I have a crazy brother , he is not crazy , he just acts like one ....
he makes me angry and sometimes i feel i want to shout at him . my mother doesn't do anything . she tells me forget about him he is still young . but i think he understands . he does everything i tell him not to do . tell me plz how could i make him understands that acting like this will make people around u angry and hates u . but without shouting at him . cuz i really love him .he is still my littel brother .
2007-02-02 18:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Its all in the game thats how it would be do not worry as he grows older things would change.
2007-02-02 18:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falCon you don't mention how old he is. Cus talking to 10 and under is like shouting at the wind. And you don't go into details of what he does to make you so angry and would cause people to hate him. (which is a really strong reaction to something that may not be that drastic of an issue.)
Bottom line: When and if you are ever lucky to be a mother one day. You will understand that childhood if fleeting and they will one day grow into mature individuals who don't put straws up their noses or turn their eyelids inside out and you will long for those those years and that lost time when a kiss on a boo boo could be a strong medicine and them running to greet you after school and giving you a great big hug was not an embarassement neither was wearing their PJ's to pre K.
2007-02-03 04:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't need to ask, I can tell you are both still young. He drives you crazy, that's his job right now. I know you don't understand this right now but trust me it will become clear to you in the coming years.
For now you need to avoid him when ever you can and what I mean by that is shutting him out. He reacts to the way you react so if you show no interest he will lose his. Grit your teeth and remember that someday he could (and will be) your hero. My brother is now a fire fighter and there is no one I'd rather have beside me.
2007-02-03 04:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how it feels, like the others said, he's just trying to grab your attention, thats what all little brothers do.
Spend some time with him and maybe it will be better. if he still doesnt change, ignore him for awhile and when he does things to you remain calm and act like as if nothing has happened and he will sooner or later grow out of it.
2007-02-03 03:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old he is or what the age difference is but I had the same thing growing up. Make him an ally in something and he'll cool it a bit. If he thinks you trust him (at least in one area of your life) he's more likely to lay off the bull that drives you bonkers.
2007-02-03 02:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand i have 2 little brother's ,but i am aloud to punish them since i baby sit allot and my mom doesn't mind.Anyway I assume you probably have a lot of stuff to do and don't get to hang out with him that much.So what you do is ignore all of the stupid and annoying things that he dose,bu make sure you praise him and start to hang out with him more often. (o and in the mean time keep your stuff out of his reach,My brother is 1and purposely sabotages my things).rust me some times it's hard but it works.If you have any more questions i might be able to help you.Email:Tiacarrier@aol.com.
2007-02-03 03:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Asha J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wants your attention and feels that's the only way to get it. Try to work in some time to spend with just him. Play his favorite game or watch TV together. He'll grow out of it sooner or later. I think he just want your attention.
2007-02-03 02:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, just tell him to take a chill pill. Be direct and harsh, but not too harsh.
2007-02-03 02:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Angiebear♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom's right, just ignore him. Either he will quit when he sees it's not getting a response from you, or he'll quit when he gets a negative response from his friends.
2007-02-03 02:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not quite solved it yet, i have a sister the same way.
2007-02-03 02:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋