okay I know this guy and we have been friends for a long time.well me ,him and the some of our friends were just hanging out,then all of a sudden everyone vanished and it was just me and him (so we went to look for them).well we were talking, then all of a sudden he grab me out of nowhere, and he trise to kiss me(keep in mind i have never kissed touched ,or held a boy's hand).Well i kind of paniced and i kicked him in the balls.My question is if kicked you in the balls would you forgive me and what should i do about my friend.I have never been in a relationship so i'm not sure if i'm ready ,or even want to be in one with him.
2007-02-02 18:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by Asha J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow... I admire your reflexes!
I do have say that you are obviously not ready for a relationship with a guy if this is your reaction.. As for the dude with the sore balls, he has probably learnt a very valuable lesson! Don't mess with girls! I would maybe go and see him just to be sure he's ok, take a friend if your not comfortable, tell him your sorry. If you think you like him, tell him that he might get a nicer reaction if he tries again!
I'm sure once the pain factor goes away, he too will see the funny side to this story...
2007-02-02 19:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by psycho_faerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, apologize, explained that you were not sure how to react and that perhaps ball-kicking was not the best option, and then handle the attraction deal. If you see him as just a friend, politely explain that. Unfortunately that could mean the end of the friendship and/or plenty of discomfort, but this sort of situation is somewhat common and you aren't alone.
2007-02-03 02:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all-- Whoa.
My opinion is that he should've asked how YOU felt about him before kissing you. He went way too fast. But.. the ball-kicking wasn't such a great idea either :|
Well, tell him that you're not ready, that's all. And if he really likes you, he'll understand and back off until you're ready or whatever.
2007-02-03 04:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha! Nice goin' girl! People should bow down and kiss your feet. Kidding. I've punched a guy in the arms once cuz he held my hand w/out permission. A good solid punch. I never tried to kick his balls tho. If it happens to me, i'll probably just ignore the guy cuz he tried to take advantage on me. He deserves it! But, to show that you're "concern", just apologize and say that it's a reflex thing when you're panick.
2007-02-03 02:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shayna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off "great reflexs!!!" Secondly it was a set up with his friends so he could be alone with you. You did the right thing. Nothing to forgive.
2007-02-03 02:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Haven17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well kickin the guy in the balls is extreme but i know what its like when u havent like kissed anyone yet so just talk it over w/him tell him that u hadnt kissed anyone and u freaked.... hopefully he'll understand..
wish u and him luck!
2007-02-03 02:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was kinda mean. well, you should go over to him, apologize him, then ask him if he forgives you. if he says no. then say, ok, thanx, bye, and send him flowers and chocolate on valentines day. if he says yes, then kiss him. again. sorta
2007-02-03 02:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive. You must of been defending yourself. n
2007-02-03 02:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry , if he really cares , then he will forgive u
2007-02-03 02:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by fAlCoN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was mean..but you don't have to apologoze..it's his fault..you juz taught him some respect.
2007-02-03 03:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by abbz enken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋