ok yea but whats happening is the fact that i broke up w/my boyfriend and its been 2months...and i like him and all we still hang out. BUT i cant stop thinkin about him and i cant wait to see him at school the next day, the weekends are like eternity when i dont get to see him, i cant wait for him to get online, he is always goin through my mind about what he is doin, his touch kills me i want to be around him constantly etc.... i broke his heart before and i dont want to do it again...thats why im askin if u guys think im in love... i just dont want to screw up things again... i know i like him im just confuzed
thankz for answers....
2007-02-02 18:21:24 · 15 answers · asked by Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you are in love
You should see if you can repair his broken heart and maybe you two could get back together, I think he likes you very much too.
Good Luck
2007-02-02 18:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're actually not in love...because if you were you would have never broken his heart in the first place. What's happening to you right now is that, now that you two are not together or can't have him right now, you want him more! We all want things we can't have...even if you could start dating him again, you still can't have him (because you don't want to hurt him again). Make sense? It's cool to "think about him all the time" cause I remember what it was like to be in a high school relationship...just don't hurt yourself in the process!
2007-02-02 18:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like infatuation to me. When you're truly in love you'll know- true love knocks you over like a ton of bricks. I used to doubt myself or idealize a guy just because I was in love with idea of being in love, because romance is fun. But when I met my husband over 8 years ago I was like okay so this is what love is! So my advice is to have fun but be careful with your heart and other peoples hearts. Just because its not love doesn't mean it hurts any less, or that there can't be mixed feelings involved. When in doubt treat others with the same respect and honesty you expect in return.
2007-02-02 18:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by firecracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u definately love this guy so you should show him how u feel write him cute littl enote or have serious talk with him. If you are feeling these things for him you shouldnt keep them to yourself. whats the worst thing that can happen ... he'll tell you he doesnt feel the same way and you will most likely still be friends if ur still friends after u broke up.
good luck with it!
2007-02-02 18:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is not love, love will have no meaning!!!You broke up on some reason convincing only to you but now realise that it was you who was responsible for that. You repent and the inner love doubles itself. You crave for the person but does not dare to express it for the fear of loosing him!!! Don't be afraid, be open to him. He has not hidden anything from you but you have!!! Make it fast, lest he may unknowingly jeopardise your interests!!
2007-02-02 18:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...I'm saying that your not in love but just infatuated. yes it is going to be tough getting through a break up, trust me. but it has only been 2 months hunn. give it some time to settle. my ex and i broke up 5 months ago and i didn't get over him for a long time but when i look back and think about it...i didn't love him, it's almost like our flesh tries to make it seem like it's our spirit...taunting us with desires that seem good but will only last for a short period of time. if you don't understand feel free to message me. I'd love to help you. melissa.
2007-02-02 18:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by meme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional. If you want to be with him no matter what he does, it's love. If he is the only one you want to be with, it's love.
However, if you only want to be around him when he's "cool", it's not love. If you feel the need to go out with other boys, it's not love. And finally, if you can't be just as happy with him when he's broke as you are when he has money, it definitely is not love.
2007-02-02 18:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Rut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're mad about the guy! It sounds like you're in love to me!
Maybe you should talk to him, tell him you still have feelings for him, tell him that you regret breaking his heart, and you want to know if he feels the same about you......maybe you might even want to try again.
As for screwing things up, thats up to you!
Good-Luck
2007-02-02 18:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by bynni_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre totally in love.
Im so jealous of you for having someone to love so much.
You gotta do something.
Time will never stop, and it keeps on moving.
Start from the start again.
Put your memories with in your heart somewhere.
good luck
2007-02-02 18:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you just miss doing things with him. Love is wanting the other person to be happy. That's why sometimes they call it work. You want to do things for him. All your story says is that you miss him, so my guess is you don't know what to do with your free time.
2007-02-02 18:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋