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How many times and for how long each time should you have sex before it stops hurting. I've had sex twice and my boyfriend is overly nice about it, but i want the pressure to stop so i can enjoy it, anyone have any ideas/information?

2007-02-02 19:01:52 · 14 answers · asked by whyy_nottt 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

this is important...take ur time..dont let him hurry on you...let him know when u are comfortable...then tell him to finger you..before he goes inside you..make urself comfortable..

2007-02-02 19:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by gladiator o 1 · 0 0

Sex is not a matter of mathematics. How many times does not come into it. Sex is about love and caring for the other person. That also means there must be communication. Have a nice talk with your boyfriend as it may be a matter of inexperience. You should not submit to pressure.
Dare to sat 'no'.

2007-02-03 03:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well to start off try to go at a speed that is good for you. Some people like fast and others slow. Plus every speed in the middle. But if it still hurts it might be the condom that might , or might not, be used. or try different types of lubes and/or ways to have sex. Ex. you top or him top. But you just have to try different things in order to find out what is best for you. But the pain should stop soon.

2007-02-03 03:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by ~L~ 2 · 0 0

I have been having sex with the same man since i was 18 and I'm 20 now it still hasn't stopped no matter how we do it. Go to the doctor their might be something wrong with you. I am just to small for him they said maybe it will be the same with you.

2007-02-03 03:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0 0

Listen, I had this problem and I spoke to my gyn doctor about it. She said that men are ready in seconds and it takes us longer than them to reach that point. Therefore he needs to get you ready by doing some foreplay. You can add some KY jelly for the comfort. It will help with the pressure and he needs to be more gentle with you as well.

2007-02-03 03:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by michellej 2 · 0 0

If you have any questions go see your family GP. A healthy sex life is too important not to seek help now before resentment and apprehension prevent you and your partners full enjoyment.

2007-02-03 03:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Flab 3 · 0 0

usally after the fisrt couple of times it shouldnt hurt anymore..mabey you should go see a doctor about that, it is very important to be comfortable while being intamite with someone. mabey you and your boyfriend should wait till the proper time to have sex, mabey your not ready yet! visit this website it should help!

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2007-02-03 03:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by calimami 2 · 0 0

It hurts becouse of your boyfriend , make him more gentle, and dont be quick with the act, the prelude is more important,not the numbers of how many time you do it...and relax...tell him you like slowest...he has to obey to you...

2007-02-03 03:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by bazbaz 2 · 0 0

do it as many times u want... but at each instance... take long time to get to d orgasm.. try different positions... stop in between intercourse to suck and lick... both of u shoul enjoy and thats sex...

2007-02-03 06:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rico 2 · 0 0

it's not supposed to hurt at all!!!
Are you stimulated enough before he sticks it in?
It should just feel good and get better and better....from the start.

2007-02-03 03:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jungle Luv 5 · 0 0

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