At the beginning of the year, this boy found out I like him because I wrote alot of questions of here about him, and whenever I think about it I cringe. I have totally lost interest in him, and I don't know why I'm still thinking about it. His locker is right next to mine, and it has been really hard to just to ignore the past feelings and get over it. Whenever I sit by his friends I feel really weak and embarrased, and when I'm by him I want to run away. It has been a month already, and I really want to move on.
2007-02-02 18:36:47 · 5 answers · asked by Millie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he found out that you liked him the first time because you posted questions about him on here, he will see this question also. Then what?
2007-02-02 18:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why it would still be bothering you. Are the current problems you describe the result of haunting because you feel like you never should have posted the questions before or out of shyness because everyone is treating you as if you still like him? In any event, I think if you talk to the guy you liked before and explain what the deal is now, things should be fine. If that does not solve the problem, then just go about your business and let him look like the idiot who wants to live in the past. If anyone asks, yeah, you liked him before but not anymore, end of story.
2007-02-03 02:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embarrassment is hard to get over. Space is what you need I think, and a good chat with friends to discuss with them what you should do. I think you should steer clear from him for a while, maybe ask for your locker to be moved and don't sit with his friends if he's there. Time will soothe the embarrassment and soon enough he'll probably forget all about it, so don't stress out.
2007-02-03 02:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by caz15th 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you want to move on, but the fact that you can't actually move on should speak to you. Are you really over it or are trying to will the awkwardness away by convincing yourself that you don't like him anymore?
It's not wise to simply ignore your feelings. You must try to first sort them, get them figured out, and then act on them. That doesn't mean 'go tell him that you like him.' First understand your feelings, then you will know the best way to counteract them and move on successfully.
I sincerely hope this helps
2007-02-03 02:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the office and get your locker changed.
2007-02-03 02:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by BEENSADOON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋