so this is what happened...
i called the guy and told him that i was attracted to him and he told me "i'm not into the whole dating thing, and you have to understand where i'm coming from...it's not that i don't like you..."
for some reason i am having a hard time believing it. This is the first time i have been rejected and it hurts. how do i act when i see him on monday? its going to be a lot different. i still like him, a lot, and its gonna be tough. i need some help.
2007-02-02 18:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by meme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like what they can't have. Drop him.
The best thing you can do for your own sanity and to get over him is to just pretend and act like you don't like him at all.
You'll either:
A.) Make him realize what he's missing, or:
B.) Fall for your own lie and make it a reality.
You can do better. So act like it. Trust me, you'll feel a lot better if you just change your mindset.
2007-02-02 18:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by extremecentrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a hard question. I believe everyones been there no matter how wonderful they are or how good looking they are. But the one thing you shouldn't do is keep forcing it or pushing the issue. Thats only going to make him pull further away from you. When you see him, Just act casual, say your hellos but don't let him know it's bothering you. Guys are funny that way .. if you pull yourself away and act like if doesnt phase you, he'll probably come back looking for more attention. It's proven right in my case. There are reasons for everything. Just pick yourself up, find another hottie and move on lol. In the end its going to be his loss right =] best luck babe
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2007-02-03 02:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by CaLAbresE bEauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its part of life. its gonna be tough but u need to get through it. I and other people have gone through it. just be around people u care about and do things that make u happy. good luck
2007-02-03 02:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of sumthing about him dat u wud turn u off so dat u will start not to like him slowly...like maybe he has dirty toe nails or a bad breath...i tried it once and it worked!
i once like dis guy who doesn't feel d same way to me, so he courted 1 of my friend...den one time i just saw on his face this big scars of pimples which i didnt notice b4...since dat day, i feel disgusted and i started not to like him & avoid him afterwards...i always kept that in mind and it really tunred-me off! ufff!!! :-P
2007-02-03 02:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me too... all i did was that i acted like before , nothing should change about you! dont feel like a looser nor like a rude person !
2007-02-03 02:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋