Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

there is this kid from mexico in my school and i just finished my first week todayxD
i have hung out with him twice after school so far(now i tutor him on english once a weekkkk) and i kinda like him...butttttt...the catch is...
*he hardly speaks a word of english(en serio!)
*is from the south of mexico and had to miss a year of school to work!!!:'( ... so he probably isn't to good in the money department
*i don't know his financial or family situation and don't wanna impose like "let's go hang out here blah blah blah"...
*don't know if he is in a gang
but one thing i noticed...i dunno...but he has perfect teeth and wears really nice new, name brand or just really nice clothing...like better than other guys...0_0...and i dunno...
r his parents drug dealers or something maybe?0_0
anddd...it's almost v-day...anddd...i know other guys like me fo sure...so should i ask him out0_0
before v-day or school begins?...
or just ask him to hang out?
but where?
please help
thnx
xao

2007-02-02 18:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Actually, I fell in love with my company boss but the fact that he is my employer and is married do I have to pursue this forbnidden love though I felt this way only now as if he is my soul mate.

2007-02-02 18:32:49 · 12 answers · asked by lizashibuya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

listen to a tape of her voice played over and over while I sleep repeating the phrase

"You will obey me my obedient slave and enjoy it, you live only to serve me. I own you completely. Obey me, obey me and only me".

Do other girls do similar things with their boyfriends?

2007-02-02 18:31:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 18:30:52 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Friends

I'm taking a poll. I'm just trying to figure out if I'm crazy, stupid or just in love. I've been with the same man for 14 yrs . Kid wise: His Mine and 2 ours. He was married and divoorced. Me never married. I want to marry him cuz i love him and also want to protect the 2 oldest from their 10 yr absent biological parents. Am I being selfish or is it normal to feel this way? He says he doesn't believe in the instution of mariage and dont need a slip of paper to show that he loves me. i think it's something else. Help anyone?

2007-02-02 18:30:40 · 12 answers · asked by Frankie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend who tend to finish story half way, and giving blurry answers, everything seem to be a mystery about her life, we don't even get to meet her boyfriend. I don't normally push her to answre my questions because that will only aggitate me more. what should i do with this person? also she never seem to have much emotions, no tears, no sadness, just a 'plain' expression

2007-02-02 18:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Friends

I was so in love with a 43 year old man who came into my life a year ago this month.
Im perplexed because he said he loved me was supportive of me and just left me.
Im devastated i dont eat i cry and all i do is think of him.
Im 31.
For the first time i cannot comprehend what is happening to me.
I know he did nt leave me for another woman, im just so heartbroken and im pretty good at getting over things but this is a big set back in my life.
i cannot even breath .

2007-02-02 18:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by jennifer j 1 in Singles & Dating

My son (age 24) is getting married soon. I raised him as a single mom (never married or received child support) and have had a rough time over the years. I feel when my son was young he didn't have what other kids had. I am now an RN, divorced with another child age 13, and have recently bought myself a home. My ex adopted my 1st son when I was married, His biological father died last year.
My son is marrying a wonderful girl who's family has $. My son and girl want to basically pay for their own wedding. Her family has contributed a good amount towards the wedding. I have been able to pay for the honeymoon ( 1 week mexico 5 star all-inclusive), the rehearsal dinner, my younger son's tux etc., and the hor dourves. I don't know but I feel like I look like a cheapskate. Even tho my ex (HIS DAD TO HIM) adopted my son he has not offered to help with anything which hurts me & my son & the younger son. Son says he's OK w/ this. Help w/ suggestions to enhance m y roll for son & girl. THANX

2007-02-02 18:29:58 · 19 answers · asked by Ellyn C 3 in Weddings

What motivates a man to display this behavior?

2007-02-02 18:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a Husband is too conservative and possessive about his wife....like he dont like him to talk males etc....how could u make his mind broad and what he can do himself to change him........is that ever possible...for such a person to completely trust his wife...please note that the wife is a working Medical Doctor..

2007-02-02 18:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by Simple 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just came back from a frat party. It was my first college frat party. The party was 4 hour long, and I got to dance with just 2 girls. 4 girls turned me down. I have to admit I was a little disappointed. I consider myself to be an acceptable looking Asian dude. Although I'm "only" 5'11.5, I am pretty buff and have an athletic body. At least that's what a good girl friend of mine told me. However, the fact that four girls turned me down hurts my ego so much. I actually feel that girls, regardless of race, just don't want Asian dudes. I think stereotypes of weak, stiff Asians are the cause Even a girl of my race refused to dance with me. When a flabby, shorter white dude approached her, she seemed very pleased. My best friend, who is white and danced with lot of girls, told me that I should have gotten drunk before dancing. He was like, "girls don't care if you are yellow or green. You were sober, and when you are sober it's hard. You gotta get loose." I wonder who's right. Me or him.

2007-02-02 18:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay I know this guy and we have been friends for a long time.well me ,him and the some of our friends were just hanging out,then all of a sudden everyone vanished and it was just me and him (so we went to look for them).well we were talking, then all of a sudden he grab me out of nowhere, and he trise to kiss me(keep in mind i have never kissed touched ,or held a boy's hand).Well i kind of paniced and i kicked him in the balls.My question is if kicked you in the balls would you forgive me and what should i do about my friend.I have never been in a relationship so i'm not sure if i'm ready ,or even want to be in one with him.

2007-02-02 18:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by Asha J 2 in Friends

2007-02-02 18:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by Rachael P 1 in Singles & Dating

this valentine day giving me a lot of stress.
Recently, I am fired by my boss and i left with only 80 dollars and the girl i like said she want me to buy her a bouquet of roses if i am pursuing her. sigh ...What should i do ?if i buy her flowers i going to starve for the whole month feb . buy or not bread or butter?

2007-02-02 18:26:10 · 11 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Singles & Dating

He says that she is mentally ill because she is a successful woman, childless, and chooses not to marry. He tells me that women like her who do not want to marry and raise kids have a mental condition. He keeps telling me that she is influencing me to do and say things to him, which is not true (it is his imagination). What can I do to convince him that she is not ill?

2007-02-02 18:26:00 · 7 answers · asked by Lo 1 in Friends

This girl contacted me two weeks to talk to me and invite me out. I couldn't go that night, but I still spoke with her on the phone. She has so far initiated everything. I think she likes me or wants to be my friend. I have not contacted her since we last spoke 2 weeks ago. Is it ok to call her now after having not spoken to her? I feel bad for being rude. She is 7 inches taller than me, so I feel
self-conscious around her.

2007-02-02 18:25:14 · 6 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

I am about to get a devorce from a woman whom had two kids before we got married.She left me and now I have a two bedroom apartment that's $1040.00 a month and it is due as I speak.My transmission just went out and I can get it fixed but only if I use my rent money to do so.Should I break my lease and fix my car then move to a cheaper place?I found a place for 500.00 a month.I don't even have a way back and fourth to work.My co worker takes me to work but how long will this last.I really need my car fixed and everyone is telling me to go to my leasing office and tell them that I can't afford this place anymore because of a devorce and the waist of money being spent on a two bedroom and it is only me.All I need now is just a tiny little place.The bank said that they might be able to help with the repairs but I need to give them 500.00 first.I don't feel good about the banks help because the process could take too long and I need my car fixed now.I brought the car two months ago as is.

2007-02-02 18:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by spice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so this is what happened...

i called the guy and told him that i was attracted to him and he told me "i'm not into the whole dating thing, and you have to understand where i'm coming from...it's not that i don't like you..."

for some reason i am having a hard time believing it. This is the first time i have been rejected and it hurts. how do i act when i see him on monday? its going to be a lot different. i still like him, a lot, and its gonna be tough. i need some help.

2007-02-02 18:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by meme 1 in Singles & Dating

To internet p***? I mean what thing would throw up a red flag that it is time to get help?

2007-02-02 18:21:32 · 8 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok yea but whats happening is the fact that i broke up w/my boyfriend and its been 2months...and i like him and all we still hang out. BUT i cant stop thinkin about him and i cant wait to see him at school the next day, the weekends are like eternity when i dont get to see him, i cant wait for him to get online, he is always goin through my mind about what he is doin, his touch kills me i want to be around him constantly etc.... i broke his heart before and i dont want to do it again...thats why im askin if u guys think im in love... i just dont want to screw up things again... i know i like him im just confuzed

thankz for answers....

2007-02-02 18:21:24 · 15 answers · asked by Star 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this kid at my school and he has a thing for me. everyday he tells my how pretty i am and he wants to date me. but i honestly dont think of him that way. hes not bad looking and he has a really nice car. ha but i think of him more as a friend how do i tell him because its hard because he always tells me nice things like how nice i am and how pretty i am and that any guy would be lucky to date me and that i have a great personality. but kfjskfjsl;kfjksjf



help anyone?

2007-02-02 18:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by awesome 2 in Singles & Dating

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In my free time I like to listen to music. Music is relaxing and it helps me fall asleep. I like it when after a long day of working, I play a song that I love and it helps clear my mind. It's like I don't worry about anything around me but relaxed. I also like music because music helps me fall asleep. Some nights when I can't sleep, I just pop a smooth song and after the first few hours I just fall asleep and wake up latter with so much energy. That’s what I do on my free time.

2007-02-02 18:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sexy, strong, tall, long, smart, fast, big, fresh, hard to not appreciate:).

2007-02-02 18:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it that made this one person different from all the others?

2007-02-02 18:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by icu 6 in Singles & Dating

I love telling all these young people the facts of life they do not understand yet.

2007-02-02 18:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by jeeccentricx2 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, I see people have fun on TV and I look at other peoples myspace pages. Ive never been to a beach, never been to a bar or club, or a movie theatre. Ive been playing World of Warcraft and everquest before that since I was 14, (i'm 22 now), and all I do is work. When I was in college I expected to make a friend like people on TV go to parties and make friends but I never made one or been to a party. Is all this just TV? Is life really just nothing? All I do now is go to work and sleep.. and its lonely. I don't have anyone to talk to.

2007-02-02 18:14:45 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

is all my fault ,i dont have another woman and im 50 years old

2007-02-02 18:12:15 · 25 answers · asked by al bc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright....i'm 14 and i'm in love with one of my closest friends. I have no clue if i should tell her or not because i love her and id rather be friends with her than nothing at all....and if i tell her she'll either freak or will tell me that she likes me....im pretty sure she likes me but doesnt love me....and if she doesnt love me and we go out for a while....we're probably going to brake up and then never going to be friends again...i feel like a loser typing in my problems online but im really stuck and don't know what to do...

2007-02-02 18:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved away from my family when I was 16 due to alot of things i guess you could say and basicly who I am has been far from perfect but My friends tell me they look up to me, and that scares me in a way because I dont know why. Im not trying to brag. It really does confuse me to be looked up to because I dont want people to lessen who they are because of me. When I moved away and came to the town I live in now it seemed to be the same way. Im ashamed to take away peoples glory and scared for people to like me. Im confident yeah and I do like who I am, but it seems people like me too fast and Im not used to that. this must sound ridiculous but alot of people have died in my life and there really has been alot of pain, in a way I feel as though I drove it to happen even if I didnt. Im lost as to whether or not my fear is validated. any opinions?

2007-02-02 18:11:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If not, then why is it wrong for a 20 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl? People just assume they're pervs then.

2007-02-02 18:10:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating