is alot of chemistry but she is dating someone right now and i know i would do so much better then him i can't even hang out with her to show her how much better so what are some other ways i can do to win her over?

2007-02-02 18:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by bs99dan 1 in Singles & Dating

he says that i say bad about our group(especially about him) to everyone, but actually i dont say such things,
what should i do,should i tell him that i dont say such things or tell plz

2007-02-02 18:55:15 · 6 answers · asked by rockubabe 1 in Friends

2007-02-02 18:52:31 · 23 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you ever let the boys kiss your feet if they were good?

I so love those girls.

2007-02-02 18:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any idea on how to over the the beams of the gazebo

2007-02-02 18:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by jive_g 1 in Weddings

ok im 14 and im not fat or really ugly or anything but guys just dont seem to like and i dont know what to do. Everyone always says just be confident and think highly of yourself and be outgoing but that doesnt work because im like that anyways. I think im really pretty but i dont know what to do to get some guys to like me.
HELP!!

2007-02-02 18:51:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that likes me. We are both in our twenties.I want to invite her out to do something. She is very shy and does not talk much, but I know she likes me. I feel very pressured to maintain the conversation. What are some fun things to do that could entertain us for a few hours? Again, we are both in our twenties so no kiddie stuff like museums. That's boring.

2007-02-02 18:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

I've love a guy for 2yrs recently got married he is working as free lance and paid on comission basis and he has not been earning for the past 1 yr my inlaws are the one whom paid for his side of wedding expenses. What make it worst this morning my inlaws told me that he have use company money about 7k... he does not want to find a job or go and work now he has been dismiss as his dad paid full 7k to his company. i've been paying for his car, car expenses and gives him money to spend and he is not helping instead he is adding on to the loan he has. he promise that he wld hange but he did not... I relly need advice on what to do i feel like running aways from him?

2007-02-02 18:51:13 · 13 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work 25 miles away from home and there is no public transportation.My tranny will cost 800.00 bucks to fix.My rent is 1040.00 and I am being garnishes 25 percent of my pay.When I first got this place;There was no garnishment taking place.My wife and her two kids left me now I have a two bed room and it is just me.I want to break my lease and move into this place that I found for 500.00 a month.I have no choice but to fix my car with the rent money.I work vey far away and there is no way that I can ride a bike or walk to work in california.I don't want this devorce to cause me to move back to Mississippi because the wages really suck.What should I do?I can't let my wife get the best of me.I work too damn hard for this.I might have to break my lease and pray that my co worker keeps taking me to work but he causes us to be late for work at times.This is not a good situation but god will set me free.

2007-02-02 18:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by spice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is 16, she has always been very independent and strong willed. She is an a student, but doesnt have any girlfriends. she is nearly impossible to please with everyone and almost nothing according to her is ever done to her standards..her attitude is horrible when it comes to being correcting about her language or how we expect her to act..tonight she was all mad at a girl and was saying things like..Im going to kill her..we repremanded her, then she changed it to Im going to mash her face in..she has never been in a fight but I am afraid its on the horizon..shes disrespectful to me..that has improved some..but Im worried for her. any other parents..or kids want to respond

2007-02-02 18:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-02 18:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by batu5001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-02 18:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by firas z 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my friend likes me, hes a guy & im a guy but i have a girlfriend, how do i ask him & keep our friendship

2007-02-02 18:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by pinonhead_21 1 in Friends

For the past three Valentines Days, and for the last three years for that matter, I have been completely alone and really wish not to spend this Valentine's Day in this manner.

I was wondering if any of you might have any advise regarding techniques for meeting someone either before this date, or on Valentine's Day itself.

I seem almost pathologically unable to get a girl to see me as anything beyond a plutonic friend despite my best efforts to get them to see me as "something more".

I currently volunteer at several organizations which I support, but also where I hope to meet someone, regularly peruse the bar/club scene, and have even used pheromones in an attempt to meet someone.

While I would love to meet someone with whom to have a complete relationship, I have begun to realize that this is simply too much for someone like me to hope for. Thus, I would be equally appreciative to receive advice for how to attract a girl who was only interested in a "one night stand".

2007-02-02 18:47:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started talking to this dude who act just like me. I know he likes me or is feelin me but we kind of fell out. You see i punch him in a jokin way and he got upset. We talked about n then he started tellin me that he don't understand the way i act toward him . he says one day I like hey babe and the next I 'm not so love dubbie. I told I want to be with him and everything. then I text him one day and he claims he got a girl. But check this out I call him and he then called back talking about he was on his way to the mall where the girs are boppinbeen a bopper since that's what I call him. But if he got a girl y did he call bac if he claims he goin to let me do my thang and do you think he's testin me to see if i truly care?

2007-02-02 18:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Kimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if you have ever met a complete stranger and felt a connection to them as your eyes met, not attraction just a connection? If so how did things turn out between the two of you?

2007-02-02 18:45:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

man1--heyy,,look a bird has died
man2--(looking at the sky and,,)where??where??
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man1--look at me,,i love my wife at home,,and my girlfriend outside,,
man2--teach me how to flirt,,
man1--leave it,,u r still a child,,
(after a while),,
man1--heyy,,save me,,my wife and my girlfriend r coming together,,
man2--thats what excatly i was going to say now,,
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boy--when do i come to ur house to ask ur dad for our marriage?
girl--when my dad isnt holding a knife,,
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husband--guess why only 10% of women go to heaven?
wife--why??
husband--coz if all of them go there,,it would be called hell,,
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husband--when u werent here,,i was crying,
wife--ohh,,,thats soo sweet of u,,
husband--but they were the tears of happiness
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2007-02-02 18:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by gunkedar 2 in Singles & Dating

It was on four separate occasions, I now know. I don't see why I would trust him again. Certainly I feel furious, violated, no privacy, etc. Can I get over this and how?

2007-02-02 18:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A) Fat, attractive, low income, pot smoker, nightly drinker, lives at his mothers,nightly drinker,frustrated easily
B) Tall,buck teeth , cute, foreigner, upper income, weekend partier,over achiever, questionable sexuality, yells about nothing
C) Average build average looks ,medium income, heavy pot smoker, low ambitions in life, lies needlessly,lives with mother
D)Balding, athletic build,cute,low income, has no direction, very patient, under achiever
Please list a answer A-D , Also include why you chose that answer.

2007-02-02 18:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by wow_whataguy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 18:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hanging on to your money or having a great relationship with your partner?

2007-02-02 18:41:25 · 14 answers · asked by Cary 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is that i like a guy more when hes not giving me attention and doesnt feel the same way but when a great guy passes by that really cares about you then you stop liking him less??

2007-02-02 18:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've kind of been friends for a year now

2007-02-02 18:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by pinonhead_21 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive told her she can call me no matter how late it is, and that if she needs anything im there for her...whats the best thing to do, how can i be there for her...and what more can i say to comfort her at such a difficult time?? When she cried on my shoulders at work i couldnt help but cry is that ok for me to cry too?...i tried to be strong for her but i couldnt hold back my tears...

2007-02-02 18:37:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

At the beginning of the year, this boy found out I like him because I wrote alot of questions of here about him, and whenever I think about it I cringe. I have totally lost interest in him, and I don't know why I'm still thinking about it. His locker is right next to mine, and it has been really hard to just to ignore the past feelings and get over it. Whenever I sit by his friends I feel really weak and embarrased, and when I'm by him I want to run away. It has been a month already, and I really want to move on.

2007-02-02 18:36:47 · 5 answers · asked by Millie 3 in Singles & Dating

Now i am working in a project centre as a faculty, I m very impressed by her at first look so I love her very sincere past 3 months, But it have some problem bcoz she is my student to join compete her UG project. I want to express my love to her. I am very sincere love with her.. Since my School, College, Office this is my first love so this is not a infatuation this is a true love. So I don’t want ignore this girl. If she is avoid me I don’t think my marriage life and other love. My regular work is very affect with this issue, and also not sleep well, not eat well always think about that girl it is very mind disturbance to me, pls provide the good suggestion to find the solution

2007-02-02 18:35:14 · 7 answers · asked by RS-MDU 1 in Weddings

2007-02-02 18:34:36 · 3 answers · asked by LatinaQueen25 1 in Weddings

My love does'nt really love me.She talks to me but I asked her whom she loves and she told that she does'nt love anyone,but if she would have loved someone it would have been me!Help me my exams are coming over and I can't stop thinking of her.Does she love me?
!!!!!PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-02-02 18:34:24 · 16 answers · asked by swarnavo ghosal 2 in Singles & Dating