Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

I like my one guy friend and he knows i do and he has been acting very strange lately you know calling be names, being rude behind my back, but then he will bw really sweet to my face. What should i do?

2007-02-02 18:09:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To be more exact-- his best friend is a girl-- (but she is gay and I'm positive that they're not sleeping together, so that's not the problem). The thing is, he's been spending ALL his time around her lately. He spent 4 out of 5 evenings at her place the week before last, and then they took a roadtrip together last weekend, and when they got back on Sun, he wanted to spend the night, and I said "okay, in this case," because they had been driving 6 hrs and it was late. Mon-Thurs of this week he's been at her place and only come home in time to go bed-- I've had no time with him! Tonight, he calls me and says that they're at a party together and that he's just gonna crash at her place if they get back too late. I said, "NO! I'm not okay with that!" I'm afraid that if I give into this, that he's gonna start sleeping over there all the time-- basically living there, and I'm never gonna see him anymore! Is this so unreasonable?

2007-02-02 18:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by pandoras_beguiling_little_box 1 in Singles & Dating

This is just weird.

2007-02-02 18:08:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do they just fly off and make a nest nearby? Or do they try to go back to where they came from?

2007-02-02 18:08:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok plez give me ur best advice ladies. I met this girl at work today and we talked for a while. I was kinda shy but i warmed up quickly to her. It was a cold night and i bought her some hot chocolate. Everything went well and I got her number. Now what do i do? How long should i wait before i make the call? When can be a good time to ask her out? I dont want to look desperate u know, she was a really nice cute girl and i dont want to mess this up. PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE!

2007-02-02 18:07:32 · 22 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2 in Singles & Dating

My battery went out while I was at the gym and this guy whom I sort of like, works there, and i called him and asked him if he could give me a jump because my battert died, and he explained that one of his client's were coming in, but he'll see if he can help me..so he called me back and said, he couldn't because his client was expected to show up any minute , but he did ask around, and one of his co worker's would help me, out...and then after that he went on to explain that he was very sorry, that he wasn't able to give me a jump himself, and that if his client wasn't coming in...he assured me that he would do it himself...now my question is do you think there is more to what he was saying, like does it sound more personal or business, and should that be counted against him considering the fact that he didn't come out and help me anyway...and do you think he likes me...oh no it's not alot to go on..but the fact that he was overexplaining himself as to why he wasn't able to help me

2007-02-02 18:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i find out who is my Private phone caller i have caller id but it somes up Private

2007-02-02 18:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by tony s 1 in Singles & Dating

so...I need to break it off with a guy because I am not as into the relationship as he is. I am just not "feeling" it. BUT...I dont know how..I am not gonna do it over the internet but I am dreading doing it face to face. I will most likely end up doing that but has anyone here every broken up with a guy on the phone? is that shallow?

2007-02-02 18:05:59 · 6 answers · asked by ME 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy whose is 6 years older than me (we're both in our 20's). We've been together a month. I'm a virgin, he's not. My problem is things (physically) are progressing slower than my past relationships. We hold hands, cuddle, have tickle fights--- that's it. He hasn't even tried to explore with his hands and he's joked two times about getting naked or having sex. We'll be holding hands and if my hand is anywhere near his belt buckle or waist, he'll grab my hand, move it up and continue to holds with me. I'm not talking about having sex with him but I'm definitly interested in having a little fun without going all the way. I'm worried that he's either not physically attracted to me or maybe he's self-conscious, I dont know but I need advice and I'm scared to just bring it up out of no where with him. He's not really my type as far as body type (he's shorter & skinnier than me, I'm not overweight though) but I'm crazy about him & I want more out of the relationship. Help!?

2007-02-02 18:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by CB8504 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 18:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by foolish_love_haze@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 18:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by holymonx 4 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy at a club on a friday and we talked for a little while and we exchanged numbers. the next night he called me and we stayed on the phone from 8pm to 5am. we went out the following tuesday and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. dont get me wrong i thought it was great and to tell u the truth i only wanted it to be a one night stand because i had just gotten out of a long serious relationship and i wasnt ready to jump back into another one. well anyway the following thursday we were on the phone and he told me he loved me. i told him there was no way he could be because it was way to soon and he thinks that ppl shouldnt put a time limit on when they shoul fall in love. what do u think?

2007-02-02 18:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently it has come to my attention that my friend was eating in the bathroom. I need to change the law. I find this disgusting and disturbing to hear such a gross thing. What do I do? Go to the adminstrations office or what? It was gross, I dont know what to do. I rarely eat in bathrooms, why should anyone. She ate her entire tuna sandwich!!!! I desperately need to speak to someone!

2007-02-02 18:02:52 · 6 answers · asked by Stranger In Time 1 in Friends

There is nothing like a good woman who speaks only when spoken to. Women need to learn they are here for man...not to yack and yack.

2007-02-02 18:02:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 18:02:43 · 14 answers · asked by cbakakale@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother has this girlfriend that sleeps in his bed all the time when she comes over...My brother is about 19-20 now and i dont' know what to do to find out if he did have sex with his girlfriend or not...please help me try and find out

2007-02-02 18:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 18:02:39 · 14 answers · asked by salim s 1 in Family

things were great at first. we have tons in common. everyone pictures us together. we still hang out a lot. he calls me everynight from camp. we do a lot of things together. we occasionally have sex together. but he claims he has no feelings for me anymore.

2007-02-02 18:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by lxcontursi 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crazy brother , he is not crazy , he just acts like one ....
he makes me angry and sometimes i feel i want to shout at him . my mother doesn't do anything . she tells me forget about him he is still young . but i think he understands . he does everything i tell him not to do . tell me plz how could i make him understands that acting like this will make people around u angry and hates u . but without shouting at him . cuz i really love him .he is still my littel brother .

2007-02-02 18:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, I'm going over to my girlfriend's house tomorrow. She goes to our Vocational school for Cosmetology, and she is really good with nails and stuff. Well she said she wanted to do my nails, tomorrow, including my toes. She said that she is thinking about doing a french pedicure on my toes and putting rhinestone flowers on them, and then hot pink for my fingernails. Should I let her do my nails? Will it show her that I'm willing to do anything for her?

2007-02-02 18:00:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a dead ringer for Paris Hilton and was once in modeling and cast for a sitcom...thats the good news

The strange news is this...she wants to go out with me and has but wants no movies, no dinners, or clubs....she also has a 6 year old son that she's afraid to leave overnight because he 'wants her there'. Plus there is usually a cat in tow.

I have acutally slept in the same bed with them (including numerous cats) with the son on the other side...but of course no lovemaking...and not when he is ANYWHERE in the house and that ls most of the time.

She does NOT like much foreplay nor to 'cuddle'. In lieu of this she wants to WRESTLE and this is NO JOKE.

She professes to 'love' me and I care deeply for her but this is the strangest situation with a woman I've run across.

Any advice on WHERE to go for a date...and some feedback about our relationship and how I experience it would be cool too.

2007-02-02 18:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by Max D 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think girls know more about the gossip in their family circle more than guys? If so, why?

2007-02-02 17:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Family

Well, it hasn't been going so well around the house and my parents are fighting all the time because my dad didn't pay taxes last year because he was gambling. Anyways, i've been getting in trouble a lot lately and i shoplifted a few times and i didn't know y i did it. I just don't want to be living this way because if one day things get bad enough, i might try cocaine and that will seriously ruin my life. I just really need help dealing with this.

2007-02-02 17:59:27 · 8 answers · asked by aethermist5 2 in Family

whenever i see him i become nervous n my heart beats faster.i dont wanna loose my concentration from studies,wht can i do does he have a crush on me if he has then what can i prevent my myself from loosing concentration from my studies? is he really impressing me or he is overacting i dont understand but its somewhat like impressing.pls help me?

2007-02-02 17:58:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just slept with a guy who I met at the bar and told me he was 26 (a few years younger than me) and then afterwards, he told me he was really 19.
I guess it doesn't really matter....he was great in bed!

2007-02-02 17:58:23 · 3 answers · asked by Kady 1 in Singles & Dating

Complicated relationship. He asked me out right while I was breaking up and our date did not go well. We still talk every now and then and are both attracted to each other; but timing is never good. About a year ago, his mom died; before the holidays, his mom's cousin started going through the same type of illness as his mom and he was afraid she was going to die, too. Don't think it'd be appropriate to ask him out on a date, yet (especially with Valentines' coming up). How long should I wait? And, I'd like to call just to make sure he's ok...Ideas???

2007-02-02 17:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

Our main wedding color is purple. We don't want to overwhelm our guests by putting it into every single element, so we are trying to use it in smaller accent quantities.

What candies are either purple or wrapped in purple packaging? I thought we could use them as favors or incorporate them into the place setting somehow. I'd like them to be small (so a long Nerds rope won't work) so I can wrap them up in little packages. I'm looking for both grape flavored and non grape flavored to give guests a variety.

Ideally, I only want to spend a few dollars per person since it's not really necessary, but I think would be a cute, subtly purple touch.

2007-02-02 17:57:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We dated for over a year and I could never say I loved her. She felt more like my buddy when we talked and I never wanted to act romantic with her. She was a lot more into it that I was and she did all the hard work. Finally she said she had enough and I couldnt blame her-- so we took a 2 week break. During the break we totally swapped places, I wanted her back and felt love for her right away and she feels more indifferent now. Ive been trying to get her back but now she says she feels differently and that I seem more like a buddy. Now if we meet and I try to hold hands she backs off instead of the other way around. It was only a 2 week break but it changed everything. I told her I loved her now and Im acting very interested, which I truly am, to prove I feel differently now, but at the same time I dont want to be desparate which I think makes her not like me as much. NEED MAJOR ADVICE HERE, thanks

2007-02-02 17:57:00 · 8 answers · asked by ihopethisworks 1 in Singles & Dating

After 10 years of marriage, I was shocked and depressed to say the least. After a week of moaning & crying, I decided to take a look at myself & see where I went wrong. This has made me realise the following
1. I am a constant cribber & very pessimistic about life
2. I nag constantly and pick up every mistake he and the kids do and nag till they accept their mistake and apologise to me
3. I want them all to follow all my instructions "immediately"
4. I want them to accept my suggestion and do only what I choose as the best way out.
5. I hardly smile
.... in short, yes, I have been miserable & made his & the kids lives miserable.
I even attemped 'suicide' & then decided that it would leave a deep scar on my kids & they may follow my way in case they have a problem in future.
Now I want to sort all the mess I've created. Incidentally, my mom was a nagging, cribbing person who never showed love for her kids. Where do I start? What do i do? I cant afford therapy

2007-02-02 17:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by TAGG 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 17:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating