My battery went out while I was at the gym and this guy whom I sort of like, works there, and i called him and asked him if he could give me a jump because my battert died, and he explained that one of his client's were coming in, but he'll see if he can help me..so he called me back and said, he couldn't because his client was expected to show up any minute , but he did ask around, and one of his co worker's would help me, out...and then after that he went on to explain that he was very sorry, that he wasn't able to give me a jump himself, and that if his client wasn't coming in...he assured me that he would do it himself...now my question is do you think there is more to what he was saying, like does it sound more personal or business, and should that be counted against him considering the fact that he didn't come out and help me anyway...and do you think he likes me...oh no it's not alot to go on..but the fact that he was overexplaining himself as to why he wasn't able to help me
2007-02-02 18:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have another concern..the fact that ..I had an appointment with him today...and when I called to confirm..he tells me that he can't do the appointment ..that he set the time for because he has other people...now keep in mind this session was free..and he never called me before today to let me know that the session would need to be rescheduled..plus.....when I seen him a few days ago..he comes up to me and says oh I'll see you on friday...then I notice that when he'll see me he always asks me why am I leaving and is he the reason for it...
2007-02-02 18:40:03 · update #1
Don't over analyze it. If you like the guy, ask him out.
2007-02-02 18:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bestie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He was just trying to let you know that he wasn't brushing you off and that he really would've helped you. I think he likes you too on a friendship level, not enough to go to say if its more, he seems like if you ask him out he might be receptive. However you shouldn't hold anything against him, you don't know him like that, he's not your man.....yet
2007-02-03 02:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to be nice, since he works there, but he has to work, not help out ladies in distress. If the guy really liked you, he would be trying to talk to you in the gym, not later on the phone.
2007-02-03 02:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be an interest there, on his part, but he may just be a super conscientious guy and very helpful to people in general.
Don't make too much of it just yet, time will tell.........
2007-02-03 02:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Incognito 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that he was over explaining himself. This means something...and not business related. You should spark up andother conversation wtih him.
2007-02-03 02:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just trying to explain himself. don't read anything more from it. you're just going to disappoint yourself.
2007-02-03 02:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
there's no point in not going for it. the worst he could say is no
2007-02-03 02:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by holymonx 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He was just being polite. geez...
2007-02-03 02:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋