2007-02-02 18:02:39 · 14 answers · asked by salim s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take a boy where? Have a boy child? what is your question?
2007-02-02 18:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you are asking. If you are wanting your wife to have another baby in the hope that this one would be a boy, then I would not do that.
I know a woman who has had 6 boys while trying to have a girl. If your wife is not ready to have another child at this time, you should respect that ---she is the one who takes care of the children.
How old are the girls? If they are very young, then you should wait a few years before having another. Are you able to support the family you have now? If it is a struggle to support them ,you should not add to your family. If you are able to support more children, the decision should be both of yours.
2007-02-03 01:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! You are very controlling are hurtful to your son. No, you don't have the right to say anything negative about his then girlfriend, now wife. It's not your place unless he ask you for advice. You do not have the right to say hurtful disrespectful things , and its his marriage. Not yours. Why don't you trust his judgements, he is a grown adult. And you are the one who raised him. I agree with your son 100% . You are going to say his wife s medical issues is her fault and she is "denying him children" on purpose. That is HEARTLESS. Also, I wouldn't of told you about the wedding either if you aren't going to be supportive and positive. Why would you even want to go if you're so judgmental? The only way you can have a Relationship with our son is if you apologize to him and his wife and stop being rude and judgmental.. We will always pick is wife over you and will resent you more each time you are hurtful. It's not your marriage so butt out try and see the positive. She obviously makes him happy. Find out why. You couldn't be pushing him further away if you moved him to china.
2016-05-23 22:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you approach your wife when you bring up this issue? have you asked her how she feels about having another child? why she doesn't wanto have another baby? have you suggested she has regular check-ups to ensure her body is healthy, strong and ready for that again? have you perhaps blamed her because you've only had girls so far? if you have, don't you think she'll feel too afraid that she might dissapoint you again? medically speaking whether you have a boy or girl depends on whether the man's sperm splits or not inside the womans' embryo (egg) it is not something the womans' body does. please consider everything carefully and remember if it is that your wife is afraid of dissapointing you then she must really love you.
2007-02-02 19:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by maryamalizmarie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Salim, Please wipe away this thought from your mind because the same problem I am experiencing practically. Even I have 2 daughters and my husband insisted ona boy baby when I could not deliver one he remarried and my family is in a mess now. I and the second wife with her son and I with 2 daughters in the same house is a hell for everyone. Though he has a son he is also not happy because guilty conscious pricks the mind. I sincerely advice you with heart please treat your queens as sons and mind it you will be the happiest person till the end. Once again I remind you please do not dig a grave of misery for yourself.
2007-02-04 18:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by geetha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Salim you are sick.....
why do you want a boy? Is it because you love boys more than girls? Or is it because you feel that he can take care of you when you get old?
If it's cos you love boys more than you are just trying to hide a thaoughts of your mind that the boy is gonna take care of you when you are old. Cos as far as I've seen parents just love their kids. Kids are token of your and your partners love finally. What has the kids gender gotta do with it?
And off course it's cos you think they are gonna take care of you when you get old. I musst ask you first - Ain't you man enough to arrange for your old age? Why do you wanna depend on your child for that? Don't you love your wife? Don't you actually feel that your kids are a token of yours and your wife's love?
Grow up buddy... Even animals don't care about the gender of their offsprings. cos they understand that both the genders are a part of their survival and equally important...
:-)
2007-02-03 04:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Salim bhai, you want to take a boy ,, whose boy u wanna take...the police will come and blow up all this.
You can be fool hardy to have as much children you can support but how you can get a choice is u God. Sex determination of unborn foetus is banned in India and U end up in Jail with the Docter if he does a test.
The 2 girls u have will support. The son ( u wanna TAKE .. if u at all take ) may screw up you and blow up every thing you have
Your wife is smarter than you...
I buck her up she should prevent you as well ...
2007-02-02 18:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by poke_a_man 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean that your wife doesn't want to get pregnant anymore? Will you still afford to have another child? What if it's a girl again? I know one technique if you would like to have a boy.If you're interested, i can share it with you but not here...give me your e-mail add....and also you have to talk this over with your wife...
2007-02-06 15:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Islam never depends on boy or boys. Our Messanger Mohamed Sal-lul-laho-alay-hi wasalam love and blessed very much to daughters Fatima, Rukayya, And Kulsum. Even Allah Subhan taala punish Abu Lahab and his wife when they give lot of troubles Daughter in Laws (Rukayya and Kulsum) in Sura'a Lahab. Don't force your wife for boy.
2007-02-02 18:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give your girls the best education and environment you can afford and you will have made a wiser decision than adopting or having a son.
2007-02-02 18:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋