I'm 45,divorced. He's 52. We fell in love, I moved in. Before I moved in he made me believe that he made great money and all was well. He gave his house to his ex-wife, and now does not own a home. He said it wasn't important. When I inquired, he said he would buy again if that was important to me. After I moved in, sensing something wasn't right, began to find out he only made enough to pay the bills and it wasn't enough, he went through all his savings, no way he can buy a house now and today after getting something in the mail, I had to really question him only to find out he owed the IRS money from years ago. He said he didn't want me to think less of him. That is why he didn't tell me. He has serious health problems, now he's been unable to have any sex due to extreme exhaustion for 5 months. I have been on disability and now says I have to work for the $. I knew he wasn't rich, but I am really scared to marry him now. He admits to being self-destructive and feels hopeless. Help!
2007-02-02
19:08:47
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